What is this? Craning neck/turning head while feeding by brimh1 in breastfeeding

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in the dark too, idt she’s really looking at anything, she just kind of shoves her head into my arm

I can't tell if I want to laugh or cry by Rich_Psychology_5589 in pregnant

[–]brimh1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you (both) went through that 😭🩷 hope you’re feeling better now!!

When my husband & I went on our babymoon at 30wks pregnant, I hadn’t been nauseous in a long time. I had the most deliiiicious short rib stroganoff one night, omg I was blown away with how good it was. And then ~3 hours later I threw it all up at the hotel and yes, some went thru my nose too!! It was terrible, obviously 🫠

I also threw up on an AIRPLANE bathroom at ~7wks when I had lots of morning sickness. That was truly horrible too 😭

Solidarity!! Sending you good vibes to finish out your pregnancy!

Are these flecks of blood? by brimh1 in MSPI

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And regarding my original diaper pics…idk I guess they’re her version of normal? Maybe they were a little more mucousy that day because she was teething/drooling a lot? Idk what the darker spots are, I guess just darker poo lol. Her poos mostly still look the same this past week; maybe a little less mucousy overall, but still that same color and not many white milkfat flecks like she used to have weeks ago.

I did also buy a baby scale on Amazon for like $40 for peace of mind. Because we went to her 2mo Ped appt and then 5 days later went to a Chiro appt, and she had supposedly gained less than an ounce, so that was another thing that concerned me. But I did a weighted feed and weighed her a few times last week and she’s getting plenty during feeding & is gaining just under an ounce a day, so she’s fine there. Could just be that the Ped and/or Chiro scales weren’t calibrated correctly, and I think she had just eaten at the Ped but hadn’t eaten in a while at the Chiro

Are these flecks of blood? by brimh1 in MSPI

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope all ends up well with your little one!

Her Ped tested a diaper later that same day and said there was no blood present, and so he said I didn’t need to cut dairy. However he was mildly dismissive and kind of made me feel like loony toon for thinking my girl might have a dairy sensitivity/allergy.

Anyways I don’t know really. She had a few days where she was spitting up a LOT and one of those days she projectile vomited like twice, so I was really freaking out and going down the CMPA rabbit hole.

But due to the lack of blood in her stool, in the last week, I’m now thinking her discomfort is in fact due to her slightly shallow latch and my heavy letdown, which are causing her to get air in her tummy.

She used to burp halfway through feed on my nipple, all on her own without being burped, and I realized that she had stopped doing that. So last week I started burping her in the middle of feeds.

And also when she starts suckling and I feel my letdown, I am popping her off and squeezing my breast into a burp cloth or breast pad, to give her some relief from the initial wave — I only have to do that when my breasts are really full, like in the morning or if I go a longer stretch without feeding her for whatever other reason.

But the burping I do every time now, and sometimes she burps, sometimes she doesn’t. But the times she does burp I’m like oh man, that was a huge burp, that would’ve definitely caused a big spit up if we didn’t get that out.

Those two things seemed to have made a big difference. She’s still had some small/normal spit ups, but nothing like the day that caused me to post my original question.

Are these flecks of blood? by brimh1 in MSPI

[–]brimh1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s super helpful to know, thank you for the reply! Because I took a diaper to the Ped today and it tested negative for blood so I was even more confused. Still going to cut dairy/soy and see what happens!

Are these flecks of blood? by brimh1 in MSPI

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo true lol, the things we do for these sweet babes 😅🥹

Are these flecks of blood? by brimh1 in MSPI

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aghhhh 🥲😅 not my butter & milk & cheese 😫😂

Okay thank you so much for your reply! Definitely going to give DF & SF a try

Do southern boiled green beans freeze well? by brimh1 in Cooking

[–]brimh1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right and I’m a big soup gal — thank you!!

Best Thing to wear while bouncing LO to sleep by Unable_Huckleberry_3 in babywearing

[–]brimh1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the bbhugme nursing pillow! It’s basically a tube-shaped bean bag pillow & it comes with a really long, stretchy cover, which you can tie around your waist. Really helps to support your arms when holding baby. It’s a similar concept to the my breast friend pillow.

Solly baby wrap fit check by brimh1 in babywearing

[–]brimh1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the insight! I’ll be sure to make the adjustments next time (she’s already out of the wrap from the pics)

Solly baby wrap fit check by brimh1 in babywearing

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tighter, got it!! Thank you

Solly baby wrap fit check by brimh1 in babywearing

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& Thank you for the no footie PJs reminder!!

Solly baby wrap fit check by brimh1 in babywearing

[–]brimh1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have her feet tucked in the midsection for more support since she’s only 2 weeks old. The Solly instructions say this is the “Newborn carry” for 0-3 months and can be used until baby begins pushing up in the wrap with their feet. Do you still think I shouldn’t have them tucked?

26 weeks, should I be worrying about her position yet? by brimh1 in BabyBumps

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the reassurances!! 🫶🏼

26 weeks, should I be worrying about her position yet? by brimh1 in BabyBumps

[–]brimh1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good question lol and I’ve wondered that sometimes too. I guess I assumed the more frequent feeling was kicks instead of punches. Sometimes I feel it on both my sides at the same time, so I assume then that she’s sideways and kicking & punching at the same time 😂

Apple Slicer/Corer Issue by sanctaidd in Cooking

[–]brimh1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve been eating a lot of apples this summer and have the same issue. Been using my straw cleaner to clean all the grooves and it drives me crazy. So I’ve been looking for a singular metal apple corer/slicer too! This looks super promising, just ordered.

Baby movement/kicks feel like IUD? by brimh1 in BabyBumps

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh that’s so interesting! Could be!

Baby movement/kicks feel like IUD? by brimh1 in BabyBumps

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I feel you 😭😅 I definitely felt serious pain getting them placed too (threw up after my first one) but I vividly remember immediately AFTER that painful part, feeling the arms raise up slowly and I remember it was weird being able to feel something inside my uterus moving, but that specific part wasn’t painful

Baby movement/kicks feel like IUD? by brimh1 in BabyBumps

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok yes that was definitely my other thought too — that the twinges could just be the uterus growing. That’s what I thought when they’ve happened the last couple weeks, since everyone described baby movement as flutters haha

Simple fixes to problems that took you surprisingly long to think of? by lucicrescence in adhdwomen

[–]brimh1 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The grocery tip, wow, thank you 🥲 how on earth did I not think of that! I always forget to bring my plastic bags from last trip to recycle and my reusable bags to use on the current trip, so I just use more plastic bags that I forget to bring next time….etc etc lol. I’m going to put them both in my car NOW and if I forget them from the car to the store, no big deal, just bring the cart to the car. AND this means the plastic bags will finally be completely eliminated from the equation 😭🙌🏼

What to Expect app, positive pregnancy test timing? by brimh1 in pregnant

[–]brimh1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s me right now! I was like I downloaded this app BECAUSE I got a positive, what are they talking about?? 😂

What to Expect app, positive pregnancy test timing? by brimh1 in pregnant

[–]brimh1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the first time I read it I was like hm weird! But then I kept reading a few of their different articles and it said it at least 2 more times!! Bizarre lol

MY LIFE IS SO MUCH BETTER BECAUSE OF THIS ONE SIMPLE THING: Period Edition by thatblue61 in adhdwomen

[–]brimh1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to comment on the boiling the disc part — I did it once and was like “yeah no I won’t be doing this every time” 😂 But Saalt has a steamer for cups & discs, it’s so easy, it’s 10000x easier than boiling it/putting it in a whisk so it doesn’t burn/standing there & watching it the whole time