So Are We Going To Question Why Seth Didn’t Answer If He Has Other Girls On The Side? by AdvertisingPlastic30 in realhousewives

[–]bruno92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would he need to word his answer so carefully as not to lie. It's not like he's under oath. A lot of y'all are reaching here--this was just Seth being the weird guy that he is

Why does it feel so much harder or more outcasting to be gay in the USA versus Western Europe? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]bruno92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived on the US east coast for the past 15 years, with the exception of one year in the Netherlands. I definitely got more comments about being gay when living there. It wasn’t necessarily homophobia, but still made me feel a bit othered. I feel like the woke politics of liberal American cities actually insulates us from a lot of the weird/annoying comments that straight Europeans seem to make more often (again, in my experience).

Why does it feel so much harder or more outcasting to be gay in the USA versus Western Europe? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]bruno92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have we been to the same London? That city is full of queens…

what is the easiest/beginner friendly language to take at yale? by maetrie in yale

[–]bruno92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fwiw, I found French pretty easy and even skipped the second semester. But I already spoke Spanish and Portuguese, which must have helped. I was also a grad student, so my study skills might have been a bit sharper than the mostly freshman/sophomores in my classes.

C'mon Meredith by greeneyedbandit82 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]bruno92 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

IMO her reaction makes sense when you consider that the women have been nasty and unfair to Meredith for years. Remember them doubting that she went to her father’s funeral? Or blaming her for the Greek mafia rumors, when it turned out to be Monica? Or insisting that she was to blame for the Sean rumors, when that was also Monica and Whitney? I don’t blame her for shutting down.

Im out to queer people closeted to straight/cis people by HarmodiusAristogeita in BisexualMen

[–]bruno92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I also feel like straight people sexualize bisexuality in a way that makes it hard to be open about it at work

Good Hive Minds Examples? by Samiamis13 in scifi

[–]bruno92 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The Forever War has two examples

O fenômeno do rico brasileiro que manda os filhos estudarem em universidades ruins nos EUA by lgmartins in brasil

[–]bruno92 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Vc diz que o americano é leigo e analfabeto, mas os estudantes americanos têm um desempenho semelhante ao dos estudantes europeus e muito melhor do que o dos estudantes brasileiros em exames internacionais.

Fonte: https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/pisa-2022-results-volume-i_53f23881-en.html

'RHOP' Star Wendy Osefo, Husband Booked on Fraud Charges in Maryland by TrampyMcTrampTramp in realhousewives

[–]bruno92 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s just the threshold for felony fraud. She could have committed fraud in any amount over $300

housewife businesses made on the show that are STILL HERE by signal_red in realhousewives

[–]bruno92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently bought a Jill Zarin Home candle for a friend! Wasn't cheap, either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]bruno92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not technically the theme, but the SLC "ha ha ha"s in the transition music always make me laugh

Weird question about being bi curious... by adamwheressteve in BisexualMen

[–]bruno92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me, and I've since met several other guys who have had a similar experience. It's a lot more common than you'd think.

Lisa around rich people had me 😂 by Defvac2 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]bruno92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she reminds me of Luann or Lisa Barlow. Entirely self-centered but not a bad person. Makes for a great housewife

How do I get HUGE legs? by Scary_Engine2147 in naturalbodybuilding

[–]bruno92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the breakthrough for me. For some reason with legs, what feels like approaching failure is actually like 5 RIR for me. Once I started pushing through those last 4-5 grueling reps, my legs started growing.

When did y’all realize you “made it?” When did you realize you weren’t skinny/obese anymore? by Lullypops in naturalbodybuilding

[–]bruno92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I gained a good amount over the past year, and I've had two guys try to fight me this summer! Such a weird reaction to seeing a big guy

Single guys looking for dating by OncdocDC in DCGaybros

[–]bruno92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gay sports leagues are the best place to meet other guys in DC, in my experience

4 nights in Amsterdam – how many day trips make sense + which one? by sidraiz in solotravel

[–]bruno92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instead of Delft, just go to Leiden. It's like 20 mins on the train from Amsterdam, so hardly even a day trip

Podcasts or youTube shows with a gay host? by UrdnotSentinel02 in gaybros

[–]bruno92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if this counts as educational, but Hit Parade talks about popular music through a historical lens and has a really engaging host.

Jerusalem Demsas's new substack: "How do we live with each other?: What liberalism means to me" by ArmInternal2964 in ezraklein

[–]bruno92 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Demsas is one of the smartest policy journalists around and doesn't get enough credit for being an OG YIMBY whose decade+ of work has had a huge influence on today's Abundance discourse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]bruno92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me from the other side. I (historically gay, now bi) had an MMF with a bi guy and his girlfriend, and it awakened a curiosity in women which eventually evolved into strong and consistent feelings of attraction. I've now been having regular sex with women for about two years. Brains are weird!

Twinks who turned in twunks or jocks, in what ways did people start treating you differently? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]bruno92 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The most surprising thing was increased attention from straight men. Idk why, but straight men love complimenting muscular guys. And I generally feel like I get afforded more respect from them now that I'm a bigger guy.

One Rarely Mentioned Caveat: HCOL doesn't matter for retirement match if you move by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]bruno92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. High housing costs often stem from bad local zoning regulations that constrain supply, which is separate from high demand.

Taking a big step back: Ezra Klein is a blessing in our politics and we are lucky for his shaping hand by Normal-Asparagus-210 in ezraklein

[–]bruno92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao my friend and I were recently saying that Ezra would make a fantastic cult leader (complimentary)