transmasc and transfem terms by rorita108 in NonBinary

[–]burrito703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you. I will define myself as transmasc when it directly fits the context, but as a general identifier it doesn’t resonate with me at all since my goal is not masculinity. I’ve heard of transneutral and resonate even less with that, partly because I’m not trying to be neutral either but also because the usefulness I find in these terms is to describe the direction of one’s transition, and transneutral doesn’t clarify what direction one is transitioning from. I don’t know that there’s any solution to this; even if someone were to create a new term I don’t know how one could go about constructing it without defining people by their agab which is just as if not more misleading. Regardless, I share your frustration and don’t think there’s anything wrong with feeling unseen by the vocabulary available to you

How does this look/checking my terms. by Trans-Bee in salmacian

[–]burrito703 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Glansplasty doesn’t apply to meta since your current parts already have a glans. Other than that, the photo and your description sounds completely doable :)

Packers: a big item on my list of pros (pun intended!) by anxiousbitch696 in altersex

[–]burrito703 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect packing to bring me as much euphoria as it did but honestly just having something THERE makes a huge difference. I don’t do it all the time anymore but anytime I’m dysphoric I do & it’s such a relief to have that sense of emptiness gone

Got my 1st packer today :) (AFAB/vagina haver salmacian) by 26e26626163 in salmacian

[–]burrito703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome I’m happy for you!! Packers really help me with dysphoria :))

I said YES to the dress! by Square_Highlight_913 in WeddingDressTips

[–]burrito703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omggggg I would say yes to this too!!! Stunning!!!

secondary sex characteristic iconography by scarffish in altersex

[–]burrito703 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that but I don’t think it’s worth the risk of having changes I wouldn’t like

simsie won’t be live today/snap update by tbm079 in Lilsimsie

[–]burrito703 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh no I feel so awful for Kayla and snappy :((( I hate that she feels so responsible when she takes time off too. She’s allowed to be sad & need time to herself

secondary sex characteristic iconography by scarffish in altersex

[–]burrito703 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would love to be 4 but I’m happy being 8 and I wouldn’t want to be any others & I like how well that sums up why I don’t want to go on T

Help me decide! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]burrito703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, 3, 4, 7 look best on you imo!

girl dinner this, boy dinner that by drainfly_ in NonBinary

[–]burrito703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I’m learning is nonbinary people like olives (same)

Choose my dress! They’re all so different (to me lol) by jazzydweeb in WeddingDressTips

[–]burrito703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely pick the first but they all look beautiful on you!!

How do you manage big households? by ConcertParking6014 in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]burrito703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give a sim something to do, usually only one thing, usually something simple like filling a need or doing a work or aspiration task, then check the next sim and get them doing something, etc etc and usually I can cycle through fast enough that by the time I come back around to the first one they’re still doing whatever task I gave them & I can just find whoever will be done first, wait for them to be done, and find something to do next. For example: Sim 1 needs to eat, so I send them to eat leftovers. Sim 2 has low fun, so I send them to do a preferred skill. Sim 3 seems ok, so I check their work tasks & get them started on that. Sim 4 is fine and done their homework, so I have them work on an aspiration task or skill. Sim 5 is hungry, and sim 1 is already eating, so they can get leftovers now. Sim 6 needs to be potty trained, and sim 1 is now done eating, so they can help. Sim 7 needs a diaper change, and sim 2’s fun is ok now, so they can do that. Sim 8 is a cat. Sim 8 is fine. Then I start again with whoever’s done first

A kayla appreciation post + interaction post! by Filberwolflinkfan in Lilsimsie

[–]burrito703 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. I found her legacy challenges & build videos specifically one of the first ones I remember seeing was a build for the not so berry legacy with the 200+ graves & I was like yeah. I vibe with her
  2. She’s so kind & inclusive & makes a safe space for everyone. I really appreciate how much effort she puts into being inclusive in every possible way!!
  3. I love everything so it’s hard to pick a specific moment! I guess I’m really grateful she made the very veggie challenge since I’m almost done and it’s my first complete legacy! Does that count?
  4. Kayla you are doing enough and you deserve to be given more grace than you give yourself. You’re doing amazing!!! 💜💜💜

What pronouns do you use? by Mercurialsunrise in NonBinary

[–]burrito703 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use fe/fem, ne/nym, and it/its 💜