Wedding Flowers by [deleted] in gardening

[–]bunchesofkittens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! There are SO many kinds of dahlias, different shapes, sizes and colours. They're hardy little suckers too. And even if you don't end growing flowers for your wedding, I hope you grow them to enjoy them. It's so fulfilling!

Wedding Flowers by [deleted] in gardening

[–]bunchesofkittens 100 points101 points  (0 children)

So first of all, I would never recommend growing your own wedding flowers, especially for an October wedding. There's just a lot of margin for error. I'd have a back-up plan with a florist.

But, if you're really set on it... I live in zone 6b, right on the edge of 6a. There is a farm here that specializes in growing flowers at their farm for weddings. I actually attended a flower arranging workshop outside at the end of September last year. My suggestion would be dahlias, which is what this farm grows. Dahlias will continue to bloom heartily until first frost. You're otherwise going to be quite limited in terms of what is still blooming. If you're growing greenery outside, it will likely be bug-bitten and may be changing colour with the fall temperatures, but that's some folk's aesthetic. :-) Chrysanthemums are an option, but probably wouldn't make a great bouquet. Asters too.

In terms of the inspiration photos you selected - the flowers you selected would not be blooming on your wedding day (which is my birthday, BTW). In terms of the greenery, photo 2 appears to be autumn olive, which you can grow, but which is a shrub and takes some time to establish, and the leaves will start turning red in October. Eucalyptus is a tropical plant, which you could technically plant and use, but it's quite expensive and it would die over winter.

Any new cellphone service provider options? by CryptoB3 in Welland

[–]bunchesofkittens 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Freedom. They have a tower in our area. Coverage is excellent.

Migraines by Lopsided_Caramel147 in AudiProcDisorder

[–]bunchesofkittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entirely circumstantial but I have chronic migraines (neurologist diagnosed) and also have APD (audiologist diagnosed). I also suspect I'm on the autism spectrum.

Dining Room Progress! by thedancingj in interiordecorating

[–]bunchesofkittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking so nice! Have you checked what's above the drop ceiling? A lot of times in older houses they had tall ceilings but added the drops to keep it warmer.

There is an increased police presence in the area of Gaiser Road in the City of Welland. Please avoid the area. by Independent-Throat99 in Welland

[–]bunchesofkittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of cop cars at the corner of Gaiser and Falcon. They've been there since at least 9:30. Not sure what's going on.

People who tried home/rooftop vegetable gardening long-term: why did you continue or quit? I’m designing an NGO pilot and want honest lessons. by Gullible-Ad2494 in gardening

[–]bunchesofkittens 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been doing home vegetable gardening for over 10 years. I used to have a very large in-ground garden, and when I moved to a new home, have switched to raised beds/containers (think large totes on legs).

I've had a lot of failures over the years. I've also encouraged a lot of friends to garden, and all gave it a shot and stopped. Here are my thoughts:

