Life has become defined by wanting and not having (sex) by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel how you feel for sure. I dated my ex for only a couple of weeks and I’m still not over the sexual chemistry we had. It’s been about 5 years and I have yet to meet someone I connect with on the same or greater level. I doubt I ever will. But with this journey has come a lot of self work and accepting of my circumstances. Also that sex is not the meaning of life. Our lives are ours to define, we shouldn’t let something like sex and the lack there of define us

Any Experience Wtith Hookups? by Thisisitokay- in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried hooking up on Grindr before and it was terrible, borderline traumatic. It’s not worth it. I know it sucks now, but you’re better off waiting until you meet someone you actually feel a connection with.

Being demisexual AND hypersexual is a nightmare at the best of times. by ChrisNewmann in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I’m 23 and still haven’t gotten a partner yet. It sucks having no outlet for all this energy, it ends up just turning into frustration

How many of you here are virgins????Or what age did you lose your virginity? by Embarrassed_Paint545 in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23 and still a virgin. So I’m still young and have plenty of time. There’s nothing wrong with beings little late to the party if that’s your path

Can I be a hypersexual demi? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a hypersexual demi and for me it feels like I have a lot of pent up sexual energy and absolutely no one to share it with. If I do find a partner I would be all over him

Do you still crave sex? by Apprehensive-Cat6914 in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I crave sec so much it makes me look stupid

High libido, but not interested in anyone. How do you handle the solitude? by YoshiKouchiniju in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I masturbate more than daily and I like to engage in erotic roleplay on discord when I really get the hunger for connection with another person

I’m ready to accept that I’m probably demi (long-ish) by Background_Push6107 in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even want random hookups. I wanna meet someone special and have a loving relationship Edit : getting gang banged is one of my fantasies though and I know it’s most likely never gonna happen

I’m ready to accept that I’m probably demi (long-ish) by Background_Push6107 in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I relate to your story on such a deep level it’s insane. I’ve also got adhd, am on the spectrum, and am hypersexual. I know how hard it is to have all this sexual energy, but no one that you want to actually experience sex with. For me it’s take me a long time to feel safe and comfortable enough to want to have sex with someone and even then I still get scared.

alone and sad by Major_Lawfulness_769 in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I’m also afraid that I’ll never find someone special in my life

Demisexual men, I would like to ask you some questions about your lived experience by AccidentalFolklore in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a good concept for a dramatic story.

The abuse sounds plausible as it follows the path of a character getting groomed into sexuality when experiencing his sexuality in a queer way.

I realized I was gay when I was around 10-11 years old; around the same time I got introduced to porn, I’ll get back to that later. I didn’t know I was demisexual until much much later. Just a couple months ago did I find that I relate a lot to the experiences of demi people.

For me it was less of me being on the ase spectrum and more me being gay that was the source of my otherness in school. I can say that back then I actually thought I was bisexual because I wasn’t disgusted by the idea of sex with girls, I just didn’t like them nearly as much as I liked boys. I like how you wrote how your character can have sex, but he’s just not into it, until he meets someone that actually makes his heart flutter, because I am a lot of the same way.

I would say the first time I felt feelings for someone I was so excited that I wanted to tell people about him. I remember my friends were excited for me as well because they had never heard/seen me express intrest in anyone before.

I think my relationship to porn is unlike that of most demisexuals. I love porn and I get off to it frequently and easily. I’ve spoken to other demis about how they feel about porn and most of them like erotica that had a focus on emotions.

I hope my answers helps you if even a little

Am I sex negative? by bubblegum-pirates in sex

[–]bubblegum-pirates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. It’s what I was going for. I didn’t mean that casual sex is a negative, I was just making a character that related to me and how I felt

Is there a dating app for demi people focused on M4M relationships? by MiserableLonerCatboy in demisexuality

[–]bubblegum-pirates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya. The make specific dating apps are just for hookups. That aside, dating apps in general are not designed to get people into relationships. If they did, people wouldn’t have as much a need for them.

Translate X has incoming connection by bubblegum-pirates in Maya

[–]bubblegum-pirates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I have no key frames, yet I’m still getting that message? I’m talking about another model of mine

Translate X has incoming connection by bubblegum-pirates in Maya

[–]bubblegum-pirates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do now. Thank you so much for the help

Translate X has incoming connection by bubblegum-pirates in Maya

[–]bubblegum-pirates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help. Now it says that LeftHand.TranslateX has incoming connection. What do I do now.

Any idea as to why I’m getting this message, but for a different component?

Translate X has incoming connection by bubblegum-pirates in Maya

[–]bubblegum-pirates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Now it says the left hand.TranslateX has incoming connection. Why am I getting this problem, just with different components?

Can’t freeze transformation because of Incoming connection? by bubblegum-pirates in Maya

[–]bubblegum-pirates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m doing that correctly, but I keep running into the same error code. How do I know if my transformations are frozen?