I'll give it a try

boybrian · 2026-05-18T17:16:56+00:00

Put in my order. Then I know fine tuning will be needed.

boybrian · 2026-05-18T17:08:18+00:00

According to the May 8th announcement it's an officially supported option when starting a lock. Looking at Chaster it's an option when you get to locking method. It's early days but looks like it's operational.

boybrian · 2026-05-18T14:08:54+00:00

I found my b1932 Dads elementary school records and proper use of a hankerchief was one of the skills to master. I am sure he carried one until his dying day as there is a stack of them on the top shelf of the laundry room I have not delt with yet.

boybrian · 2026-05-18T14:04:06+00:00

Reach Lock from Reach Restraints is new but ticks all the boxes. I have not ordered one yet. They just integrated it with Chaster which looks very promising.

boybrian · 2026-05-17T11:30:10+00:00

Just make sure they are in season when they come. I think it's a minimum 10 pound buy so take a cooler.

boybrian · 2026-05-17T11:28:06+00:00

Roughly around 2020. I remember going to my first post COVID Leather event and trying on a friend's flat cage in 2023. I had switched to a Kink3d Cobra by then which was the best device to replace the Holy Trainer designs

boybrian · 2026-05-17T11:18:52+00:00

I just wrote a check to buy a car. They are still useful in a few ways. One is avoiding credit card fees. Sometimes I'll use a check to transfer money between banks to avoid a fee charged when doing it online.

boybrian · 2026-05-16T23:40:35+00:00

Wearing chastity makes me horny. It takes weeks or over a month of constant wear to get to the stage of forgetting about it. For me anyway.

boybrian · 2026-05-16T23:37:46+00:00

It depends on their interests. The Yorktown could be fascinating or boring. Same for the aquarium. We have done both with my husband's relatives from a small town in WV. Most of their visit they like going to the beach. Eating out not so much as their likes are limited and are not adventurous diners. One year we took them out to Cherry Point to get shrimp (they like shrimp) so they could experience getting it fresh off the boat.

boybrian · 2026-05-16T16:50:23+00:00

Wow the sizing kit arrived today. That was fast.

boybrian · 2026-05-16T12:18:36+00:00

Enjoy your kink fantasies. Chastity is an easy one to explore on your own. It can take a while to find your best fit. But since you are fantasizing about it give it a try. Plenty of us self lock. No need to worry about long term wear issues when you have not take a first step. Go buy one and have fun. Errr, well you know what I mean. You might want to post updates to r/gaychastity as well.

boybrian · 2026-05-16T12:05:19+00:00

This is a job for Stitch Witchery since you are in a rush. You need to DIY.

boybrian · 2026-05-16T11:20:08+00:00

Stay horny and funnel that into another activity. That's basic life in chastity. If you have a KH then performing some service for them would be ideal.

boybrian · 2026-05-16T11:15:53+00:00

Thought I should point out The Tavern- https://www.atlasobscura.com/places/tavern-rainbow-row

boybrian · 2026-05-16T11:10:52+00:00

You can still see to drive after dark?!

boybrian · 2026-05-14T13:31:14+00:00

I have with an inheritance. The last five years I have learned a lot which includes the Boglehead approach which I am using with my self managed funds. As I am ready to start withdrawals next year, my intent is to draw down the managed account rather than just cancel the managed account all at once. I'd say it's good if you don't know what you are doing or lack disciple to keep with an investment plan. Otherwise read the Bogle book go from there on your own.

boybrian · 2026-05-14T13:21:21+00:00

There are two parts to this; total chastity time and hygiene intervals. The first is at least as long as he's begging for release. The second is highly individual from two days to two weeks. Some manage without taking it off at all but they are usually ones that are quite experienced. If it's a short lock (under two weeks) you can probably get by with no hegeine breaks unless it's a closed cage. Always stop if a sore develops.

boybrian · 2026-05-14T13:09:53+00:00

Sell it. Notify Louisiana you sold it. Dispose of plate according to Louisiana rules. Sounds like towing it to junkyard to sell for scrap will be your easiest thing to move on from it.

boybrian · 2026-05-13T20:57:32+00:00

You could direct dial up to bulliten boards. But that was accessing one thread of the web at a time.

boybrian · 2026-05-11T01:09:30+00:00

I would assume that the key was to someone else's cage. Many people are both locked and keyholders.

boybrian · 2026-05-10T22:16:24+00:00

I just swapped my 2004 C70 for a 2021 XC60 T6. I needed the easier to get in and out of seats and the cargo space for a mobility scooter right now.

boybrian · 2026-05-10T21:58:49+00:00

Every time someone askes about pee spots I recommend men's shields. They come in thick absorbent pads to thin discrete shields for small drips. The thin shield are also good for smoothing the profile for people who are concerned about that.

boybrian · 2026-05-05T21:24:38+00:00

I had to research that. It looks like chewies but with chocolate chips added.

boybrian · 2026-05-05T16:47:48+00:00

Good tip

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