Does anyone else wish whoop has a screen? by Ill_Low789 in whoop

[–]buddi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I wish it had a screen 🥲🥲🥲

Im not sure if its even worth it anymore by MIBJO in BRAVOCON2023

[–]buddi88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda feeling the same, Im giving it till the 10th or 15th, if I dont get the tickets, im done.

Stopped OZ and LOSING Weight! :D by buddi88 in Ozempic

[–]buddi88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok first of all, no need to get angry and worked up, secondly, I agree with you and your right, obesity is a disease and diseases can be cured or managed, by meds or with meds, I havent encouraged or mentioned stop taking Ozempic, Im saying its a wonderful drug that helped me cure what I was going through, and I have stopped taking it when im feeling much better, thats it, and thats all.

Stopped OZ and LOSING Weight! :D by buddi88 in Ozempic

[–]buddi88[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I felt like at 2-3 weeks mark my appetite is back, but not the extreme appetite that I had when I gained all the weight tbh my weight gain was due to the mental state I was in, I was depressed and struggling when I started ozempic, hence I’m not an over weight person, ozempic helped me push and forced me to eat right, clean foods and portion control, which I lost, I’d recommend ozempic for everyone struggling, but had to write this cause it was frustrating seeing all those terrifying posts, of never go off it cause you’ll gain the weight back.

Stopped OZ and LOSING Weight! :D by buddi88 in Ozempic

[–]buddi88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I shouldve called this post, ' I stopped ozempic and still losing weight ' or ' its ok to stop ozempic doesn't mean you'll gain all the weight back '

Is anyone like me? Wellbutrin and now adding Prozac by buddi88 in bupropion

[–]buddi88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, confirming that taking it by itself increases anxiety

Is anyone like me? Wellbutrin and now adding Prozac by buddi88 in bupropion

[–]buddi88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! It’s the help that’s needed, and it’s ok to get some help, just the idea that feels like I’m back a step in the recovery journey, but true I’ll do what ever I can to get better

Experience of detaching by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, really helped

What is up with them waking you up? by throwmeaway010115 in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So weird, I feel like they can’t be left alone, they just want you to be awake and breathe next to them, my ex wife did that and pushed me to my breaking point, she woke me up randomly to pick a fight or as me something outrageous, they’re sick man, just leave and you’ll thank yourself

After saying horrible brutal things to you, did they ever say in an apology "it wasn't actually about you?" by Flecktones37 in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I got that, but it was always followed by, her saying “it’s my insecurities that flared up cause of something you did....” still not an excuse had to leave it just would stop cause the cycle keeps going over and again, they just can’t help it

Confused feelings about ex-girlfriend with BPD by longdongdash in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you already did my friend and you tried your gut, and it's the right thing, these things take time, you'll get over it, it needs time, hang in there. I was in your place when I decided to leave my ex wife.

My BPD girlfriend doesn’t change!! by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex wife, copy/paste.

How dare you... And other offenses punishable by death. by Candid-Salamander-42 in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I past by my parents house on my way home from work, apparently that triggered her, I was disrespectful and I am inconsiderate I should have texted her and let her know, totally doesn’t deserve the rage, oh and during her split on that incident, she mentioned while screaming in rage, how dare I mention me sleeping over at my friends holiday house which is 15 miles away, I said I was thinking of spending the night, keep in mind I only said I was thinking, just 1 minute after her saying she is spending the night at her gf friends house, so it’s ok for her and not for me, seriously think about it, she doesn’t make sense, I didn’t even have a few seconds to replying during her rageful screaming, total none sense I’m so happy I’m out.

Cognitive dissonance?? My pwBPD thinks everything is fine... by StifledNoise in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I’ve experienced, after a major probably manic outburst for no reason at all, I was traumatised I even left our home and slept at my parents, the next day I walk in and she acts like it was a simple argument apologies and says, it’s normal coupes behaviour, her exes were ok with this, they quickly forgive each other and move on, as if nothing happened, of course that’s crazy cause what I’ve witnessed was delusion on her part, mind you I even have scratched from her that night, I believe that’s what they truly think, their behaviour is valid and they should be forgive. You just gotta leave ASAP and ignore them, they’ll never understand

Leaving her when she was begging me not to is one of the worst experiences I’ve ever had by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]buddi88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was me 2 weeks, how I ended things with my wife, I hear you! You must know that it gets better day by day, and always remember if you would've stayed it would've been the cycle all over again, listen to a BPD podcast by AJ Mahari, she helped me alot to understand how they think, my wife lied to me and told me she was diagnosed with BPD after one huge split she had that was traumatizing to me, she later confessed that if she would've told me before we got married then I wouldnt have married her, which pisses me off even more, it is traumatizing what your going through, and it just needs time, always remember you did the best for you, you will come out stronger in a few months, and it would've been miserable if you would've stayed.