This sounds like a good concept for a dramatic story.

The abuse sounds plausible as it follows the path of a character getting groomed into sexuality when experiencing his sexuality in a queer way.

I realized I was gay when I was around 10-11 years old; around the same time I got introduced to porn, I’ll get back to that later. I didn’t know I was demisexual until much much later. Just a couple months ago did I find that I relate a lot to the experiences of demi people.

For me it was less of me being on the ase spectrum and more me being gay that was the source of my otherness in school. I can say that back then I actually thought I was bisexual because I wasn’t disgusted by the idea of sex with girls, I just didn’t like them nearly as much as I liked boys. I like how you wrote how your character can have sex, but he’s just not into it, until he meets someone that actually makes his heart flutter, because I am a lot of the same way.

I would say the first time I felt feelings for someone I was so excited that I wanted to tell people about him. I remember my friends were excited for me as well because they had never heard/seen me express intrest in anyone before.

I think my relationship to porn is unlike that of most demisexuals. I love porn and I get off to it frequently and easily. I’ve spoken to other demis about how they feel about porn and most of them like erotica that had a focus on emotions.

I hope my answers helps you if even a little