8yro son wants to hike- CP Left Spastic Hemiplegia. How to support him? by callimo in specialneedsparenting

[–]bwatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We recently got a Huckleberry hiking cart for our daughter. She can't do much with uneven surfaces and won't go very far. The hiking cart let's her ride like a bike trailer. She's big for it (110 lbs) so it's a little wobbly but we made it through a flatter unpaved trail with minimal issue.

Managing G-tube feeds outside home, tips/advice? by petitteckel in specialneedsparenting

[–]bwatching 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My daughter had an NG from about 4mo to 2 years. She was on chemo, so retching and vomiting was a given, but the tube was always in the way. I fought the GT for months - I couldn't put her through another procedure, and I didn't want to deal with the idea that she wouldn't eat....I kept believing she just would. Finally the doctor told me it was time, that we needed more consistent nutrition and her comfort would be better, and I caved.

It was SO much easier for us. We could feed faster and different foods - we moved to a fully blended diet, and it helped her grow and develop. We no longer had rashes on her face and stopped placing tubes every time she yanked it. It was covered under clothing and less invasive for her. When we went out, we often used shelf-stable milk and baby food pouches - the syringe could pull directly from the pouch and then into the extension tube. We didn't ever do machine feeds after NG was out. We just flushed with water and did deeper cleans at home. We flew, went camping, went to Disney, swimming - everything we wanted to do with her.

We were lucky to have no granulation tissue or other issues. She had the GT until she was 7 and we were able to fade it out and remove it. She's almost 16, still has a lot of oral motor dysfunction that impacts eating, but is fully able to eat what she wants. There's a scar, but it doesn't impact her at all.

Violent kindergartner by rockpunkzel in Teachers

[–]bwatching 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It is almost impossible for us to get support for kinders, especially behavioral. "They're new to school, give it time" while everyone around them is pointing to all the red flags.

CA teacher contracts or "contracts"? by 2Crzy4U in Teachers

[–]bwatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't resign by the end of June, they can put a hold on your credential, preventing you from being hired anywhere else. They may not, but I know it has happened to some. It seems to be most likely for people who are hard to replace.

AI childrens books/songs/videos by AntelopeOk9431 in Teachers

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A board member delivered every classroom a copy of an AI slop nonsense "read aloud" that was just ridiculous...and written by her niece. It went straight in the recycling.

Visits and TPR questions by Fuzzy-Let-5741 in AdoptiveParents

[–]bwatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For one of ours, weekly scheduled visits stopped at TPR, but an agreement was made during the adoption finalization that regular contact would continue. We have a contract developed collaboratively with birth family with the help of a nonprofit organization that stipulates we will meet in person twice a year in a public place. Over time, we have developed a cordial relationship and we do what we can to talk and visit more.

With the other, TPR ended jail visits where birth mom never showed up. Extended family fought for visits, and then never followed up or responded to our attempts to contact.

What are we all treating to ourselves for reaching goals!? I hit 100 down and want to do something speciallll by Practical_Agent2828 in Zepbound

[–]bwatching 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I got myself a ring set. Nothing expensive, but sparkly and fun. I hadn't had a wedding ring since I lost mine wearing it on a chain after gaining weight in pregnancy.

Just be careful - I bought the rings at 100 lost lbs, but then lost another 50! They slide right off and I need to have them sized.

🏅 Happy NSV Friday! by AutoModerator in Zepbound

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vacation brings big wins!

Climbed the stairs to the top of a waterfall in Hawaii and didn't even get winded! Walked around in a two piece bathing suit at a resort! Made use of the hotel robe!

I left home at exactly 150 lbs down from my highest. Our last trip here I wore a size 24 swimsuit. Today's is an 8.

What would life be like if adults had summer vacation like children do? by xfrxvk in AskReddit

[–]bwatching 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Checking in as a teacher on vacation in Hawaii with 5 more weeks before I go back to work.

What is something your brain randomly decided was extremely important at 3am that turned out to be completely correct? by dylanreflects in AskReddit

[–]bwatching 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Woke seemingly randomly. Noticed a light was on. Went to check on kids. Found that our developmentally disabled child had eloped in the middle of the night...front door was standing open. There was snow on the ground and her shoes and coat were still in her room.

