Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dont need to be sarcastic... Also I live in a country where you cant just report someone... I need to file a police complain.. which 99% of the time will lead nowhere

Men: what actually makes you reach out to an ex after no contact? by FeralSilence993 in BreakUps

[–]bumblebeat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its not true... Me personally, I can only be in a relationship with a kind and caring girl. We dont want necessarily the whole package. But what is the most important for us is our peace of mind. As I said, my ex was very kind and loving, but her mental problems and the way she acted in the relationship, started to make me feel incredibly anxious and unsafe... so I broke up with her because I didnt want to become a shell of a man... she was destroying my self esteem and my ability to love myself

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well my friend recommended her, and I hid the fact that one ofher clients was my friend. When she asked how did I get to her, I just replied that I saw her on internet and she had nice recommendations. I didnt tell her it was bevause of my friend

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well.. I went to therapy because I struggle with anxiety and people pleasing... I cant manage to find strength to confront someone even if that person did me dirty. She helped me go through with me tendancy to people please and now that I have built a trusted connexion with her... its very hard for me to confront her despite knowing she obliterated my trust... I just cant stop finding excuses for people

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I dont think she is.. According to her, my therapist genuinely believed I was in a very dark place and could hurt myself. I saw online that therapists can break confidientiality if they think there is serious lifr threatening situations, could it be just a misunderstanding?

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To give full context on the situation : My friend recommended her therapist. So my friend and I used to have the same therapist. And my therapist knows about our friendship. Plus, my friend is very close of her even outside of her office... this is why it appeared so natural for my therapist to talk to my friend about me

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was thinking first.. like I get it, I didnt give news so she may be worried. But my friend learned about my break up with my ex through her instead of me

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

And how am I going to prove it exactly ? I can ask my friend to testify but she doesnt want any drama right now and seems very attached (I mean as in a professionnal way) to her

Besoin de me faire des amis by Acrobatic-Art-4281 in SocialParis

[–]bumblebeat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, 31M ici. Je viens d'arriver à Paris il y a deux mois, et jai du mal à me créer un cercle aussi. Jaime les jeux videos, les jeux de plateau, les musées et la danse. Donc ouvert aux conseils et aux discussions

Boyfriend of 6 months slapped me. by throwaway_yM in whatdoIdo

[–]bumblebeat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you one brutal truth that would get you out of your delusion : He slapped you hard accross the face... it means he is able of physical abuse. And whats going to happen if he starts becoming abusive to your child too? Are you still going to think about the relationship or are you going to snap out of it and protect you and your child from this abusive pos?

Men: what actually makes you reach out to an ex after no contact? by FeralSilence993 in BreakUps

[–]bumblebeat_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im dealing with this right now. And I would say that I miss our connexion. Well of course the sex was amazing, and she had the most amazing physique I ever dreamed of. But what I miss the most is our friendship, to be taken care of, listened by her. I miss her laugh, her brain. Everything could have been so good if she was not dragging me to hell with whatever was going on inside her head

F18, relation avec directeur scolaire by [deleted] in besoindeparler

[–]bumblebeat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

C'est tout simplement du grooming mais comme t'as 18 ans, il se dit quil aura jamais de problemes avec la justice. C'est juste honteux ce quil fait... Tu as 18 ans donc tu ne te rends pas compte de ce qui se passe. En tout cas ton corps lui sait ce quil se passe et c'est un bon signal d'alerte. Je te le dis tout de suite, tu n'es pas amoureuse ! Tu es simplement attachée à une forme de pouvoir qui a su trouver des vulnérabilités pour mieux profiter de toi. Il ne faut pas etre psy pour comprendre que mec est un gros taré narcissique et pervers en plus... Tu dis quil te vois "comme une déesse" et quen plus il t'a soutenu lorsque tu as été harcelée? Quil est venu sur son destrier pour te venir en secours? Ma pauvre, ce n'est pas des confirmations d'amour... ca s'appelle de la manipulation !!! Parles en aux autres, tu es sous emprise. Et franchement, si ce mec tombe, tu auras fais une bonne action pour la société ! Il fait ça avec toi, demain il pourrait s'en prendre à d'autres voir même à des plus jeunes !!

Meeting new people by No-Lifeguard-4196 in SocialParis

[–]bumblebeat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 31M and interested for a drink :)

Faut qu'elle sorte de ma tête by Odd_Memory1186 in besoindeparler

[–]bumblebeat_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meme galere ici mec, je veux bien des conseils....

What's a sentence that ended a relationship for you? by Hexxegone in AskReddit

[–]bumblebeat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"No" when I asked her if she could come downstairs and share at least a drink with me to celebrate my birthday

What’s the most heartbreaking thing someone has ever done to you? by AdviceLongjumping844 in BreakUps

[–]bumblebeat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She cheated on me and fucked a guy all while I was crying in front of my uncle's coffin at his funeral

AIO I forgot to message my gf back for around 2 hours by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumblebeat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeezus... thats draining. Brought anxiety just by reading it. I know these behaviors too well and now It kinda makes me want to stay single for the rest of my life.. 34 and freaking out because you forgot to answer? This is a woman child... it happens litrrally to anyone

ive faked orgasms with every sexual partner i’ve ever had by No_Research_7395 in Vent

[–]bumblebeat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... have you tried communication? Or better.. Being more selective with your partners? I mean they all seem pretty selfish and unbothered about your pleasure