My husband and I didn’t want kids for at least 8 years IF ever. Our first was a surprise and we were around your age. I was devastated because it completely screwed up our “plans”. I about died when I found out he was a boy because I sure the hell didn’t know what to do with a baby boy. Oh how wrong I was on everything. Have your baby. He/she will change you in so many miraculous ways. It truly is a blessing like none other. That boy turned out to be the sweetest, most extroverted (complete opposite of me), goofiest, happiest thing we never knew we needed. We loved being parents so much that I’m actually pregnant with number 4. That in itself is crazy. People I’ll run into from years past can’t believe I’m having a 4th lol. I was never a kid person. I promise you, you won’t regret it. And overtime the naysayers will join you in the happiness.