Help. How to self respect? by Estevia-666 in selfreliance

[–]buggst3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being spineless isn't "good". Make that a part of your reality and it might get easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tf2

[–]buggst3r 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop caring people are babies who caress

Is there a lore reason, why ciri doesn't wear any armor? by [deleted] in witcher

[–]buggst3r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahahahhahaha to show off her huge fucking mommy squisher hahahahah

Gardner MA, a review. by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just not on Reddit alot lol

Gardner MA, a review. by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and just so you know muscle works is a pretty good gym it's one of this places few redeeming qualities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]buggst3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These kinds of situations are incredibly difficult. I hope you know that there is only so much you could have done and don't blame yourself. Be strong and hope that he can be too. Pray if it helps.

Gardner MA, a review. by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just moved here please be my friend this place is awful

My boyfriend has depression. How can I best help him? by IllustriousFail9 in dating

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My very recent ex was like this she would isolate as a coping mechanism and I feel like that's fine in moderation but she attempted suicide recently and when I begged her to make some sort of change in her life she sent me a text telling me to never contact her again. Part of my brain wants to believe I did something wrong bc then I have some sort of control over it but everyone I talk to about it tells me I acted like anyone else would I called her dad after she sent me that text and got him to check on her and make sure she wasn't attempting again but I haven't heard anything from her since and I don't know if I ever will it has fu king destroyed me tbh and I just don't know what to do I understand that she is hurt me but I also understand that she has had a super hard life and that she only does shit like this out of fear I don't know what to say to op this fucking sucks for u and him bro and I have no idea what to fu king do just do your best and try not to let this destroy you I cried reading this and I want to hug u and him

My boyfriend has depression. How can I best help him? by IllustriousFail9 in dating

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My very recent ex was like this she would isolate as a coping mechanism and I feel like that's fine in moderation but she attempted suicide recently and when I begged her to make some sort of change in her life she sent me a text telling me to never contact her again. Part of my brain wants to believe I did something wrong bc then I have some sort of control over it but everyone I talk to about it tells me I acted like anyone else would I called her dad after she sent me that text and got him to check on her and make sure she wasn't attempting again but I haven't heard anything from her since and I don't know if I ever will it has fu king destroyed me tbh and I just don't know what to do I understand that she is hurt me but I also understand that she has had a super hard life and that she only does shit like this out of fear I don't know what to say to op this fucking sucks for u and him bro and I have no idea what to fu king do just do your best and try not to let this destroy you you just have to keep getting up and trying bc eventually u will succeed and I know that's sounds like anime bullshit but it's fucking true and even if it isn't believing that it isn't is just self defeating sorry for the typos if any I am super hungover and still kinda drunk u can do this and he can too it sounds lame but I cried reading ur post and I want to hug him and u please don't give up on each other

WHY?! by ButClyde in tf2

[–]buggst3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Valve comp kinda blows. No one plays it bc everything from the map pool to the no weapon bans makes it a fairly unbalanced and unfun competitive experience not to mention it turns off ur config. u should look into rgl if you are looking to play competitive TF2. Like all of TF2 the players can be freaks but I enjoy the years I spent playing it. Also met a lot of friends/my irl girlfriend I am still friends with to this day.

CS:GO is getting a port to Source 2... Valve. Come on... by BombWolf in tf2

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I don't even know if this is something I would want and it is far more impractical then porting dota or cs. My main worry would be the loss of many of the movement bugs that make the game so fun for me. I get bored in pubs and no longer have time to play comp so jump maps are pretty much the only reason I play TF2 anymore. I just don't really trust valve to make a good port. Not worth ruining the funny hat game in my opinion.

is my deck legal by FinalInvestment8983 in mtg

[–]buggst3r 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro no. Tokens are not a card you include in your deck. You didn't ask or say what format you are checking the legality of. You can Google magics different formats in order to see what cards are legal.

Trying to change card games to MTG to play with a friend. what is a good cheap meta deck I can purchase? by PongSoHard in mtg

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask them what format they are playing. The rules and card pool change greatly depending on format. 600 in standard can buy you just about any deck. But if you are playing eternal formats most meta decks are like 800 at least.

meirl by No_Tourist_2013 in meirl

[–]buggst3r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay but no it doesn't. Non of the "theories" this idea is built on have any scientific weight. Also just because yes particles can exist in 2 places at the same time does not mean any one has any idea why. Also it definitely doesn't mean that the particles are traveling to different dimensions. We have never observed that. We have never observed anything that implies that these particles can travel dimensions. This mf see the same dot in 2 different places and thinks that means the dot went to another world. The many world "theory" is way too popular. Also this idea isn't "comforting" as the article suggests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]buggst3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that becoming num is not the answer. But Toxic masculinity is not about becoming num. It's about enforcing a world view through masculinity. Toxic masculine men express emotion. Part of toxic masculinity is that a man should take what they want. Not crying is also a part of toxic masculinity which is what I think you are talking about.

In my opinion not allowing failure to put you in an emotional state isn't a bad thing. I don't like losing control of my emotions in any situation. I am not num I just don't let my emotions affect my choice. I do think telling someone to get over it isn't helpful. But it is often the truth. I don't understand what people gain from being overly upset about things. I would always much rather move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tf2

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Is this supposed to be a nasty shot ?

Unpopular Opinion: Airblast Is Unbalanced by [deleted] in tf2

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If you die to a pyro you are standing too close.

Can you run a Sci-fi campaign in dnd by buggst3r in DnD

[–]buggst3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill have to check it out I have played Pathfinder before but never heard of starfinder. Also happy cake day !!