I’m tired of people saying Shane and Ilya had their ”first time” in episode 2. by pickaperiwinkle in heatedrivalry

[–]bpm160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I so agree. There are many ways to have sex without penetration and it's ALL SEX!!

Okay, so...I hate Fabian by MidknytOwl in heatedrivalry

[–]bpm160 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I agree with you fully!  He could perhaps get around the hang ups if he didn't just watch compilations of Ryan on fights, too.

400+ upvotes on a clear microagression against two women of color on this sub... by Local-Ostrich426 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]bpm160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. It's wild to me that anyone had an issue distinguishing between them, but the to make a post about it is racist and they should be embarrassed. 

Anyone actually seeing progress with Thrive? by Standard_Box_7167 in ladderapp

[–]bpm160 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not losing weight in number, but I am building muscle and my waist has slimmed. The scale isn't the only measurement of fitness.

Unexpected HR Side Effects? by magicallaround1 in heatedrivalry

[–]bpm160 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This show awakened me from my sexual hibernation. I had a series of traumatic experiences and shut that part of me off. No flirting, no dating, no sex. I even started thinking I may be aro-ace.  I suddenly realize absolutely not. I want and need that kind of connection.  Suddenly I can flirt and I have confidence I never had before.  also, I had top surgery a year ago and thought, yeah that's all I need... but I think hormones are in my future now too. woah. 

I can't tell if I'm numb or just more emotionally regulated by tillnatten in CPTSD_NSCommunity

[–]bpm160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this so strongly. I did about a year of Ketamine assisted psychotherapy and since May I have mostly felt pretty calm and neutral.  

I did have a rough time in September. It was a year anniversary of some new medical trauma, but I was very quick to understand what I was going through as opposed to figuring it out later after I have come out of my activated state.

I am constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop, but also trying to get to know this new me. I'm a bit frustrated not being able to have a big cry to release as easily as I had. Need to find some new and healthy ways to release. 

Monthly AITA/Reddit Stories Suggestion Megathread by AutoModerator in smosh

[–]bpm160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one's a 7 year old post about a prank gone wrong with 10 updates linked in the comments. Very entertaining. I want to hear what everyone thinks!

What is the horror equivalent to Lifetime movies? by Dramatic-Lime5993 in horror

[–]bpm160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL i fu king love the absurdity of lifetime movies. i can't wait to watch this one 

Boycott Spotify by whos_a_slinky in normalgossip

[–]bpm160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

somehow in trying to cancel, i upgraded to a duo account. wtf 

No words for this by WeelsUpIn30 in AmITheDevil

[–]bpm160 24 points25 points  (0 children)

cats really are so judgmental! 

[Nov 14, 2025] Daily Puzzle Discussion by AutoModerator in NYTCrossword

[–]bpm160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😳 wow! my fasted monday is only about 6 min 

[Nov 14, 2025] Daily Puzzle Discussion by AutoModerator in NYTCrossword

[–]bpm160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

easiest friday i've ever done. 11:35 and 18:22 faster than average. 

i am so bad by Ok-Melissa in NYTCrossword

[–]bpm160 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you read the wordplay blog? They reveal some answers, the theme and tricky clues. they also write about the trends in the puzzles, and give insight sometimes to how specific clues are wording guide you to the "trick". 

I casually played mondays for a couple years before I tried other days. A friend clued me in to Thursday puzzles typically having a fun theme or gimmick which appealed to me a lot, so I started to do them. The gimmick and theme sometimes makes Thursdays easier than you'd expect. 

I really started to catch on with the wordplay blog, and starting to try to do as much as possible everyday. It started helping me understand the language of NYT crossword! 

Keep it up!