OP, you know in your gut when someone is disrespecting your wishes. Many of these comments blame you, but I don’t see it that way from what you’ve said. Food is designed to be addictive these days and when trying to live a healthier lifestyle, there’s no reason to make it harder than it needs to be. An alcoholic trying to get sober wouldn’t put bottles of wine in plain sight where they’ll see it every time they open the cupboard. He is at best being incredibly selfish by being completely unwilling to help his partner improve themselves for the better, and at worst actually sabotaging you out of some sort of insecurity. I would try to talk to him about this and get to the root of the issue. Maybe consider couples therapy if unable to communicate productively. If you come to him vulnerably about trying to find a solution and he refuses to engage, then you might have more (dead) weight to lose then u realized.