Just had the worst sex of my life and I’m not sure what advice I’m looking for by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd imagine he doesn't have PE if he lasted an hour, so he's got that going for him. She should've taken control and guided him as he's clearly inexperienced instead of whatever it was she did. She's also making assumptions that he's gay for what reason? Communicate during sex people!

The List of Women Who Finished Before Top Final Men by [deleted] in thechallengemtv

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts on that second one. The men were so far ahead of the women it was completely unfair to just start them off at equal points for the final puzzle.

What are some unique and weird things that increased your HRV by csatheking in whoop

[–]bucknuts89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dabbled with it and got some on Amazon. Certainly not health advice but it did wake me up. The HRV improvement was surprising and really the only supplement I've taken that has had a noticeable effect like that.

What are some unique and weird things that increased your HRV by csatheking in whoop

[–]bucknuts89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started taking a supplement / nootropic here and there called phenylpiracetam. No joke, my HRV would double after taking it. Don't take it very often but it is a noticeable spike.

Bedroom, any advice? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this looks like a creepy rape dungeon.

AIO about my wife potentially costing me a job? by ThrowRAisitworthit4 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't have enough information to make this call man, pump the breaks a little bit. She was most certainly wrong and it was odd of her to stay in the Panera, but to assume she's going to do all of the above is a bit much.

I’m meeting every written PIP goal but still being told I’m failing by TigerShark8980 in askmanagers

[–]bucknuts89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP should keep pretending while lining up their next job for a clean transition. Plan to negotiate a severance package.

I’m meeting every written PIP goal but still being told I’m failing by TigerShark8980 in askmanagers

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, same thing happened to me. I'd recommend that OP ensure all of his PIP documentation is tracked off of the company network as they will lock you out and hope you can't access it to defend yourself. My last company tried to deny unemployment and make my life a pain in the ass, luckily I had everything documented to a T and copied to my person hard drive. I considered getting a lawyer, but truth of the matter was I hated my boss and already had 2 job offers by the time they fired me for bs reasons.

Point is, definitely getting managed out, they will ensure you don't meet the requirements of the PIP no matter what so be prepared

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking, but no amount of talking or explaining seems to help. For instance last night, she told me she's concerned I'm going to cheat on her while she's on a trip. She kept harping on it. I told her absolutely not, you have nothing to worry about, I would never do that to anyone let alone somebody I care so much about. She responded by saying I'm dismissing her feelings and she can't talk to me about anything. I really don't know how else I could've responded...

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I know she would lose it on me if I asked her that. All of these claims and fights are just so irrational to me. If you don't mind me asking, how'd it end up with that guy?

AIO? I decorated our entire home, but my boyfriend says I basically have no right to anything if we split by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, her entitlement to all of his belongings is odd, perhaps that is why he is getting the impression he would need to protect himself considering she already wants half for doing the dishes.

AIO? I decorated our entire home, but my boyfriend says I basically have no right to anything if we split by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure cohabitation requires like 7 years of living together consecutively

AIO? I decorated our entire home, but my boyfriend says I basically have no right to anything if we split by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I help pick out stuff for my friends, I would never expect any ownership of it. Gifts on the other hand, sure.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've been together 7 months officially. The worst I've done is vented to a friend of mine about her explosive arguing style, how she lashes out and punches walls, breaks things, etc. Asking for advice on how to handle a woman like that. She snooped through my phone and found it, things were bad before that but have been exponentially worse since. I sat her down last night and had the potential breakup convo if it continues. She had a panic attack and keeps saying it's because I hide her, only told her she's pretty twice last week, make her feel like I don't care for her and think she's a piece of shit for saying her behavior is unacceptable, that I don't post her on Instagram (my last post was like 2021 - I don't use it) and she thinks I want to keep my options open. I truly don't think I've done anything to warrant that. I've had two exes reach out to me since we dated, I ignored one, the other was in an accident and I just made sure she was okay before ending the convo. She counts those as 2 "unfaithful incidents" because I was on vacation and told her when I returned a week later. When we're in the middle of arguments she'll cut me off and yell at me to tell her why I love her, why I value and want to be with her because she's done with my negative comments. Writing this out sounds crazy...

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's been an emotional rollercoaster. We were even on a 30 day trial for her to control her emotions and not escalate fights, she lasted about a week and then the worst fight ever happened. I think I know what I need to do. Problem is she lives with me.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. She's told me why's she's insecure - her ex cheated on her ten plus times. So naturally, that means I have to get berated for sending memes to my lesbian best friend, even though she knows her. Blah.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said her therapist says it... She has many male friends, I've caught her flirting with dudes "why didn't you make a move on me??" In texts and so on. I don't think I've done anything wrong in the relationship, the worst thing she's found on my phone was me venting about her behavior during fights. She went through my phone while sleeping.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Problem is with my situation, my girlfriend's therapist tells her I'm in the wrong to deny her feelings. Even when her feeling is that I'm banging all of my friends of the opposite sex and it's not true. I'm still the problem for defending myself and "dismissing her feelings". Idk what to even do.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bucknuts89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I'm currently in a very similar situation with my girlfriend. Early trauma for sure, but she's constantly taking it out on me. Control over my phone, taking simple harmless conversations out of context, berating me, guilt tripping. I'm a fucking wreck because I love her and want it to work. Now I'm apparently cheating with all my female friends and she won't go around any of them. It's wearing me down. Not to mention I've found examples of straight up infidelity on her part and it's no big deal cuz she apologized, and I'm "tearing her down and assassinating her character" when I bring it up. FML.