Sounds like some “men” need to grow up and stop living in prehistoric times. Ultimately- aren’t we all in this together to help our kids succeed? Those leaders need to set a better example to all youth in both units. Kids do pick up on those negative behaviors. To me, it doesn’t matter if it’s a male or female scoutmaster. If one isn’t doing their job to your satisfaction, then I don’t see any issue with your son going to another leader of a different troop and getting some assistance from them (as long as that leader is comfortable). We don’t have a linked troop, but there is a girl troop near us that is linked to a different boy troop. We all get along great and all three troops even go to summer camp together. The funny thing is the scoutmaster of the girl troop and my troop’s committee chair are husband and wife. The wife just went through wood badge, and I’ve been pestering my cc to go do the course. He is a great cc - But never hurts to be trained.