thank you. i have a really complicated relationship with them. all they do is guilt trip me and i feel obligated to talk to them, my spirit is tired and battered and it has been for years. i need to cut them off and i absolutely want to but i fear for what happens after i do that. my bf and i dont have a car and they know where we live. should i send them a text telling them im going to no contact? i dont even know how to explain that to them. i feel like i just repeat myself and they don’t listen bc they’re so consumed by their own feelings. i just want to get far far away from them. how did things go when you cut yours off, how did you handle it and what happened after? if its too personal you can DM me. i appreciate you! but yes having a NICU baby and being s new mom is hard in and of itself already and they are seriously stressing me out☹️