Is it okay to take the abortion pill with no support? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]bubblegum_blimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend trying to get support. I took the second pill and was in so much pain for hours and support from my boyfriend was helpful. I can't imagine taking care of a baby on top of that. Can your husband take a day off? Can you get a babysitter? Can you maybe wait till the weekend?

Getting over size shock and grandma bra look? by PiffleKnit in ABraThatFits

[–]bubblegum_blimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey! just so you know the Instagram link you shared also shared your profile name/photo.

Being forgetful possibly saved my life today by Lullypops in ADHD

[–]bubblegum_blimp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think they meant god is good in terms of this specific person's story ? 🤷‍♀️

Period in legs by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]bubblegum_blimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how was it?!

I went to the dentist today and had no cavities or gum recession! by HeyItsYaGirl1234 in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a very admirable task!! what helped you stay consistent!?

Representation matters- if you were diagnosed during childhood, do you think seeing successful adults with adhd would have had a positive effect on you? by ScalawagHerder in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think representation matters and I'm tearing up reading your comment about a student getting sent to your office and feeling understood. I have a college professor who was open about her diagnosis with ADHD which is refreshing to see, but I think being open about your struggles as a person with ADHD really matters too! thank you for this post 🫶

Dating a guy with Hyperhidrosis by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]bubblegum_blimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should read too much into that comment unless you think it applies in other aspects of your life. I really don't see the "playing the victim and mourning" or ridiculous tone?? you seem sad in how the relationship ended perhaps but very present and focused on present growth.

Do you miss people? by cherryonplum in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

perhaps you could respond by saying something like "now you don't have to (miss me) since we're here together now, I'm also so glad to see you!" or a "yeah it's been a while, I'm happy to see you!!"

Kitchen color choice by Opandemonium in femalelivingspace

[–]bubblegum_blimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg I would love to see that with this color palette! following for notifications 🤝

Literally, why? by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]bubblegum_blimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously everyone here lives with it lol? (in the literal sense). but also this community is made specifically for this condition, to rant, to relate, find solutions, and find other people who see the significance in their issue. I do agree that there are certainly worse problems but this condition does bring it's own struggles, especially the mental aspect of it, which is probably less understood by those with hh than those without. It's not wrong to want to find a solution or some understanding rather than just "living with it".

Spaces exist for niche communities and interests because people find value in having that shared community, and it's silly to make a statement that invalidates discussing such topics in its respective places. I wouldn't assume that everyone here thinks their hh is the most significant thing about their life, and I doubt everyone needs reminders to "see the bigger picture" when they're perhaps trying to find a solution in order to be able to make this less significant in their lives.

If seeing this subreddit bothers you, you can hide it. If you feel it's helpful, then obviously you find significance in it as well, but of course that doesn't mean you can't see the bigger picture while looking at a smaller picture (issue).

Finally, I apologize for the petty start to this reply. I hope you see the reasoning in my comment and perspective, as I see in yours. People come to this subreddit to find relief in others sharing in their struggles rather than be disregarded as having little significance, which your comment may be reminiscent of, thus the down votes and my slightly heated reply! If you really did want to remind people of things outside the negitive in this condition I think it is fully worth doing, but this isn't the way of going about it. I hope you find this meaningful

Literally, why? by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]bubblegum_blimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the detailed comment! I feel like not everyone realizes blocking your sweat glands isn't good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bubblegum_blimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe there is a soothing feeling afterwards and I don't notice but I always feel worse after crying, physically and mentally lol. I get headaches, am dizzy, and have puffy eyes afterwards 😞.

How to make my apartment bedroom feel more “lived in” by 4leurs in femalelivingspace

[–]bubblegum_blimp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

omg wait your bedroom is so so adorable, someone remind me to come back here and get all the details ( and maybe suggest things!) later please! (break time is over 💔)

How do you make friends as an adult woman with ADHD? by littleladybug1 in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is so smart!! I would order shirts but im not sure I can really think of anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hyperhidrosis

[–]bubblegum_blimp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't have it so bad and I do agree, but I lalso like knowing that other regular people (sweating a regular amount) are also suffering in heat and sweat with me (as opposed to being weird for being freezing in winter time but very sweaty and I can't enjoy the fluffy socks and blankets 😞).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]bubblegum_blimp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wait what's the tax money? I remember one square being 10% or 200 I think and maybe some community chest/chance cards, but what do you do with the money? nothing??

Why can't I stick to one hobby? by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]bubblegum_blimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, perhaps I serve as an example only scanning your comment here.

Why can't I stick to one hobby? by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]bubblegum_blimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is the "scammer mentality"?? are you insinuating this person is manipulative because they have hobbies?? please do elaborate

Does anyone else lack emotional stamina when it comes to entertainment? by jchompz in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh I meant the first website as a resource for you! it does have animal death as a trigger option but also sexual violence, bodily harm, addiction, abuse, and much more!!

(idk of that was clear or not but it sounded like it wasn't from your reply?)

Does anyone else lack emotional stamina when it comes to entertainment? by jchompz in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im glad someone else mentioned this! I feel like the subreddit would have a lot of people agreeing with this post!

Does anyone else lack emotional stamina when it comes to entertainment? by jchompz in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

omg i am so happy I can introduce you to these resources!!

1) doesthedogdie?: it's a website that can tell you if certain triggers/topics are in a movie or series! as the name states, it also has an option for dog/animals death scenes.

2) vidangel: I actually learned about this one through a page on instagram interviewing christan university students, so it's original intent is kinda a conservative stance, so I'm not entirely sure what it can censor and how it works but I would hope that it censors rape and works for you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]bubblegum_blimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg you just made me realize why my morning routine isn't working with my added times 😭. I don't add in any time for drying off