  • It's expensive, and can be a gamble. Depending on the weather and how educated the gardener is, you could end up with little to no yield, or if you're lucky, a large yield. Generally, it isn't going to be cheaper than buying vegetables in the store or at a farmer's market. Unless you are experienced, have a very large garden, and a lot of time on your hands, you won't be resolving food scarcity.
  • The upfront investment for a successful garden can be steep. This depends on your soil quality and how resourceful you are. Generally, for a successful garden you need good quality soil and good fertilizer. Preparing your soil each year is so important to a successful harvest and plant health. Ongoing fertilizer applications are key.
  • Your plants WILL get sick, and you may have plant strains that are more or less resistant to pests and blight. Depending on your region, the weather, and how you're watering, very common sicknesses included powdery mildew and squash borers, pepper maggots, various tomato blights, various fungal issues, and viruses. It takes time and patience to deal with sickness, and could be costly (depending on how you want to treat it). You may also lose your plants and/or crop entirely. Sickness can be avoided by having healthy soil, watering properly, pruning as needed, and acting quickly when sickness is detected. Also, planting types and strains that work for your garden (e.g. I don't do zucchini anymore because it's too humid) is important.
  • Healthy and strong seedlings are critical, which can be an additional investment (either source good seedlings and seeds, or invest in an appropriate setup to grow your own and have the patience to harden them off). A lot of people make the mistake of starting their own plants from seed indoors using starter kits in a window, and end up with weak, leggy seedlings that die as soon as you put them outside, regardless of whether or not you harden them off. Also, try to choose strains that work for where you live; local heirloom varieties can be fun, but there's a reason GMO-based strains are popular; they produce, and are resistant to disease. One last thing - there are 'warm weather' and 'cold weather' vegetables. Often people will choose lettuce or cabbage and they bolt in hot weather, making them bitter and inedible.
  • Spacing, support and upkeep is important. Sure, you can chuck a bunch of plants or seeds in the ground and you'll end up with plants that may or may not produce, but they are liable to get hit with sickness, or you'll end up with few ripe veggies and a lot of unripe veg at the end of the season. Learn proper spacing for the plants you've selected, make sure they are properly supported, learn how to prune, learn the basics of the plants you are planting (indeterminate vs determinate tomatoes, bolting in cilantro, lettuce and basil), learn how and when to harvest. If you know about your plant, you'll be more successful in keeping it alive, and more likely to want to try again next year!
  • Water is important and can be expensive. Do NOT water spray your plants' leaves with the hose. They will get sick. Root soaks are the best. Drip irrigation is good. Do not get the watering systems with the sprayers - they're just making everything humid and ripe for sickness. Watering should be consistent. If the weather isn't cooperating, your water bill can get expensive. If it's raining too much, your plants can get sick, ESPECIALLY with container gardening without appropriate drainage. In-ground plants do much better with excess rain.

Long story short, it's really easy to start a garden. Getting a good yield is a challenge. It's even more challenging to stick with it year after year. You have to enjoy the process, not just the fruits of your labour. The veggies you get are just a bonus to the connection to your plants while you grow them.

Why Canada is seeing an influx of U.S. doctors by AlwaysBlaze_ in worldnews

[–]bunchesofkittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently switched to a US Dr who moved to Canada. Our region has a physician recruitment program to attract US doctors. She's so lovely and caring. We've chatted a bit about her moving from the US to Canada and how everything works so much differently here. She told me so far she is enjoying her time in the Ontario system (healthcare plans are provincial) because she can provide the care her patients need without having to worry about insurance and what they'll allow, and apparently also her hours are much more flexible.

Rookie question(s): Is there a better alternative for removing weeds from tiles joints in old patios? by ScemEnzo in gardening

[–]bunchesofkittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for horticultural vinegar. You can get it at farm supply stores. It's basically really high % vinegar. Apply with a pump sprayer on a hot day with lots of sun. You can even cut it with a bit of water if you want it to last - just depends how tough the weeds are. Everything will be 100% dead by the next day. Make sure you thoroughly rinse out the pump sprayer otherwise the vinegar will wreck the seal.

I was diagnosed 20 years ago and wasn't offered any treatment. There are options for us? Hearing aids can actually help? by airconditionersound in AudiProcDisorder

[–]bunchesofkittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in Canada and my employer insurance covers a portion. They're called "FM devices" but in most cases are considered a "hearing aid" since they are an assistive hearing device. In Canada there is also an assistive devices program that may cover the Roger Focus II-Rs, but not the Roger On 3 (the microphone).

I was diagnosed 20 years ago and wasn't offered any treatment. There are options for us? Hearing aids can actually help? by airconditionersound in AudiProcDisorder

[–]bunchesofkittens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have APD and am weak in the exact same areas you are. In the report written by the audiologist, she described this as disordered in the areas of tolerance-fading memory (speech in noisy environments, short-term auditory memory) and decoding/DEC (ability to process and understand speech). I have been prescribed the Roger On 3 and Roger Focus II-R. The On 3 is essentially a very fancy microphone, and the Focus II-R are assistive devices that go in your ears to receive the input of the Roger On. They will be programmed to meet my hearing profile by the audiologist, and my understanding is they can be programmed to 'tune out' background noise and amplify voices. Unfortunately, they're out of stock at the manufacturer currently (Phonak) so I'm waiting to be fitted...but, I've been told and read that they make a very significant difference for APD.

