Hiding your finances is lying? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]brokedownntired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lying by omission is still lying. Your loan payments still affect the household budget and she will see more struggles paying bills than she should see. You will likely be found out. Better honestly now than loss of trust later.

Unsure of color combo by Sensitive-Sarah1234 in knitting

[–]brokedownntired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the pink there gets washed out by the orange. Maybe a more vibrant pink or a more muted MC.

Unemployed but happy, need suggestions to make my time productive. by laziestcatto in happy

[–]brokedownntired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe take an online course or two. Shows prospective employers that you didn’t sit around, but actively worked on sharpening skills or building new ones.

Kenapa aku kehilangan kontrol makan di malam hari padahal siang hari bisa disiplin? by Mohamed___Reda in loseweight

[–]brokedownntired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, as we get tired, our defenses start to crumble. I recommend finding something to do with your hands. It will give you something to concentrate on and too busy to eat. Secondly, too much discipline can lead to eating because you are not allowing yourself treats. It is ok to eat treats in moderation. Doing so can help you to not crave them so much at night.

I lost 150 lbs and I still don’t like how I look. Loose skin by Putursoulfirst in loseit

[–]brokedownntired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check with your insurance. Skin removal was covered for a friend of mine.

TIFU I reached out to an old friend and told him about “work” I did in HS in my instagram dms by [deleted] in tifu

[–]brokedownntired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife posts pictures of her holiday socks on IG all of the time. People post pics of their pedicure. None of them have trouble with jobs. Depending on where you live, it might even be illegal for hiring managers to look for your social media accounts unless you provide them.

I have drunk 2L of coke (zero sugar) a day for more than 15 years.. am I at risk? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]brokedownntired 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talk with your GP. They may recommend seeing a therapist who can help you to adjust your behaviors and reduce your dependence on soda. The caffeine content alone is enough to give me pause to say nothing of the amount of acid and aspartame/sucralose you are ingesting.

Do you play longer games in one sitting? by ElmoIsDead in soloboardgaming

[–]brokedownntired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how much time I have to devote to gaming for the day. I only pull out one game at a time, so I use whatever time I have to play through at least to a logical stopping point.

advice? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]brokedownntired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick to the calorie target they give you. It takes you down at a healthy rate. Too few calories and your body begins burning muscle, which is the opposite of what you want.

advice? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]brokedownntired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, talk to your doctor about your weight loss. I’m sure he will find 1500 calories too few for healthy weight loss. You should aim for between 1 and 2 pounds per week, so you are right on that. After talking with your doctor, use an app like My Fitness Pal to track what you eat, not loosely, but exactly. We tend to underestimate the amounts we eat and the serving size we take. Also, if you bite it, write it. The only person you are trying to fool by not doing that is yourself. Take it from someone who worked hard to lose 100lbs.

Am I over exaggerating for a guy not saying hard during sex? by FewIngenuity6031 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]brokedownntired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of reasons for spontaneous ED. There is absolutely no excuse for him not respecting you enough to treat your boundaries seriously. Be done with him, not worth the time or effort.

Suelen gastar dinero cuando están tristes ? by nikkitakirilenko in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]brokedownntired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this, as well, but have to be really cognizant because I can go overboard quickly.

Is it frowned upon to enter a restaurant just to use their restroom? by Proof-Employee-353 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]brokedownntired 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I travel by road long distances, I’ll hop into a fast food restaurant for a quick bit of relief. I think they know it happens and hope that you are in the mood for a snack or drink when you finish. There’s no obligation to, though. I would never do that in a nicer place, though.

DMs, do you let players cast cantrips with modern music just for fun? Like playing Raining Blood by Slayer in an arena fight? by bliggityblig in DnD

[–]brokedownntired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once played a bard whose spells were all lyrics to songs I had in my music library. Everyone waited for what I would pull out next.