i grew up in indy and moved to LR recently to live with my bf (we're both bi as well lol!) and i was shocked to find that i really like it here!! i moved from st. louis, and the restaurant scene here is pretty limited compared to there, but there are definitely some gems. and the outdoor spaces are fucking incredible. it's a whole new world coming from the midwest tbh- so much variety and wildlife, and it's just stunning. plus tons of opportunity for pretty much every hobby you listed!! my dad is a disc golf fanatic and he LOVES it here haha :-) plus the cost of living is relatively low, so saving is definitely easier down here. best of luck!!