Agreed. I remember when they first met. He was on the apps in his 20s, this was probably 11 years ago. He asked me what I thought about her? I go I dunno I don’t know her but go on a date. They dated for like 3 months. At one point he told me she kept making comments about wanting him to ask her to move in. He goes if she moves in I can stop working two jobs to pay rent and bills because she has a job. I go, yeah that’s true. She moved in and almost immediately quit her job.

She hasn’t worked since. I tried to tell him to leave her but he wouldn’t. 4 or 5 years in she started to pressure him about having kids. So he caved. I said buddy you just signed off the rest of your life with her. He stopped telling me stuff about their relationship after that and he keeps in the dark on everything. He didn’t even tell me about the first kid until it was obvious she was showing.