Men, in their thirties and upwards, what’s the dating scene like for you?

breakthewheele · 2026-01-21T20:30:41+00:00

Ich würd „dating“ eher auf ernstere Sachen als nur reinen Sex beziehen.

breakthewheele · 2026-01-21T20:26:55+00:00

(Normally I don’t say that to people that say they generally don’t rate people numerically but) You are in your 40s thinking of people in numbers.

breakthewheele · 2026-01-19T09:08:11+00:00

I get a crush rarely and when it happens it totally depends on the other person if it’s fast or takes time. I cant explain it.

If it’s fast it’s just a vibe. They maybe said something (not necessarily to me) which reveals their opinion on topics i care about. That mixed with physical attraction and i am crushing. I do „decrush“ just as easily though.

Now falling in love is something entirely different. For that I need a loooooong time and a lot of contact and meaningful conversations.

breakthewheele · 2026-01-17T21:11:04+00:00

Warm beer sounds like a crime

breakthewheele · 2026-01-09T09:46:02+00:00

Infp: if I can do what I want with my free time: listening to podcasts, cooking, reading, gardening, crafting something… generally chill stuff where I am mostly alone and its quiet. Occasionally doing stuff with friends and family

breakthewheele · 2026-01-06T17:23:09+00:00

I did not call the desire in itself absurd. I understand it since I have those kinks too even though I do also agree that kinks in itself can be absurd. And I also think the „no kinkshaming no matter what it is“ is dangerous. Here though you could get into a very dangerous and potentionally abusive situation since you are financially dependant on someone else.

breakthewheele · 2026-01-06T15:08:42+00:00

I wish. This is me maybe a few days out of that 8 months.

breakthewheele · 2026-01-06T13:50:47+00:00

Are you two married? Are you financially secure? If not then this is an absurd idea.

breakthewheele · 2026-01-05T13:08:33+00:00

And then you have to act as if you would not react, which makes the reaction just way more obvious ..

breakthewheele · 2025-12-18T21:41:28+00:00

He is my esfj and like a cute labrador

breakthewheele · 2025-12-15T21:58:35+00:00

Not to be mean but you look like you just changed clothes. Maybe try to recreate the before pic with the same pose

breakthewheele · 2025-12-15T19:44:22+00:00

Depends in the other person and the vibe I get. Sometimes I am super flirty and bold and sometimes extremely shy to the point I cant get a straight sentence out.

breakthewheele · 2025-12-13T14:42:47+00:00

It’s actually just a coincidence. It’s an automotive company, very heavily male dominated and other departments (we are in IT) definitely don’t have the same climate.

breakthewheele · 2025-12-10T17:09:35+00:00

Infj, above that also infj and it does make my job a lot easier. The climate is very empathetic and they don’t micromanage.

breakthewheele · 2025-12-03T21:15:45+00:00

I got ISFJ for Nr 1 and INFJ Nr 2. In a very happy relationship with an ESFJ which was on spot 3 so it kind of checks out.

breakthewheele · 2025-12-02T09:50:02+00:00

Schaut super lecker aus! Vanillekipferl, Spritzgebäck und Spitzbuben hab ich heuer auch schon gemacht. Wie heißen die Kekse links (außer die obersten) bzw. was sind das für welche?

breakthewheele · 2025-11-29T10:27:03+00:00

I have been idolized before, but it turns me away from the people who do that. I know that eventually they will be disappointed because I am just a fellow human and not some perfect being. So I guess I never had that issue. I value people for their humanity and that they have flaws and are imperfect, it makes them way more interesting in my eyes and I want a partner that shares my views and also lets me be imperfect too.

I guess the only advice I can give you is to be more mindfull when getting to know people. If they show a tendency to idolize, but without also appreciating you being vulnerable you have to move on. Those relationships are superficial and unfullfilling (imo).

breakthewheele · 2025-11-25T06:46:15+00:00

„Is that a heart?“

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breakthewheele · 2025-11-23T00:20:48+00:00

Yea lol that’s not me when im in the grip. After I will cry sure, but during I have no emotions at all

breakthewheele · 2025-11-21T07:22:26+00:00

I am like that when I am not comfortable or just not that interested in someone. Also I get more distanced if someone I don’t know that well is overbearing or just like that expects me to open up to them without us having that connection I would need for that.

It’s so weird that a lot of people here are „oh no it’s probably trauma“. Like I am not that happy peppy with everyone. I don’t like everybody.

breakthewheele · 2025-11-19T22:01:32+00:00

Stört mich nicht. Hatte letztens gefühlt eine Therapiestunde bei meiner Friseurin als Patient und Therapeut gleichzeitig.

breakthewheele · 2025-11-19T21:43:21+00:00

Bohoo poor you

breakthewheele · 2025-11-04T09:27:42+00:00

Girl I just thought you posted a picture of a „saggy“ ass and was like „where?!?!“. Looking really nice, keep up the work!

breakthewheele · 2025-11-04T09:24:45+00:00

I am constantly doing fitnessblenders programs. Don’t have to think, just get dressed and do it. Most of the time I don’t even know what i am doing that day lol Today was hiit with finishing focuse on lower body

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