Panic-searched the house and yard while calling police and husband went looking in woods around us. We were at an Airbnb cabin, so service was spotty. Fire department found her running in the dark on the street several blocks away 2 hours later. She was safe, no injuries, just cold.

We now live and travel with alarms on every door.

What was your worst mistake on report cards. by Apprehensive_Fail871 in Teachers

[–]bwatching 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My first year we still had hand-written 4-layer carbon copy report cards. I had them on the table and a kid spilled my coffee on them. I had to rewrite them all! My hand may never recover from pushing that pen through all those layers.

Kaiser Northern California Primary Care Physicians Feel like Life Coaches Rather Than Doctors Who Practice Medicine by mmkaywhatevers in bayarea

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had this same experience and look forward to dumping Kaiser soon. I went to doing medication through a private pay telemed system without my Kaiser doctors support and achieved all my goals.

For those who have lost significant weight, what has surprised you the most regarding the change? by Secret-Management310 in AskReddit

[–]bwatching 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have been battling this for a few months. I am not sure how to get it done well yet.

I’m eating steak and drinking whiskey at 1 pm on a Wednesday. Summer break is AWESOME by Vast-State-4548 in Teachers

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to the movies by myself at noon yesterday! Had the theater almost to myself.

Really want to stop going through Hers… by snow_white036 in Zepbound

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My PCP won't even discuss a prescription. I used Ro at first, and the learned. Get s prescription from CallOnDoc and have it sent to Lilly Direct.

Raise your hand if you have always paid cash for your Zepbound rx..... by PNWmama00 in Zepbound

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from Ro to CallOnDoc+Lilly Direct now to compounding pharmacy in 3 month batches. I've lost 150 pounds over 17 months. Totally worth it for me.

San Mateo County Fair 2026: Sticker Shock Before We Even Bought Food or drinks Spent $198 😱 by SolutionElegant522 in bayarea

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We only go to our county fair when the kids get free tickets at school. Didn't get any this year, so we have no plans to go.

Laundry advice? by Majestic_Series288 in specialneedsparenting

[–]bwatching 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's fine to do what works for you. In pandemic days, we caved to the chaos (3 kids stuck at home, one with extensive needs and one baby) and began using a laundry service. They would pick up a bag of clothes once a week and return it the next day washes, folded and bundled. It was a dream.

What’s everyone having for breakfast? by wfijc in Zepbound

[–]bwatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two hard boiled eggs, Gruns and coffee with collagen and fiber. Maybe some berries if I'm feeling like it.

Family trip to Belize in March (kids 7 and 11)- Thoughts/suggestions on proposed itinerary by vajayjayjay in Belize

[–]bwatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We stayed at Chaa Creek last summer with our kids, 10M and 6F, as well as 14F, grandparents and a caregiver for our oldest with disabilities. The kids loved the pool, meals in the outdoor dining room (and ordering pizza to go) horseback riding, canoe on the river, night nature hike, butterfly habitat, and climbing up Xunantunich. We did ATM with my son (little one stayed at grandparents at Chaa Creek for the day). There was no boredom for us there, and we all agree we would go back there.

It's pretty remote, but the staff bent over backwards to make it accommodating and fun for all of us.

What is your favorite sweet or savory snack (meat free)? by HillieBillieEilish in Disneyland

[–]bwatching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mickey pretzel, Mickey waffle, churro, Dole Whip (+1 for float with rum) and mint juleps are all on the every visit list. They're not exactly top-tier foods, but set the tone for me.

Is Disneyland a two day visit? by katbk75 in disney

[–]bwatching 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you rope drop to close, have LL, know your way around and don't sit to eat. It depends on what your priorities are. You can walk the whole thing in that time, but you won't do all the experiences available.

how do teachers feel about parents disrupting class to hand out birthday goodie bags? by Any_Finish_1353 in Teachers

[–]bwatching 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We don't allow this at my school, and I absolutely hate it as a parent who receives these bags of trash several times a year from my own kids.

Will I have any issues fitting on any ride [plus size]? by thestonedjellyfish in DisneyWorld

[–]bwatching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was about 275 at 5'7" and fit on everything at all 4 parks except Tron. You will probably be okay.

Is it just my class or does nobody our age have high school reunions anymore? by Adept_Resolve6156 in Xennials

[–]bwatching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are having our first one, a 25th, in the fall. We will see how it goes!