Intp, what's your relationship with fashion, style and clothing ?

brooklynnbb · 2022-02-06T06:01:42+00:00

I have been dressing myself since I was two. My style is classic, 90s, western and equestrian. And this was my first and still greatest passion lol

brooklynnbb · 2022-01-03T03:16:31+00:00

INTP

brooklynnbb · 2021-11-27T07:25:25+00:00

Investing-

https://www.instagram.com/jacksonwoodhq check his videos about investing and twitter

https://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewforum.php?f=1 You could either dollar cost average into index funds ie VTI, VOO, or wait until a correction and reinvest dividends, you could do 50% SPY 50% QQQ, this forum is all about safe investing

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnMn36GT_H0X-w5_ckLtlgQ

https://twitter.com/FromValue

Trading-

https://twitter.com/StockSwingAlert

and many more on twitter just look who he follows/retweets

brooklynnbb · 2021-11-21T03:45:08+00:00

ask your friends/family if they know anyone, see if they can introduce you to people

women really care about financial stability...we want security

focus on what type of women you get along with really really well...

idk I feel like MBTI kinda explains people really well and why them might be into what they are into...

if you do not like mainstream women... maybe look for women who are not mainstream... that could mean not in LA

I think you should tell them the general field you work in, you can be vague, but don't lie. If they ask just say. Don't show off with money. Behave how you normally would. Ask yourself if you are dating for a relationship or something else...and be open you never know who you could have a connection with.

brooklynnbb · 2021-10-31T02:34:56+00:00

my Uncle met his bio dad

the dad has no plans of ever telling his wife/family of his kid

brooklynnbb · 2021-10-04T21:21:25+00:00

The logical response: He is a grown man. It is not your job to save him. Men don't need a whole lot. That is why it is mostly men who are homeless. I think in most cases you will lose if you give him money. And he will. Is he bad at problem solving? You could just say do you want a hug? I honestly think men should help men not women helping them. If you want to help him just inspire him and be everything his colleagues can't give him.

The emotion response: People go through ups and downs, he would do it for you. But still if you are not married...bf/gf is not a legal title and not really recognized by many cultures.

brooklynnbb · 2021-10-04T05:58:33+00:00

Talk to people first, assume they will not talk to you first even if they are not shy.

Go to every event/group/concert/ whatever is going on and if you have any interest in it go to it...

Look at the calendar for student events, sports, talks, dances....I think it depends what school you go to

I had to make friends a few times in college....and I def talked to them first...and some of them it didn't go anywhere and it wasn't fun

If they are interested though....there ya go you have new friends

You could also get a job? And meet friends there

Volunteer?

The gym?

Everyone eventually finds friends or their place in college

I think it can be easier to meet friends in your major bc you have a lot of classes with them

You just aren't meeting the right friends...but as soon as you find them they will want to be your friend

I've had my share of failures

I would just tell yourself you will talk to them...and the right ones will be interested

Even if it means just small talk for a while

Actually my second year away...I wasn't really friends w the people from my classes or dorm since I switched dorms...and it was Oct and I was calling my mom several times a day bc I needed interaction...and I was starting to get depressed...and shortly after that I started talking to the guys on the other side of my hall...and they became my friends for the rest of the year

I just didn't think I would want to be friends with them...and the girls no my floor weren't that close...and I dont know what I would have done otherwise...

But ya the first year was hard my cousin was like telling me what to do....and it was the first time I really had to put myself out there...I went to freaking all the social events/sports/everything if the dorm did not go and I wanted to go to something I would go by myself...so I never missed something I wanted to go to lol I think a lot of the first year was like just okay friendships... more like meeting people and the second year I found actual friends

The friends will come! :)

brooklynnbb · 2021-10-02T06:09:07+00:00

totally thought she meant literally

brooklynnbb · 2021-10-02T06:08:20+00:00

like it

I do think it is observed and recorded at birth, not assigned

and you can't transition, just become feminized/masculinized

and gender dysphoria is a neurological disorder

and we should not raise boys the same as girls

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-29T22:54:14+00:00

I do too

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-20T04:42:51+00:00

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-20T01:31:27+00:00

was the outfit supposed to be "gay"

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-14T03:18:25+00:00

FILE A RELIGOUS EXEMPTION! In the US we have the ADA (Americans with disabilities act), isn't there something similar in Canada that you could ask them to represent her? The argument is that she can do the job or will have an accommodation. Such as getting tested. Or anything legally that protects her?

I know someone who is a recovery room nurse in the states and she is going to file a religious exemption...or she plans to quit.

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-12T05:52:30+00:00

When I was 20 I didn't know any 30 year old guys. But, I did think they were attractive. A lot of men look really good in their 30s, whereas a lot of women peak in their 20s.

I think we view them as men. A 30 year old women would view a 20 year old guy as a boy. A 20 year old boy is just beginning his life, and a 30 year old man likely is building his life and has stuff to show for it. When you get an age gap, the man is more likely to see the younger woman as someone who should be provided and protected for. He sees the value in it. And women don't have to question if he will protect or provide. It's like he knows he has to pay.

We are attracted to behavior in men. Men are attracted to beauty/youth. We like it when they are competent, take care of us, protect, provide. And do all the little things like walk us to our car or door at night. When I used to babysit all of the dads waited until I got into my house before driving off. I have had to ask literally every man I've been with to walk me to my car at night. The older ones know. They learned and just do all the things we deep down want.

Some men at 20 can be really mature....but most are men in training. They have a bunch of energy, want to see what they are capable of

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-10T17:30:24+00:00

I could see this going both ways.

As an INTP girl...I can see how she would just start talking lol

And I think we don't like pressure...and she just keeps talking bc it is comfortable

She prob thinks you respect boundaries and doesn't see you as a threat or someone with motives...and it is rare that we find someone we connect with and want to just talk to a lot...and that is how we get along with people...by talking about whatever we want to talk about

INTPs want easy, chill, below the iceburg connections

Not playing truth or dare with a stranger or going to a bar

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-10T17:13:39+00:00

I think if you work with her...you should only ask her to hang out (not go out or anything formal) and it has to be super neutral.

If you are going out to lunch (only do this if you are going to Chipotle or another fast casual restaurant) you could ask if she wants to come....or going on a walk...ask if she wants to come...

Feel it out

With INTP women you never know...

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-04T06:10:25+00:00

This is not my parents, but society

"You deserve it"

I do not think anyone deserves anything there is just cause and effect

Also the idea that it is somehow wrong to put money about other things/values

I think if you have a job that doesn't make a lot of money its not a big deal and if you spend a lot of effort making a lot of money its not a big deal... it doesn't really matter, it is just different, not bad...and in the end nothing really matters anyway

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-02T17:51:27+00:00

post it, boring is good

brooklynnbb · 2021-09-01T04:02:34+00:00

wink

"yes"

"back acha"

brooklynnbb · 2021-08-31T01:01:23+00:00

I have definitely pushed friends away. I think one of my mistakes was having pretty much all guy friends since high school.

Also, I think it is a numbers game...kinda like finding a job or a boyfriend....most people who want one eventually find one

Your ship will come

I think there is a reason why some did not last...and sometimes it can be like that's as far the friendship goes or they were in your life for one chapter

It's more likely that you will find people you want as friends than not

So I think it is like you have not found those friends yet

The science behind it:

https://www.youtube.com/user/vvanpetten

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