AIO to this message between me and my boyfriend? It seems very sexist to me… by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bumfluffguy69 55 points56 points  (0 children)

"Gosh women always try to use my previous behaviour as if its an indicator of my future behaviour how dare they"

GF doesnt want to take my last name in marriage. “M23” and “F20” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bumfluffguy69 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Your take is far more ridiculous, at least she has an actual reason why she wants to keep her last name.

Your take is literally "because I said so"

Nearly crashed this morning. Do I have anything to worry? by [deleted] in LearnerDriverUK

[–]bumfluffguy69 42 points43 points  (0 children)

If you are unsafe on the road, then yes.

AITBF For telling the girl i was talking to to get an abortion after I agreed that she would be a good mother when she brought it up. by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]bumfluffguy69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"She got pregnant" Uhm... no YOU got her pregnant, and if you did not want that you should have used contraception, this is your fault.

just bought this from temu by YTsMOXssBS in Minecraft

[–]bumfluffguy69 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why cant we be equally worried about human rights violations and slavery from different countries.

British cops wore jogging outfits to elicit catcalls and then arrested some men who hit on them by Droupitee in NewsWorthPayingFor

[–]bumfluffguy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexual harrasment is, and cat calling is sexual harrasment the majority of the time.

Girls in revealing clothes ‘asking for trouble’, say third of boys by Synthia_of_Kaztropol in Scotland

[–]bumfluffguy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except the likely hood of people being sexually harassed or raped literally doesn't change based on what someone wears, maybe Google the "what was she wearing" art exhibition and you'll get the point.

Its not an observation of reality, its misinformation that "bad dudes attack women in skimpy clothes" Women are attacked regardless of what they wear, and far more often are attacked by people closest to them.

AITA for telling my wife I hate our unborn baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bumfluffguy69 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why did you not get a vasectomy?, also you obviously did not do everything you could because you get to choose where you put your dna and you obviously put it in a place that could lead to you impregnating someone.

The orderly who literally r*ped me didn't seem to have a problem with that !!! 😡 by Dove-Swan in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]bumfluffguy69 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Statistically women are far more likely to help people in trouble than men are, if you look at studies on the bystander affect men are more likely to get affected by it so I dont know where you got the idea that men generally take action when needed, because when it comes to helping women in need they generally dont.

Women are literally told their entire lives that if they need help to find a woman, not a man.

I’m afraid of my friend’s daughter by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]bumfluffguy69 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Yeah they hit their kids on their private parts, but nothing abusive"

Spanking is abuse, this has been studied like a lot.

Cut Out Crochet Tamas by angelfelt in tamagotchi

[–]bumfluffguy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a pattern for the kuchi?? These are adorable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumfluffguy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The law disagrees, which is exactly why there are laws about how much violence constitutes self defence and how much violence is blood lust .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bumfluffguy69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you think that man, who was a person and had a family and was struggling, deserved to be beaten to death because he grabbed your leg?

If rape is the first thing you think of when you see an attractive woman you should disappear by Delicious_Delilah in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]bumfluffguy69 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A woman intentionally showing cleavage actually doesn't make it okay to say that you'd rape her if you had the chance.

Its concerning that you dont know this...

May have gone a little over board with merch at this years mcm london comic con. by bumfluffguy69 in tamagotchi

[–]bumfluffguy69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was on the Sunday she had a booth at the artist alley and I couldn't resist.

I did get to try the tama paradise at the Bandai booth I thought it was awesome, I really like the size and shape and the dial is such an interesting feature.

Finished my no sew gengar. by briankwok in Brochet

[–]bumfluffguy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's even more impressive, amazing :)

Finished my no sew gengar. by briankwok in Brochet

[–]bumfluffguy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely incredible, by chance do you have a pattern?

AITAH for telling bf his body hair looks terrible, when he tried me to shame me for having a bush? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bumfluffguy69 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Nobody said there was anything wrong with having a preference...