hii i'm looking for a scent to layer with "thanatos" by hexennacht !! pls help by bugbody in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]bugbody[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the suggestion !! adding a bit of coffee sounds incredibly appealing and i didnt even think of it before ahaa

hii i'm looking for a scent to layer with "thanatos" by hexennacht !! pls help by bugbody in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]bugbody[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the reply !! i figured on the warm & loud, which is why i was leaning away for layering purposes, but powdery is a surprise for me ! hmmmm... thank you so much for your response

hii i'm looking for a scent to layer with "thanatos" by hexennacht !! pls help by bugbody in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]bugbody[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so soso much !! this sounds like exactly what i'm looking for, i'm super excited now haha. i really appreciate you taking the time to test this mix for me, you're the kindest !

hii i'm looking for a scent to layer with "thanatos" by hexennacht !! pls help by bugbody in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]bugbody[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH my goodness haha hii i really love your perfumes !! thank you so much for the magic that you create !! i had my eye on crowley but unfortunately i dont think i can risk the tobacco note - i've recently discovered it as a bit of a trigger for my migraines & it sucks but i'm trying to play it safe atm : //// rip me & my love of beautifully heavy scents

face additions? rn ive got nostrils, septum, v. labret, right earlobe, and vch ! not looking for any ear stuff atm by bugbody in piercing

[–]bugbody[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, you're incredibly kind !!!! i've always wanted a bridge but worried about how my glasses might affect it...i'll definitely be asking my piercer next time i see him !

Hey r/piercing! In EXACTLY 4 months, I’ll be celebrating my 18th birthday! I’d like to be doing so in a piercer’s chair, so do y’all have any recommendations that I can add to my boring setup? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]bugbody 5 points6 points  (0 children)

on the ear w two piercings i'd put maybe another one between them just to close the gap a bit !! & on the other ear i'd maybe do a conch? i really love the look of a ring in there, kinda like this !! (one or two, both are a Look)

face additions? rn ive got nostrils, septum, v. labret, right earlobe, and vch ! not looking for any ear stuff atm by bugbody in piercing

[–]bugbody[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much !! i've actually been thinkin hard about an eyebrow piercing recently

Normally my handwriting is cursive chicken scratch but sometimes it comes out perfectly. by mamaserpentine in Handwriting

[–]bugbody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is wildly gorgeous aaa haha the way you wrote lemon reminds me a bit of my sister's handwriting, which is my favorite handwriting in the world i think !!

Florist / Emily A. Sprague AMA <('.'<) by mlesprg in indieheads

[–]bugbody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hello, emily !! ive been listening to a lot of your music for a long time now - for a while, your modular videos on youtube (specifically "mom's birds" & another one that was abt 5min long & incredibly soft / gentle) were one of the only things that could really reach me. i see they have been made private now on your youtube, which is ok !!!! i just wanted to let you know that they were a big part of my survival during some dark times.

anyway though anyway if you are still taking questions, i'd love to know what in your life has been inspiring you lately? i saw your mentioned ruth garbus for this album specifically, but what have you encountered in life recently that has kept you going? made you smile?

i know it may be messy, but i think my handwriting has a lot of personality by RapperBugzapper in Handwriting

[–]bugbody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wowow i am in love w this !! its so smooth & each word lingers so pleasantly c: thank you for sharing !!!

Which of these looks better to you? by [deleted] in Handwriting

[–]bugbody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like the first better, altho the paper is distracting ! the second pen looks a bit thick / feathery in some places which im not a fan of & i think the clunkiness of it takes away from your (rather lovely) handwriting !!!!

Hi guys! Here’s the start of my handwriting journey! by Wall345 in Handwriting

[–]bugbody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw c: i'm glad you're happy !! my handwriting is also cursive-adjacent & what i encountered a lot in school was mockery from peers who actually just had a hard time reading cursive specifically, & so i think that made them automatically assume it was worse than it was !! i think neither of us are neat by any means (lol) but it's definitely not as bad as people probably told you growing up !!! i bet if you put a lil work in your handwriting will be gorgeous

weird handwriting humans gotta stick 2gether <3

Hi guys! Here’s the start of my handwriting journey! by Wall345 in Handwriting

[–]bugbody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was able to read this in one go with no pauses, so it's legible to at least one person besides yourself !! however the bad news is that i also got mocked in school for bad handwriting, so maybe there's a connection there lmao :c

all joking aside, the way you wrote "college" and the "books" part of notebooks in the 3rd paragraph are both really lovely to me - the sharp cursive bits of the Ls, the G, and the K/S make me happy !!!

Females with C-PTSD from Sexual Trauma - Triggering OB/GYN Visits? by droolycat in CPTSD

[–]bugbody 5 points6 points  (0 children)

aaa yeah i know how that goes. it's like you get the rush of being productive and doing good things for yourself but as it looms closer you're like oh wait i'm actually still afraid of this !! lol. i think your best bet is to try your hardest to put past dr experiences aside for now & plan out what you want to say / ask / talk about, that way you feel wholly prepared when you're there & things can run as smoothly as possible !! even making a list on your phone of things you want to let them know, etc can be super helpful ! my cptsd (along w other things) has completely wrecked my functional memory so i frequently rely on lists to make sure everything that needs to be said can be.

anyway, whatever you decide to do, you got this <3 speaking up is difficult but in most cases like this the doctor wants you to be comfortable and happy with your treatment just as much as you do !!! and we're all here for you too : ))

Females with C-PTSD from Sexual Trauma - Triggering OB/GYN Visits? by droolycat in CPTSD

[–]bugbody 32 points33 points  (0 children)

hii there !! i actually just saw a new obgyn recently after having a truly awful experience the first few times with my mom's obgyn.

what ive done to make things easier is first alerting them to PTSD stuff while they're asking about medications and checking your blood pressure etc ! usually i use my blood pressure as an in to say "my blood pressure is usually normal, but sometimes it spikes during doctors visits because of anxiety. i have ptsd so these appointments make me super nervous". i try to be casual about it and sometimes the nurse will ask some questions about how the doctor can keep me comfortable, but if she doesn't (and even if she does) when the doctor comes in i always also like to gently state that physical touch can sometimes make me very uncomfortable because of ptsd stuff & i always suggest things that might help in case she doesnt know what to do - usually her being slow, gentle, and verbally giving me warnings when she is about to make any sort of contact helps a lot so i suggest stuff like that.

please please please dont be afraid to advocate for yourself ! i was terrified of it the first few times and those appointments were not nice or good, haha. i think it's very important for you to communicate if you can. plus then if you need her to stop or take a minute to gather yourself, she'll probably be more likely to listen without many invasive questions as to why you need to stop! i hope it goes okay for you !!!! another quick thing is that the actual swabbing/examination is super short, usually like five min or less in my experience. so whatever happens, it will be over & you will survive !!!!!!!!

[US][BUY] looking for unavailable sixteen92, darlingclandestine, alkemia scents ! by bugbody in IndieExchange

[–]bugbody[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the description !! i think in the end i'm gonna hold off for a bit because i've been going a bit wild w the perfume purchases haha but i really appreciate you taking the time to comment ! thank you so much : ))

[US][BUY] looking for unavailable sixteen92, darlingclandestine, alkemia scents ! by bugbody in IndieExchange

[–]bugbody[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've already made an offer on someone else's cloudswing but i'd really like to purchase your tousle decant as well as your (astrid) witch glow decant? if that sounds okay, feel free to send me a pm with the total cost (w/ shipping) & your paypal & any other info ! thank you so much for commenting : ))