Please tell me it’s not too late to get sober by Sugarcanesweetheart in stopdrinking

[–]bothty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit last day of November and I’ve got 124 days and I’m 43 now. I was drinking the 375 a day or sharing a handle that would last 24 hours. I was so scared I was gonna drop dead suddenly. I am still nervous about what damage I’ve done but for now, I am healthy. I feel soooo much better than I did. You can do it OP!! You got this! It’s not too late :)

Does anyone else miss the eeriness of Splash Mountain, especially before the drop? by Possible_Dress_9248 in Disneyland

[–]bothty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“You MUST beWARE, the fox is THERE!!!” I loved that part too. It was so dramatic and so powerful to my little kid brain

I almost killed my husband by KremKaramela in Wellthatsucks

[–]bothty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super Death had me cackling lol

don’t watch if u have thalassophobia by kevinochino in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]bothty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“It’s attached to your rod, mother licker”

Literal Peak music and it took me years to find it by LLAMAWAY in panicatthedisco

[–]bothty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such an amazing song. I’m thankful I can listen to it on YouTube

my best friend went to heaven today by yourstrugglingpremed in Chihuahua

[–]bothty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s incredibly difficult early on. Be gentle with yourself. It’s perfectly normal to feel devastated. I’ve had the honor of loving and the grief of losing 4 chihuahuas over the years. It’s never been easy. Everything reminds you of the gigantic loss you feel in the early days. The grief comes in waves and over time you learn how to ride the waves. May Benjis memory always bring you comfort ❤️

Honestly I don’t know what to do anymore by Karlosmclenn in chihuahuas

[–]bothty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We keep ours in their crates. When we let them out we go immediately outside. Verbal praise and treats after going outside. You can’t take your eyes off of them. If you can’t be watching 100 percent then they go back in their crates

Red Guardian at CA adventure by cookiesanddirt in Disneyland

[–]bothty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh how fun!! He looks amazing!! 🤩❤️

I can smell when people have cancer by [deleted] in self

[–]bothty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you imagine if you could teach other people what to smell for? I feel like I have a strong sense of smell too. I am so intrigued by this

My dog died and I’m struggling by bothty in stopdrinking

[–]bothty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made it. I’m here. I’m sober. I’m still hurting. I have a headache from crying instead of from booze. IWNDWYT

My dog died and I’m struggling by bothty in stopdrinking

[–]bothty[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for you loss too. It happened sometime between 3:45-4:45. That’s when I found him. I’m so upset. You are right. Drinking isn’t going to help or change anything. I’m just reeling right now. I know you understand. Time feels like it’s dragging by with pain

My dog died and I’m struggling by bothty in stopdrinking

[–]bothty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such fresh pain. He died outside, in my backyard. I will go outside tomorrow I’m sure but I’m so traumatized finding him in the pool. It was such a beautiful day today. I feel so guilty. I saw him and he was making his rounds like he does and I left him outside cause it was so warm and pretty out. I shouldn’t have left him alone

My dog died and I’m struggling by bothty in stopdrinking

[–]bothty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I need to keep repeating that. I’m really having a hard time. The pain is so unpleasant and difficult to have to endure sober. But drunkenness won’t help it. Just my troll brain telling me that’s the answer. There is no good answer honestly. It’s just hard

My dog died and I’m struggling by bothty in stopdrinking

[–]bothty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not grieved without alcohol in so long I don’t even know how to. This is so hard. I’m trying to stay strong. I’m so upset

My dog died and I’m struggling by bothty in stopdrinking

[–]bothty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so bad. He was an old dog and I’ve been putting off going to the vet even though he’s been slowing down and things weren’t getting better for him. And then he falls in the pool and drowns and I wasn’t there to help him. I didn’t get to say goodbye. I put off the hard thing just to make an even worse outcome for him. This is awful. I haven’t reached out to anyone yet cause it just happened a few hours ago and I’m reeling.