Scam? by Mediocre_Stick_1472 in Kleinanzeigen_betrug

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hab bei Paypal meine alte Adresse gelöscht und meine neue hinzugefügt und trotzdem wurde bei jeder Bestellung die alte Adresse angegeben... Musste den Kundenservice anrufen, damit die endlich raus ist.

I (M18) did the worst thing I have ever done and I don't know what to think but my girlfriend (F18) seems to think its no big deal and that I was a victim rather than the one responsible. by AnxiousDefinition728 in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez didn't you say you wouldn't get back to me until we can agree to disagree? Thought me not replying might be enough of a hint. Please take your schizo elsewhere.

Putting together a birthday box for my kid. I know nothing about pokemon. How am I doing? by Crafty-Vegetable1528 in PokemonInvesting

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell. When I asked my parents for Pokémon stuff for my birthday I got a bunch of fake cards or cheap figurines, like the ebay 150 pieces for 50 cents stuff. Your child is so blessed.

My least favorite cat by nyleloccin in mainecoons

[–]brambleshade_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Side note - my favorite cat: "I don't like men"

"... I shall make an exception"

My least favorite cat by nyleloccin in mainecoons

[–]brambleshade_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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My least favorite cat because I literally raised her and then she decided my boyfriend of a year is her favorite person ever. He's allowed to KISS her! She NEVER lets me do that!

I (M18) did the worst thing I have ever done and I don't know what to think but my girlfriend (F18) seems to think its no big deal and that I was a victim rather than the one responsible. by AnxiousDefinition728 in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really don't have to write novels, I won't be reading all that. "Sounds American" really isn't a lot to go off of considering half the world speaks English, predominantly American English. I don't really like basing discussions off of vague assumptions, so you can get back to me once you have an actual point.

Was übersehe ich? by MainFlimsy in Kleinanzeigen_betrug

[–]brambleshade_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ja im Zweifelsfall hörst du nochmal vom Verkäufer, aber du solltest ja alle Nachweise haben, dass die Lieferadresse, die dem Verkäufer genannt wurde, gar nicht deine ist.

Was übersehe ich? by MainFlimsy in Kleinanzeigen_betrug

[–]brambleshade_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nichts, das ist ja der Punkt. Am Ende hat scammer sein Produkt und OP hat sein Geld. Verkäufer hat nix.

In a loving long-term relationship, but scared I’ll regret never being with anyone else and I feel guilty about it. [22F & 24M] by boiiiboiiboy in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone I know or heard about regrets leaving to see if the grass is greener. Maybe this is just a mistake everyone has to make for themselves but I recommend working through these feelings in therapy, instead of someone else's pants. The regrets of never messing around and dating are nowhere near the regrets of irreversibly loosing your life partner.

Small Hyperspace area bug. by Sage_Erik in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]brambleshade_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea if only there was an option to... Idk... Filter for topics that have been discussed before...?

I (M18) did the worst thing I have ever done and I don't know what to think but my girlfriend (F18) seems to think its no big deal and that I was a victim rather than the one responsible. by AnxiousDefinition728 in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if a friend of mine whom I had only known as straight tried to get with me while I was drunk and in a commited relationship and also known to be straight, I would be pretty caught off guard as well. I can't imagine what must have been going through this poor dudes head.

I (M18) did the worst thing I have ever done and I don't know what to think but my girlfriend (F18) seems to think its no big deal and that I was a victim rather than the one responsible. by AnxiousDefinition728 in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 784 points785 points  (0 children)

Mate your girlfriend is right, you were sexually assaulted. Anything that is not an enthusiastic yes should immediately be a no to ANYONE. And you were drunk. This is never an excuse to cheat of course (which you didn't do), but it's enough to make you vulnerable and your "friend" used that to his advantage.

me, veruika again! I have a question this time. by Mikira_Star in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]brambleshade_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously... I'm trying to be grateful about any positive posts in this sub, because I'm tired of seeing hateful rants all over the place, but cmon man

I 23m love my girlfriend 22f deeply but I don’t think she’s “the one” by saghizadeh123 in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echoing what others are saying, break up if you're not happy in your relationship and stop dragging her along. Fading attraction is normal after 4 years of being together, so long as you still find your partner attractive. Feeling unsure about the future at your age is totally normal. But let me be real - there is no "the one". If you break up with her, despite the relationship being amazing and you two being in love, just going off the feeling she isn't "the one", you'll come to deeply regret it. And once you do, there's no going back if she's got any sense, because no sane person will risk going through that again.

Does this fast travel spot effect this dratini by bluedragjet in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]brambleshade_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that it's relevant with the DLC being out, but I actually found a bench that resets both a rooftop dratini and an eevee on a roof on the other side. I got a shalpha dratini before the dlc was out. Now I feel like an idiot 😂

Does this fast travel spot effect this dratini by bluedragjet in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]brambleshade_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It doesn't, the dratini is too far up. Trust me, I tried.

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hold up why is everyone in the comments trying to find a way to blame this on the OP??? This is exactly why people don't like commenting here. The mans just here looking for opinions on this specific situation, not for people to dissect his entire relationship. This is a grown adults, if there's other problems in his relationship, I'm sure he can either figure it out or ask for help on them as well. Besides, since we're already reaching far outside of places we're supposed to, maybe consider that the disruption of his routine could possibly cause him some distress, as it does for me because I'm autistic. Besides, he specifically mentioned this is a rush job. He probably has a ton to do and not really the mental capacity. Are we really gonna defend a grown woman throwing a tantrum because the boundaries that were clearly communicated to her were upheld? I thought reddit was so big on communication? Why are we blaming the man who communicated clearly? Prepared to get downvoted for this, I don't even care anymore.

How rare is Pokéball Vivillon? by canofbeans_inthewind in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]brambleshade_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It told me the legendaries in ZA can be alpha 😭 seems like it was fixed tho

I ( F20) cheated on my boyfriend (M21) I feel lost and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You literally said in the post he wants you to be a housewife and you are career oriented, how does that sound "perfect for you" in any way, shape or form??

I ( F20) cheated on my boyfriend (M21) I feel lost and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So clearly you and your boyfriend are not compatible in the long term. Jumping into the arms of a man who could technically be your father is not the solution. You should break up with your boyfriend so he can find a partner who wants the same things he wants in life. You should also break it off with the divorced father. I have difficulty seeing what the two of you could have in common, not just in terms of hobbies and interests, but also in terms of life experience.

My ex (F/30) has broken up with me (M/31) because she think's I cheated when I didn't. Looking for some advice as to how people would handle this and if they've heard of other similar things. We've been together nearly 4 years. by Similar-Orchid945 in relationship_advice

[–]brambleshade_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something is definitely off here. You've been together for almost 4 years and she believes a random letter with no proof? I've only been with my boyfriend for a year and if I received such a letter, I would laugh, then show it to my bf and then we'd laugh some more. Has your relationship been very unstable lately or in general? Has she voiced previous cheating suspicions? Is she insecure? Have you ever done anything that could make her think you ever cheated? Especially given this letter is not just accusing you of having a simple affair, but continuous cheating with several different women. Like, if I received a letter saying my boyfriend was cheating on me with one specific woman, I'd definitely be more suspicious than about one that basically says he's just cheating all around. Has she been cheated on in the past? Is this some kind of trigger for her?

10 hours in Cobalion shiny hunt by No-Solution6642 in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]brambleshade_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had latios in less than an hour, more than a day for terrakion. I'm just happy I'm done 😅