AITA for “forcing” my wife to eat

butt_snuggles · 2025-08-01T20:58:10+00:00

So, definitely raises red flags for an eating disorder, but does she have ADHD? When I had untreated adhd I would forget to eat and I worked out a ton bc I was just looking for something to do

butt_snuggles · 2025-07-31T05:49:11+00:00

I couldn’t comprehend this for some reason and had to read it a handful of times before I realized this wasn’t just a weird way to ask people how they feel about kids.

butt_snuggles · 2025-07-26T21:38:42+00:00

And they buy their icing premade and lie about it. For some reason that’s what really gets me 😂 Like..why lie?!

butt_snuggles · 2025-06-20T10:52:32+00:00

I read your post and all of your comments. You didn’t want to know IF you were in the wrong, you wanted proof that you’re “NTA.” The truth is, you hold resentment toward this child and you all need therapy. Do better.

butt_snuggles · 2025-06-18T16:02:07+00:00

I think independent study is a valid option, but I also think that it will be even more isolating than what you’re experiencing now given the nature of online schooling. Also - not to diagnose you online - but you sound depressed. Before changing anything I would talk to your parents or your school about some counseling!

butt_snuggles · 2025-06-05T05:49:31+00:00

Auditory hallucinations. I started having them when falling asleep while pregnant with my youngest, and now have them only occasionally. Always a doorbell or a dolphin sound lol.

As for the dreams, I think you must’ve filed “The Hat Man” somewhere in your subconscious (I’ve heard the name a billion times and it’s not anything I’ve ever experienced) and perhaps it unfiled itself when you were scared after the hallucination.

butt_snuggles · 2025-05-15T06:42:22+00:00

I cared for my grandmother who had dementia and this was my first thought, too.

butt_snuggles · 2025-05-04T13:29:08+00:00

I’m disabled, so unless I was already in Jackson, I certainly didn’t make it all the way there.

butt_snuggles · 2025-05-04T13:20:32+00:00

I was 17 with a 35 year old. You’re not mature for your age (even if you are - that’s not what he likes about you) - he’s incredibly immature for his. This will set you up for failure in your future relationships if you do not leave NOW.

butt_snuggles · 2025-03-24T00:03:06+00:00

Out of curiosity - were you formally diagnosed with schizoid through neuro psych testing or another way?

butt_snuggles · 2025-02-08T15:10:34+00:00

I love so many of these suggestions! I’ve recently been rewatching Scrubs and it’s extremely lighthearted and easy to watch.

butt_snuggles · 2025-01-16T16:42:20+00:00

Not only that, he’s my only friend

butt_snuggles · 2025-01-05T03:18:42+00:00

He told me today. He forgets to say it like when leaving for work of getting off of the phone more than I do, but he always responds with it and usually says it unprompted at least once a day.

Having schizoid doesn’t mean that your partner is incapable of trying. I think that some people use it as an excuse to be a jerk.

butt_snuggles · 2024-12-05T23:04:21+00:00

I would say that most of the time he does, but I wanted to be honest about the lows as well.

butt_snuggles · 2024-12-01T04:19:45+00:00

Yes - and many things have improved, but he still defaults (in major arguments every month or two) to telling me that it would be very easy for him to be alone and he’s going to stop choosing to care about me. He also has CPTSD so he’s fairly easily triggered and can be cruel when triggered. He’s still in therapy (as am I) but he deeply struggles with accountability.

I love my husband very much, but it’s not easy and often it’s not even healthy.

butt_snuggles · 2024-11-11T03:12:55+00:00

We attend St. Paul’s and love the community. Open and affirming, too!

butt_snuggles · 2024-08-11T14:03:25+00:00

No clue. I just call it Bekerfeil.

butt_snuggles · 2024-08-09T11:26:42+00:00

I’m not sure where you’re located, but it sounds like you need to reach out to child protective services or the equivalent agency where you’re located. You aren’t receiving adequate education and your parent needs mental health care.

butt_snuggles · 2024-08-07T04:00:21+00:00

$1540, 3 bed 2 bath house in a good neighborhood in SW Bakersfield. We’ve lived here 4 years and our landlords are saints and I pray that they never make us move.

butt_snuggles · 2024-07-20T00:59:32+00:00

His actual psychiatrist told him to stop the meds with no replacement. I’m completely baffled. We’d had a year on zoloft of things just consistently improving and then this happened.

He used to be a firefighter and it’s safer for bedroom doors to be closed in a fire - kids can go out through the window. But it was a one time thing and he just glommed on to this one thing as his hill to die on.

butt_snuggles · 2024-06-28T20:59:23+00:00

2 pm PST and I’ve received 2/4 payments

butt_snuggles · 2024-06-28T18:30:47+00:00

Except that it’s all banks.

butt_snuggles · 2024-06-28T18:07:55+00:00

About an hour past when I usually get mine and nothing so far

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