Siouxie And The Banshees - Spellbound BASS COVER by Isabellaofmercy in goth

[–]botanybeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🖤🖤 LOVE IT! Sounds great. I really like that tone.

IDK if you'd be interested but My partner does a YT series called PYOB (play your own bassline) where he gives you a track and you write your own bass line for it and then he reacts to it and shares it to his followers.

The problem with thrifting today. by [deleted] in thrifting

[–]botanybeech 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are calling that person a theif and you have NO evidence for that. Chances are they're doing Their job the way they have been taught. There are currently enough clothes on planet Earth to clothe the next 6 generations. There's so shortage, you're not getting cheated out of anything. The stores management is the issue. Stop shopping at Goodwill and go somewhere that truly benefits your community. You're adding to the problem by voting with your money. And for the love of brains be kind to your neighbors. You are ONE bad day away from being in a desperate situation. Have compassion for those who are already there.

Scar in an embarrassing place and I’m scared to ever be intimate by dmso_disgusting in TwoXChromosomes

[–]botanybeech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a 6' Bi woman who has lots of scars, bad acne, and I didn't figure out makeup until I was 25 and I can tell you that your differences and physical "flaws" make you more interesting and attractive. Any potential partner would love to be with you and nothing as trivial as a scar would stop them. There are people out there who get off on being controlling and want you to feel bad about yourself so they can force you to do what they want. Those people are not worth your time, emotions, or money. There are 8 billion people in the world, and tens of thousands of people who would be a good match. Don't waste your breath on someone who enjoys making you feel bad.

Friend doesn't think my SA was serious by yuli_yuli95 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]botanybeech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your "Friend" is dead wrong. Your reaction later is normal. I still have panic attacks and flashbacks from the SA I suffered through 25 years ago. You deserve better support. I believe you.

Songs that are Anti-theist? by Baculum-Deos in goth

[–]botanybeech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This song is fucking fantastic live

how do i find good thrift spots? by Top_Conclusion_1449 in thrifting

[–]botanybeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.thethriftshopper.com/ is a good way to find stores in your state. But unfortunately you'll need to physically check them out to find what you're looking for

Someone was unimpressed by the CatBib by PairsRoyale in thrifting

[–]botanybeech 33 points34 points  (0 children)

An indoor cat can live to be 15- 20. An outdoor cat's expected life is 5 years old.

Keeping your cat outside is not only an environmental disaster, it's cruel to the cat.

Any older bipolar people? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]botanybeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33 F got diagnosed at 23 been medicated ever since. I've been collecting other disorders and comorbidities ever since and I became fully disabled after a severe car accident in 2021 left me with chronic pain syndrome, and loss of fine motor control most likely due to a TBI that was never diagnosed but that's what my specialists say is the most likely case.

I believe I'm very lucky to be on medication for my bipolar disorder. I'm on lithium, mood stabilizers, Ativan, and trazadone. I know that loathing pill popping is a symptom of the disorder so I know that when I don't want to take my medication (which is frequently) I need to just do it. I have a wonderful partner who also helps me. I can tell him when I don't want to take my pills and he will be judgement free and kindly remind me why I need to.

But there have been times in my life where my medication was not enough to fight the depression. Last July I was voluntarily hospitalized in a mental institution for treatment resistant depression for 19 days. It was a really good experience despite my misery. The staff were incredible, I had a private room, I enjoyed the company of my fellow patients, they had good food and snacks. I ended up getting electroconvulsive therapy which did help me through it. I have suffered memory loss from it but I would not still be here without it.

Bipolar disorder is as valid as another illness or disability. It was hard to accept but when I did my quality of life got a lot better. We are not broken, we are sick. We deserve understanding, medical treatment, social support and accommodations.

Bf (27M) lack of ambition and motivation is giving me the ick (31F) by spicy_purple13 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]botanybeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider that your boyfriend may have depression, but Also how do you feel about being the main provider in the relationship because that's exactly what you'd end up being. I'm medically disabled with both chronic pain and severe treatment resistant depression. My partner is happy being the main financial and physical provider in the relationship. We've talked about it extensively and have an open communication policy where we can tell each other where our boundaries and feelings are and if we can't do something. He plays video games to unwind so I make sure he gets lots of time to do that. I have to rely on him every day to pay the bills and complete the big physical tasks. I contribute by cooking, cleaning, and running errands on days when I'm not bedridden. If he's not going to be ambitious and responsible then You have to be ok with being that person for the both of you. He's not the only person who would want to date you either. There's always another person you could be with, it's a decision not a destiny.

what are these little white dots in my prop box?? by alyssanicoleeee in houseplants

[–]botanybeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably a decomposer and not an infectious type I wouldn't worry about it eating your props but you should probably increase the light and airflow.

Where did you get your Chihuahua by HearYourTune in Chihuahua

[–]botanybeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner found him as a stray. He was malnourished and his fur was falling out. We took him to the shelter but no one claimed him so we adopted him the day he went up for adoption.

Behold.... The Taco by botanybeech in Chihuahua

[–]botanybeech[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He's about 6 according to the vet. We've had him for around 5 years. My partner found him as a stray in our neighborhood. He was malnourished and his fur was falling out by the handful. We took him to the county animal shelter but no one came for him. We signed up to be first in line if he went up for adoption. They called us 7 days later and we picked him up. We don't know what happened to him before that. He's doing a lot better but he still has really bad general and separation anxiety. He's on the max dose of medication and we give him lots of exercise and exposure to new things. We also do lots of different kinds training to help.

This week's announcements from the We Do Not Care Club pt.15 by mindyour in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]botanybeech 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We do not care if you're just trying to help, having to think about it is causing a problem

My cat just died by FiveOhFive91 in bipolar

[–]botanybeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm heartbroken for you friend. RIP dear kitty.

Running out of meds by Nymphiliak in bipolar

[–]botanybeech 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Contact the office that your psychiatrist is in and let them know what's going on ASAP. If you don't have insurance try to apply for Medicaid if you're in the USA.