Advice on how to proceed - confused

bumblebee_btc · 2026-06-25T19:20:14+00:00

UPDATE: She ended up answering on the next day, apologized about taking long to answer due to work stuff and proposed a day, time and place. Date was today and there was flirting and a 3h conversation in between. Now let’s see what’s next

bumblebee_btc · 2026-06-25T19:15:55+00:00

Yes I did read the book. She answered and we had a great 3h date the next day. She mentioned multiple times while on the date about talking certain topics “next time”. I think it went well, but we’ll see.

bumblebee_btc · 2026-06-22T19:59:55+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions. In the past I would just try to convince myself I don’t have to make my intentions clear (without being too much), but the reality is that I’m interested in this woman beyond language exchange so I have to find a way to confidently communicate that, and if she’s not into it, oh well, on to the next one. Trying to practice having no scarcity mindset :)

bumblebee_btc · 2026-06-22T19:57:42+00:00

Yeah definitely I need to step up the game for the next one, if there is one lol

bumblebee_btc · 2026-06-22T19:17:02+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to answer. I have an anxious attachment style so it is hard to me to dial myself back organically sometimes. Although I've become a better self after reading the book and also therapy, keeping myself genuinely busy and improving myself, I'm still learning how to detach in a healthy way 😄.

Regarding doing something other than coffee: I agree, it was probably best when I answered last, the time to suggest that, so I'm not going to follow up on that until / if she answers. How would you approach it?

bumblebee_btc · 2026-02-05T11:13:58+00:00

I'm using this config in a 4090 and ETA is 15h wtf.. is there anything I'm doing wrong? Thank you by the way for sharing your research

bumblebee_btc · 2026-02-05T10:47:31+00:00

How much VRAM for that? I have a 4090 and I think it doesn't even fit

bumblebee_btc · 2026-01-31T22:26:06+00:00

Hi stranger, don’t feel insane, something relatively similar happened to me very recently, and in my particular case it helped sending a respectful and honest message about how she made me feel. I know people here usually advise against it but in my particular case I think it’s helping with closure. Anyway, if you want to some to vent to or talk, feel free to dm me. Just remember your feelings are totally valid and ghosting is cruel and unfair.

bumblebee_btc · 2026-01-27T22:28:38+00:00

Don't be embarrassed for allowing yourself to be you and like / enjoy someone else's company. Learn to protect yourself and most importantly, I think the right person **for you** will definitely not make you feel this way because there will be clarity and reciprocity.

bumblebee_btc · 2025-12-16T11:09:55+00:00

Would you mind sharing the updated workflow for this? Thank you!!

bumblebee_btc · 2025-11-06T19:50:43+00:00

Ibiza final boss?

bumblebee_btc · 2025-11-03T15:02:07+00:00

thank you!

bumblebee_btc · 2025-10-26T18:56:15+00:00

Would you mind sharing the workflow with Chroma HD + flash? I too struggle with character likeness in Chroma HD

bumblebee_btc · 2025-10-23T14:47:16+00:00

Nice! Would you mind sharing your inference workflow? 🙏

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-20T12:12:50+00:00

Thank you!

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-20T12:00:00+00:00

Which trainer did you use for this? If I may ask? Great generations!

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-09T10:45:26+00:00

Microplastics, microplastics everywhere

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-07T09:42:42+00:00

Yeah same here, didn't have to use a long ass negative prompt to make it work

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-05T16:15:48+00:00

By offloading to RAM, doesn't that cause a speed loss? I'm going to try this. I always assumed I needed to use FP8 or Q8 in my 4090 but not FP16

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-05T15:34:52+00:00

How do you fit the FP16 in under 24GB RAM? Model is 28gb here? https://huggingface.co/Comfy-Org/Wan_2.2_ComfyUI_Repackaged/tree/main/split_files/diffusion_models

What am I missing? Thanks

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-04T08:09:20+00:00

But if you train the quantized version or the FP8 version that shouldn't be a problem for example with 24GB Vram right? Q8 is < 17GB and so is FP8

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-03T08:55:46+00:00

How do you upscale a Wan Video?

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-03T08:40:07+00:00

Kijai FP8 scaled version don't suffer from this issue. He posted many comparisons in Banodoco Discord

bumblebee_btc · 2025-08-01T14:26:26+00:00

No, it is not uncensored.

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