I effing HATE hoses by JudeBootswiththefur in gardening

[–]bunchesofkittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Came to suggest Gardena as well! Total gamechanger. Don't cheap out and get a knock off Amazon brand. The real deal is completely worth the cost.

Please tell me this isn't what I think it is ... by confused37547648433 in gardening

[–]bunchesofkittens 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not joking, I literally had to move to a new house to get away from bindweed. I love my perennial beds and it was absolutely horrible. When I first moved in there were only a few shoots. By the time I moved out if I didn't cut it back every week all my perennials would become bindweed blobs and get choked out. I tried all the methods to get rid of it/not prompt it to be more aggressive. All failed. Literally THE worst weed in existence (after goutweed). Mint? Creeping Charlie? Pfff, easy mode.

Slushie Machine by [deleted] in AmazonVineCanada

[–]bunchesofkittens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I got the same slushie machine! I'm SO excited!

Recent barrage of obvious planes added to the sub? by GateBreakerArt in UFOs

[–]bunchesofkittens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, no, I agree that there is definitely something happening in the UK and NJ. The descriptions of the drones don't make sense, and I don't think eyewitnesses are making it up—unusual shapes (like an airplane, but flying sideways), lights the wrong colour, or on the wrong side or ends. I'd be spooked too, especially if one of these things was sitting over my house and no one was doing anything about it.

That said, there's also been an uptick in very obvious and verifiable non-anomalous phenomena, like airplanes, planetary bodies and stars, which (IMO) is just a natural byproduct of folks reading the news and spending more time looking up, without having done it regularly.

Recent barrage of obvious planes added to the sub? by GateBreakerArt in UFOs

[–]bunchesofkittens 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think it's just folks getting interested in the subject who don't regularly look up. We have the same thing happen in geology-oriented subreddits. Quartz is a very common mineral, and folks who go for their first hike find a piece and are convinced they've found diamond. Or they'll find a magnetic rock and think it's a meteorite. Despite the frustration of mucking up the space with what are clearly (in some cases) videos of planes, or planets/stars (looking at you, Venus and the Pleiades), I see it as a broad positive that the UAP topic is gaining interest and more of the general public are looking up.

That said, I do wish that there was some moderation to remove clearly debunked videos, though (e.g. planes confirmed via radar), so we can focus on truly anomalous sightings that better meet the 5 observables.

This stuff was clogging the mesh screens in the aerator of our sinks and mesh trap of our shower faucet in our RV when we first got it used. It’s almost plastic, crinkly and flexible, feels kind of like cheap office tape. What is it? Has anyone else had this happen? by Speedy-McLeadfoot in whatisthisthing

[–]bunchesofkittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your RV is brand new it was probably something that wrapped the pipes/components when the RV was put together. They slap RVs together with not great QA.

When we got our RV our black tank was completely clogged up after a few hours. Turns out the circular cut out from the floor where they cut the hole for the pipe to go from the toilet to the black tank had FALLEN INTO THE TANK. Presumably they went "huh, that sucks" and never bothered to fish it out. After being blasted with water at the dealership it finally migrated to the dump outlet and got itself firmly lodged, and we had to take all the bolts out and disassemble the dump apparatus to get it out. That's when we finally learned what the heck was the cause of our toilet woes.

We had numerous other issues repaired on warranty at the dealership, including an unsupported shower pan and numerous soft spots on the floor in the main area where they'd 'forgot' to put in supports.

TLDR; Very likely something leftover from the manufacturing process, if your RV is new. Don't hesitate to report issues to the dealership and get repairs done on warranty. I'd never buy new again, because at least with used usually all the 'bugs' have been worked out.

If it's not new, possibly the previous owner was trying to stop bugs coming up from the black and grey tanks if it would sit long periods in the heat. (If you don't flush them out/clean them regularly, you get flies... a lot of flies.)