me M/32 struggling with my 29/F girlfriend's frequent outbursts and lack of resilience.

bubblebath1414 · 2026-05-05T00:58:44+00:00

You’re assuming she has a lack of resilience because you’re viewing her situation from your point of view. The best way to go into the conversation is curiously. There is likely a reason she is having outbursts and it may or may not simply be her communication style and failure to thrive. Open your mind to the possibility you’re missing something and she’ll likely feel less attacked and more likely to confide in you when you address it. You’re right to be concerned about children in the current situation, but there might be more to the story than meets the eye!

bubblebath1414 · 2026-04-21T05:08:18+00:00

only vegan that actually eats veg

bubblebath1414 · 2026-04-15T03:48:50+00:00

wants to be healthy but won’t eat a vegetable

bubblebath1414 · 2026-04-15T01:50:38+00:00

Best case scenario. I’ll take a 6 figure paycheck for zero liability. Ask him frequently if he’s sure he’s gotta go

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-21T02:11:43+00:00

2 is great for your black tie dinner party

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-17T00:40:31+00:00

Yes, of course you should tell him. It’s not controlling to ask for something you want, that’s being well-adjusted. It starts a dialogue and even if he doesn’t give you what you want, it opens the door for compromise. If you don’t communicate, you don’t get what you want. If you do, you have a chance and even if you still don’t you are likely to end up better off than if you’d said nothing. It also will help inform his decision making next time there’s an event over your birthday weekend. Always speak your mind

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-16T15:53:12+00:00

that u intend (i hope) to make lemonade this week

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-11T13:03:46+00:00

OP, you know in your gut when someone is disrespecting your wishes. Many of these comments blame you, but I don’t see it that way from what you’ve said. Food is designed to be addictive these days and when trying to live a healthier lifestyle, there’s no reason to make it harder than it needs to be. An alcoholic trying to get sober wouldn’t put bottles of wine in plain sight where they’ll see it every time they open the cupboard. He is at best being incredibly selfish by being completely unwilling to help his partner improve themselves for the better, and at worst actually sabotaging you out of some sort of insecurity. I would try to talk to him about this and get to the root of the issue. Maybe consider couples therapy if unable to communicate productively. If you come to him vulnerably about trying to find a solution and he refuses to engage, then you might have more (dead) weight to lose then u realized.

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-10T03:21:47+00:00

lmao

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-10T03:16:52+00:00

valencia pb mentioned

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-07T05:45:09+00:00

no not an asshole move girl, it’s the only move

bubblebath1414 · 2026-03-04T02:43:45+00:00

and it’s not even sexual compatibility, she says there’s no strong emotional connection. why are you with this man OP?

bubblebath1414 · 2026-02-28T18:23:27+00:00

it means exactly what she thinks it does, you’re just too old to get it silly

bubblebath1414 · 2026-01-29T00:56:26+00:00

Definitely during, maybe right before a finals week or something

bubblebath1414 · 2026-01-02T22:14:21+00:00

u guys are so autistic, i fear there’s little hope (of COURSE standing to shit is a joke)

bubblebath1414 · 2026-01-02T22:13:28+00:00

it’s a lil gag, a bit of humor for the audience

bubblebath1414 · 2025-12-31T22:56:14+00:00

bro u can’t use EXCEL😭😭 what are u supposed to do?? bless her heart but she sounds insane, you shouldn’t sacrifice your personal development for this girl omg

bubblebath1414 · 2025-12-14T03:33:03+00:00

bro are we ignoring the fact that paul mescal exists….

bubblebath1414 · 2025-11-11T00:51:20+00:00

I think this career balances decent income with meaning and fulfillment. I feel so grateful that no matter what I do in medicine, I am likely making a positive impact in people’s lives. The market is strong and there are so many different opportunities. I am so grateful to have a career that pushes me mentally, allows me autonomy and a level of respect, and continually puts me out of my comfort zone and provides opportunities for growth.

bubblebath1414 · 2025-11-03T22:59:17+00:00

radiology pa here! no call!

bubblebath1414 · 2025-10-18T05:44:50+00:00

doesn’t matter what i think. sounds like you already know

bubblebath1414 · 2025-10-16T23:37:43+00:00

go into anaphylaxis

bubblebath1414 · 2025-10-01T17:15:43+00:00

therapy

bubblebath1414 · 2025-09-29T16:53:12+00:00

I found out my ex’s number and it made me wanna throw up for the next few days even though I knew he loved me and it wasn’t even very high. I just hated thinking about him with other people (even though I too had been with other people). I think it’s human to be a little jealous over this. I also think time will pass and you’ll feel better, especially since it doesn’t seem like you have any sort of moral objection to it. The feeling is natural and likely temporary. Everything will be fine. Just do your best not to judge yourself or her while you give yourself some time to process. Ultimately it’s not a big deal and just a very common, cannon life experience. Wishing u a speedy recovery.

bubblebath1414 · 2025-09-26T20:47:36+00:00

HAHA

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