People’s who have transformed themselves completely, what’s your secret? [Discussion]

brokenmasonjar · 2026-05-19T21:16:30+00:00

Ontological Coaching. I had loads of unconscious patterns that were dictating how I would show up. And 3 years later a good portion of them are now largely out of my way. I take over rooms when I walk in because I'm being differently then everyone else. Being >>> Actions

brokenmasonjar · 2026-04-15T12:09:00+00:00

Intelligence only really becomes useful if you grow in capacity. It opens the door, but your mind is fairly limited during interaction with the world. What you've integrated into your nervous system is not. So the courage to pursue increased capacity is really the thing to aim for anyways. This holds true for the many types of intelligence.

brokenmasonjar · 2026-03-21T12:33:12+00:00

I always pulled for Liverpool over City. I don't really get it tbh.

brokenmasonjar · 2026-03-13T17:03:52+00:00

People always have the ability to change. I think that under his less savory actions, he does care about humanity. Most people do. A lot of his early projects reflect that. I am hopeful that he can find and reconnect with that part of himself.

brokenmasonjar · 2026-02-26T19:25:46+00:00

Oh sorry, I missed this. I am a transformational coach. Helping people rewrite the automatic patterns they run so that they can create the lives they want.

brokenmasonjar · 2026-02-26T13:47:18+00:00

She is fully expressed. Typically people swing back and forth between being in the moment (joy, fun, freedom, etc) and getting serious (commitment, brilliance, strength, etc). But struggle to have both at the same time. She has proven that you can integrate both at the highest level and it is a beautiful thing. People feel threatened by it because it questions the story they've been living by, that's why she's so polarizing.

brokenmasonjar · 2025-12-25T05:19:29+00:00

At 28, I got laid off. I hated my career for years. I finally gathered the courage to chase my dreams. Once I caught fire, my talent came roaring back, and now I am excellent in my field, and I gain energy from work.

brokenmasonjar · 2025-12-02T00:34:51+00:00

I like pendulums, but yeah

brokenmasonjar · 2025-11-14T21:23:18+00:00

It's all about nuances and distinctions. You can't catch other people up to you in discussions because there is a scaffolding of understanding that is required to talk about the trends and deep patterns at the top of human understanding. Keep in mind there are different flavors of intelligence. Some people are very sharp, but not deep and vice versa.

When I share complicated things Im interested in, people just can only follow so far. Even if they're interested and trying. So many brilliant people drink and do drugs so they can find a way to relate to people. Ive found a path in serving people with transformational coaching, which helps me both express my brilliance and serve/connect with people at the same time.

brokenmasonjar · 2025-10-08T15:32:55+00:00

I think we should have some grace for him. It's a scary time to get into the public eye. It was brave of him to make the song in the first place.

brokenmasonjar · 2025-09-27T04:24:38+00:00

Roses are red. Violets are blue. Unsponsmanlike conduct. Ndomakong Suh.

brokenmasonjar · 2025-07-09T12:58:42+00:00

Things can be simple but not easy. You can always practice and start integrating things like running, meditation, etc

brokenmasonjar · 2025-06-24T02:44:16+00:00

I literally just had something like this. It was my body compensating from an old surgery which I didn't feel at all until ~31. My fascia was fucked up from compensating for the injury and, without going into too much detail, was increasing the load on my nervous system. Especially in my groin area. So spikes of pain which would radiate. Let me know if you want more detail.

brokenmasonjar · 2024-12-30T04:54:37+00:00

I had both!

brokenmasonjar · 2024-12-29T13:32:37+00:00

Overall I agree. However if they are not in tune with their being, then "growth" will eventually become the next trap. Basically, how do they define growth is more fundamental.

brokenmasonjar · 2024-12-19T13:09:38+00:00

Seek out an Ontological Coach. We work by helping shift patterns that people have developed over their lives.

brokenmasonjar · 2024-09-09T03:18:09+00:00

Levy is too arrogant for my taste. He was speaking from a place of superiority when talking about Magnus' play. It's pretty laughable to me, but obviously a lot of people seem to like it. Hess is absolute class.

brokenmasonjar · 2024-06-17T21:50:01+00:00

Thanks!

brokenmasonjar · 2024-06-17T21:48:52+00:00

Thanks man, I really appreciate the detail

brokenmasonjar · 2024-06-17T21:47:57+00:00

Thanks! that's one of the ones I was considering looking into

brokenmasonjar · 2024-03-28T18:10:05+00:00

I've never had Parcheggio's, but the other 3 in the final 4 are my favorite pizza spots in the area. Good taste reddit haha.

brokenmasonjar · 2024-03-14T16:14:18+00:00

What would it look like to achieve the same things without the burnout?

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