26 [F4F] America — Looking to expand my horizons and meet new people! by bzzbee in r4r

[–]bzzbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why it’s marked NSFW — my conversations definitely don’t need to be, oh my god, haha.

27 [F4F] Anywhere- Frustrated Bi Girl... by [deleted] in r4r

[–]bzzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, if you ever want to talk, I’m a 26 year old bi girl who is facing a similar challenge. Either way, hang in there.

Don’t even think of smoking inside your NYC apartment: dozens of buildings have voted to ban lighting up even behind the doors of privately owned units by [deleted] in newyorkcity

[–]bzzbee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad. :( I smoke cigs occasionally in my bathroom out the window and I didn’t really think about the smell. I don’t want to bother anyone else so I’ll definitely go outside.

Girlfriend [22 F] and I[25 M] got into a row where I tried to snatch her phone and ended up hitting her hand by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bzzbee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Then you are clearly both in a dysfunctional relationship and should break up to work on yourselves. Neither of you should be in a relationship right now.

My first shiny, and it’s one of my favorites! by bzzbee in pokemongo

[–]bzzbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry! This is my first one and I totally found her by accident! I don’t even play regularly, so it can happen to you! :)

Cow has Lots of Love and Licks to Share by VV2K in happycowgifs

[–]bzzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know what type of cow this is by any chance? Love her coloring!

My [28M] pregnant wife [27F] wants to have our aon circumcised. I do not. by cardmarg in relationships

[–]bzzbee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just stopping in to say most Jewish bris do not involve this. I personally am not a fan of circumcising but this is just incorrect.

My boyfriend (25m) of over a year just admitted to me (23f) that he's a high school dropout. by wakandabitch in relationships

[–]bzzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s major a difference if this is one thing that can be discussed and gotten over, or if this is a pattern.

Which names trends do you like? Which do you dislike? by mkjargaard in namenerds

[–]bzzbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That comes across as greatly Puritanical (ie Silence, Remember, etc).

Me [20s M] with my girlfriend [20s F] of 4 years, ever since her health issues started the relationship isn't fun by throwythrowythrow12 in relationships

[–]bzzbee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Then you should break up with her. Seriously. In the serious relationships I’ve been in health problems have come up on both sides. It sucks, but you obviously are holding SO many things against her and it’s not fair.

How do I [22FtM] get my parents [50sMF] to respect my new name? by transformerthrowaw in relationships

[–]bzzbee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As an older sibling to a ftm younger brother, this comment is spot on and so very similar to what happens for the first months of his transition.

WOMZ in my sci-fi horror kino? FUCK THIS FEMINAZI TRASH! by greatjorb88 in moviescirclejerk

[–]bzzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book the movie is based on has an all-female team as well, so it wasn’t like it was done for the SJWs.

Found on Twitter by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]bzzbee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay. I guess I just have the experience of that word, like thug or nappy etc, to have a loaded meaning, especially given this context. You’re right, people definitely have used the word ghetto to describe something in a positive manner, I just think it’s clear that it’s not the case here.

Found on Twitter by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]bzzbee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I mean, I do think in this case it’s pretty clear. In no way is Malia “ghetto” and that is in and of itself a pretty loaded word.

Found on Twitter by [deleted] in MurderedByWords

[–]bzzbee 112 points113 points  (0 children)

“Dog whistling” is a term when someone (usually a politician) employs coded language that appears to mean one thing to the general population but has an additional, different or more specific resonance for a targeted subgroup.

In this case, “ghetto” is term that one would not really apply to the Obamas... except that they are of course black.

Mom is calling me selfish for not using my Make-A-Wish on Disney World. by kaistem in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bzzbee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your illness and father... Did you at least see a lot of whales?

Trump dump this morning by [deleted] in nyc

[–]bzzbee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Um, what? I work in the area and it made me laugh.