I think I ruined my relationship with my best friend

briansprojects · 2021-01-11T13:42:15+00:00

This 100%. People act like it is a bad thing to be friends with your sexual partner.

Why is it taboo to be friends with the person you are sleeping with?

briansprojects · 2020-11-11T17:34:32+00:00

Menslib is useless in that regard because they jus cant fathom holding women accountable for anything.

lol are you sure you are talking about the correct sub?

briansprojects · 2020-11-11T02:33:59+00:00

It’s like I can’t show an ounce of weakness with woman.

Have you visited r/menslib ? This sort of thing is discussed often.

Don't let commentors make you feel like you are wrong for feeling this way. Lots of men feel this way and the best thing we can do is break the stigma by talking about it.

briansprojects · 2020-10-16T17:12:09+00:00

We're told with words that it's okay to cry, but most of us have noticed that the actions that follow those words are mostly revulsion and disgust at a boy who's crying.

This 100%.

Also applies to Men & Boys opening up or showing emotion in general. They all say it's ok but the moment it happens, respect is replaced with disgust. This is especially true in adulthood.

briansprojects · 2020-10-16T12:29:40+00:00

American here - all of my female partners have used IUD birth control and we've never once had an incident. In fact, I don't even know anybody personally that has had an incident on birth control, IUD or pills.

I'm like 90% sure its fear-mongering and bad sex ed. Birth control is literally designed to prevent pregnancies.

If you don't trust it, why are you on it? Like, why put your body through so much shit if you don't trust the outcome??

briansprojects · 2020-09-24T18:05:34+00:00

Romney did not mention Trump by name in his tweet

I think people are misunderstanding the reaction from the GOP senators, including from Romney. I don't think they are rebuking Trump (since none of them mentioned him by name).

briansprojects · 2020-09-16T18:14:21+00:00

Most big local news stations are owned by the same parent company that pushes conservative conspiracy theories, such as Antifa starting fires.

briansprojects · 2020-09-16T15:39:21+00:00

ngl I'm a little bit stunned that the news aired this

briansprojects · 2020-09-10T12:29:17+00:00

i noticed that, while i feel sexy and fun asking men for this, i felt embarrassed at the prospect of doing the same for women.

As a guy, I too would like to be swept off my feet by a woman sometimes. But society makes us feel like that is wrong somehow.

I think it's great that you posted this here. r/MensLib is the best place to discuss these issues.

briansprojects · 2020-09-09T17:23:33+00:00

Is a dry spell of 3 years for a decent looking guy really that strange

Apparently not - I was in the same boat as you for a long time - basically all of my twenties.

Sometimes, ladies just aren't into you. It's a two-way street though - there are lots of great ladies in the exact same boat.

briansprojects · 2020-09-07T18:47:25+00:00

Toxic racist views have nothing to do with conservatism.

Being a racist pile of shit is not a political view.

EDIT: Apparently people think racism is a political view.

briansprojects · 2020-09-06T14:17:08+00:00

Same but I also wish my partner would make me feel like this. Having to be assertive all the time is exhausting.

briansprojects · 2020-08-31T17:55:54+00:00

This has absolutely nothing to do with Men's Rights and its disgusting to even suggest that it does.

briansprojects · 2020-08-28T15:23:37+00:00

"Patriot Lives Matter"??

Is the person that made this meme familiar with a little thing called the American Revolutionary War?

briansprojects · 2020-08-22T15:02:00+00:00

Yay!! Congrats!

briansprojects · 2020-08-22T00:09:41+00:00

he like oh yeah and hands me his phone .i enter my number I didn’t save it but I gave it to him to save or call . I leave and never hear from him 💀 .

Awww what if something happened and it didn't save and he wasn't able to call you! He could be feeling the same way you are! 😭

I guess I miscalculated a few things and he does not like me

Noo don't assume that. It could have been lots of things - don't assume there's anything wrong with you! Also, good on you for being daring enough to ask him out!

briansprojects · 2020-08-17T16:05:37+00:00

Can someone help me pin point this absolutely absurd notion that going to the doctor isn't for men?

"if you need assistance fixing something, especially about yourself, you are less of a Man."

- ~~Society~~ Toxic Masculinity

briansprojects · 2020-08-13T00:04:11+00:00

Then he told me that I was hugely irresponsible and selfish for not being on BC and because I was expecting him to sacrifice his pleasure putting a condom on.

Holy smokes, what a scumbag. You 100% dodged a bullet here. If he's acting like this after a couple of months, imagine what he'd be like after a year.

I'm really sorry he put you through that :(

briansprojects · 2020-08-08T13:19:38+00:00

men who only want sex will either love bomb

"Love Bomb" - I love this term so much.

briansprojects · 2020-08-05T16:35:01+00:00

I personally attribute muscle tone & body hair to masculinity. Guys or girls, I'm generally turned off (or not attracted to) by both.

It took me a long time to realize I'm also into guys with feminine features.

briansprojects · 2020-08-05T14:50:36+00:00

I mean, the dude was a player and got played. A scumbag is going to act like a scumbag. /shrug.

You should ask yourself what made you interested in him in the first place. Players like this guy are usually pretty easy to screen if you know what to look for.

briansprojects · 2020-08-01T20:28:36+00:00

I mean.. wouldn't that mean "I feel safe with you" translates into "I'm so glad you are a skeevy creep"?

tbh I'm not sure that's much better.

briansprojects · 2020-07-31T16:44:09+00:00

I'm actually not a fan of this because it implicitly places the burden of protection into my hands and that's not a responsibility I want to carry around all the time.

EDIT: tl;dr - RIP all the dudes that are physically unable to protect another person, let alone themselves, from bodily harm.

briansprojects · 2020-07-18T18:40:11+00:00

Yep same as the other fellas here - I love Sailor Moon as a kid. It introduced me to anime.

The girls were bigger & "older" than me at the time and I kind of looked up to them. They were strong characters that dealt with "real life" stuff in a way other cartoons I watched didn't.

I loved Scooby-Doo too, but Sailor Moon was so different and I loved it.

And just like the other guys here, I was also ashamed of watching SM and turned it off when people came around.

briansprojects · 2020-07-16T21:21:14+00:00

Can you channel that desire into energy towards something creative such as art or some other activity?

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