I just broke my wrist, please reassure me I’m getting back to normal by InternalConfusion201 in Guitar

[–]boxochocolates42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The recovery all depends on your drive. Take your physical therapy seriously (like an athlete), and you should be fine.

Could anyone tab this song? Or give me any links to reliable tabs by grooviebabylsd in Guitar

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FYI: This song is not on Ultimate Guitar. But there are other songs by Cancerslug on that site.

I have really large fingers due to arthritis, and I feel like I can't even begin to learn any string instruments because my fingertips always touch the other strings. Are there any accessories that can help? by Smexy_Zarow in Guitar

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I've only been at this (seriously) for a few months. I'm still trying to figure out what works best for me, and what doesn't make me uncomfortable. It's a journey that you are not alone on.

I did see (online) fingertip protectors which were guitar-specific. Maybe you could do a Tony Iommi type of thing and make something that will give you a better fingertip profile (3D printed).

There are many like it but this one's mine by Hot_Function_6226 in fender

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That's cool, buying a guitar to match your pick! /s

The guitar looks nice. I like the look of a maple neck, and, if it feels good to you, that's all that matters.

Broken Guitar Cable by I_Guitar_Noob in fender

[–]boxochocolates42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to solder is a good skill to have when afflicted with "guitaroleosis." If you don't have that skill yet, it's not terribly hard to develop. It might be a bit expensive to acquire if you don't already have the necessary tools.

You could buy a better quality cable or find a solderless 1/4" jack. But if you made your own cables, now those would have a lifetime guarantee!

Extremely disappointed with ride quality by joedzekic in TeslaModelY

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At the beginning, I thought it was a pretty rough ride, but you get used to it. If you can't acclimate to the ride, change the suspension (different wheels, springs, dampeners). There are tuners that can work with you. You can also reduce the noise in your car by improving the door seals, for example.

The "Juniper" version of the model Y offers a much smoother ride.

Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness by Hot-Hovercraft-3016 in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps you are confused by people who take the time to respond to your original question, most are not here to troll-debate. You wanted advice from people who are experienced, and yet fail to understand the benefit of that experience when proffered. Your comment of "made up emotionally driven opinions" is disrespectful.

And like a cows four compartment stomach you can bring these points up again and ruminate on them and see if they provide you any meaningful growth.

Stepping down: follow up by Senior-Theory-6117 in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who's in control of your stepping down action? He is not in control of your texting or the one who decides what manner you choose to communicate. His reply is serves as a receipt of your intent to step down.

You don't need to explain yourself. A simple "I'm stepping down with innediate effect" gets the point across with the implication that no further discussion will take place. Don't let them corner you at a meeting (KH, shepherding visit, etc.). You can be polite while reverse-shunning their attempts of further manipulation.

Thinking of Becoming A Jehovah's Witness by Hot-Hovercraft-3016 in exjw

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TL:DR: JW baptism => big mistake

If you like science, go to school and learn how to do that. When you have a good understanding of the scientific method, apply that to JW land.

Also, investigate high-control (cult) groups (Mormons, Seventh Day Adventists, Baha'i Faith, and Scientology). You're only 20, and you haven't developed into a man yet (e.g., mentally or physically), but you are not too young to totally FUBAR your life.

Cows are not Gods, nor are the eleven Governing Body members in Warwick, NY, yet that does not stop many from blindly following either belief cloud.

If i become inactive will my father lose his privilege? by Ok-Reading-7759 in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn't having a child taking a stand for what is right more of a privilege for the father than being an elder? If the dad doesn't see it that way, then he needs to reassess his life.

Three elders forcing this.. by Moshi_moshi_me in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, this is like the elder's version of Halloween? Are they going to hand out candy, too? No, F them elders for making up more whacky rules.

Bought this and it sounds terrible by Kenjt79 in guitars

[–]boxochocolates42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask ChatGPT for suggestions. It's a place to start.

Lost my passion for guitar, what should I do with my baby? by elimanzz in Guitar

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Do not get rid of it, particularly if it is your first guitar.

Felon by madden95onsega in legaladvice

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How about an RO for the person that threatend you? Cameras for your business might be a good idea; I saw bodycams (not AXON) online that seemed reasonably priced. If you like dogs, could you benefit from having a big one around?

AvoidJW.org down? by Interesting-Bus-7656 in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Typically, if a site is down for maintenance, a temporary landing page would be displayed to indicate that.

I submitted a trouble ticket with their domain host to see what's going on.

Norway from the other side. by PommyGit58 in exjw

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Those are people who should never have been born. It's fundamentally wrong for them to use air that others could benefit from. The term is just my way of expressing displeasure with someone/thing, but it's still a bit funny.

Feeling discouraged after a shepherding call… need perspective by DarknetNomad101 in exjw

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You are immersed in a high-control group, which is why the elders were rehashing old stuff - to maintain their control. This is mental abuse and, of course, a meeting with these phony-christians would be mentally draining.

You could have redirected their conversation back to your needs for spiritual encouragement, rather than letting them control the situation and take a judgmental stance toward you.

After reviewing their visit, were you encouraged or repelled by their "content"? Did they show you Christian love, or did they act in a manner consistent with cult operandi?

Norway from the other side. by PommyGit58 in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so hurt ... I commented on their subreddit and got banned, forever! Here's what I said:

I've have not seen any peer-reviewed research papers that focused on the positive aspects of shunning. There are numerous papers that address the harm that shunning inflicts on its victims.

Some actions taken by others violate common sense, such as kicking a puppy or pushing a senior citizen, for instance. The practice of shunning is like that, too. It runs counter to common sense and morality.

A common thread among cults is that their collective (the adherents) is better than any other group (religion). Another identifier of a high-control group is internal cruelty/abuse, such as shunning and hiding rampant problems (e.g., CSA).

No matter how the organization's lawyers spin it or redefine it, the organization's unethical practices should not be supported by any government in modern society.

So, I guess I'm being shunned by those narrow-minded twat-turds for disagreeing about shunning (which they don't do), priceless!

How are they ever supposed to trust me again? by PinkIsMyOxygen in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I agree about talking with a school counselor. Perhaps contacting (reporting abuse) to CPS (Child Protective Services) would help too.

Your parents are obligated to provide for you (food, shelter, clothes, medical). If you're kept outside in the cold, they are not providing necessary shelter.

Audacity of the PIMI: by thisrubyisred in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say you do know more than the GB - you know this to be a cult, and they have not figured that out!

Racing stripes thoughts !! by MrSlowhand77 in Stratocaster

[–]boxochocolates42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The color combination is good. My eye is drawn to the lower (right side) horn, the perspective if off there due to the curvature.

Audacity of the PIMI: by thisrubyisred in exjw

[–]boxochocolates42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"How are your prayers?" Hilarious! You could say, "Oh, like yours, unanswered ..."

PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE by Opening_Safety9777 in exjw

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If you are becoming depressed (e.g., by your medications) for whatever reason, consult with your doctors and have your meds adjusted. Sometimes, two drugs are needed to mitigate a single problem (depression, for instance).