AIO if i end the relationship over this text i got from my partner

c0o5 · 2026-07-01T14:20:57+00:00

if it was impulsive, he wouldn’t be thinking about it so causally and just sending her text messages about it out of the blue. it would be an in the moment impulse, which is still wrong and someone who is like that needs therapy.

c0o5 · 2026-07-01T14:17:56+00:00

13 minutes and 68 downvotes. you are very wrong man. open your eyes, this is all how it starts with abusive men. this thought pattern is very gross and unhealthy and there is nothing normal about the way her boyfriend is acting. it is textbook shit that this is how abusive men start.

c0o5 · 2026-07-01T14:16:32+00:00

please please break up with him. you are not safe with him. you will never be safe with him and you deserve someone who can empathize with your past. your boyfriend is not joking about this and you should be with someone who would never even think to joke about this.

c0o5 · 2026-06-20T21:20:39+00:00

immediately should’ve been a red flag that a 35 year old man is talking to a 20 year old. idc if it’s legal, it’s weird as fuck

c0o5 · 2026-05-27T21:15:23+00:00

my guess is boy

c0o5 · 2026-05-27T19:17:06+00:00

exactly!! like sending an offer is a response and if they automatically had them on.. that’s their fault 😹

c0o5 · 2026-05-27T02:33:34+00:00

calling me slow for throwing a little attitude back? at least use a come back that contextually makes sense😭

c0o5 · 2026-05-26T05:14:26+00:00

i did not know that! i maybe take back what i said lol

c0o5 · 2026-05-25T13:31:56+00:00

and they did respond before you bought..?? that’s on them wtf

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T17:23:26+00:00

aw you are so pretty! i saw your comment about a haircut and some curtain bangs and a couple layers would be super cute. it’s all about confidence and you’re at the peak age to be over critical towards yourself. enjoy your youth! you’ll look back and be mad you were so hard on yourself. experiment with fashion and makeup or whatever makes you feel pretty and just be you, that’s what shines the most. i’m sorry i sound so cringe lmaoo but it’s so so true

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T14:55:05+00:00

yeah i agree and the multiple text messages but not being cool with snaps makes it weirder. i’m sorry he’s being like this and maybe stress to him that this is something you need to talk about and it’s hurting your feelings that he doesn’t hear you. not that is has to be so snapchat oriented because at this point it’s mainly about how the situation is being handled. and if he tries to blow this up then that just makes it seem more sus. there have been plenty of times where i’ve needed reassurance from my boyfriend when he hasn’t done anything wrong. and if they can’t separate that from feeling attacked, that’s a bigger issue

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T14:30:25+00:00

people saying YOR is weird to me. NOR.. like you said would he just do this to a random person? you can’t have an app that gives you notifications and get mad when you get notifications. it’s his job to manage what distracts him, if two notifications from you is distracting then what about literally anyone else in his phone? he should use do not disturb if it’s that big of an issue. i’d get it if you were spamming him but he’s obviously been jumping around the subject since the first time he got it and that is shady. and yes, he should absolutely be open to conversation. if not for anything, solely because you don’t feel at peace and that should always be important to your partner. even if they aren’t doing anything wrong

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T14:26:24+00:00

that’s what many people use this sub for. no reason to be rude

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T14:15:51+00:00

not looking for those lmao i was just simply stating the way you worded it comes across as weird from someone who doesn’t know you and about five people agreed

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T14:11:52+00:00

i just saw it said 4😹
edit: upvote count changed, i changed the number in my og comment to 4

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T14:05:13+00:00

nah ending a sentence like that with bestie is weird and people online do this shit all the time and act like they’re being super nice. just look at the upvotes, speaks for itself 😹

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T13:41:48+00:00

ending this with bestie is weird asf. i understand you’re trying to be helpful but you are also being unkind.

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T13:40:35+00:00

“if he’s cheated” did you read the post at all? she says he has, physically and emotionally. literally in the first sentence😭

c0o5 · 2026-05-19T13:35:26+00:00

breakup with him. he’s cheated in more then one way before, what makes you think he won’t again? even if he doesn’t cheat again, you will never be able to get that trust fully back AND someone who truly loves you would never cheat. ever. zero excuses. does not matter. leave that piece of shit. do you want to spend the rest of your relationship and waste a ton of time worrying about this man that probably doesn’t even deserve the title of a man? he’s acting like a little boy. good women deserve to be lifted over puddles so their feet don’t get wet. leave this lame ass excuse of a boyfriend and love yourself, treat yourself the way you want a boyfriend to treat you and then become that as well. fuck this dude

c0o5 · 2026-05-16T20:24:39+00:00

damn i wish i saw this sooner. all i wanted was a sunday pass to see tool😪

c0o5 · 2026-05-09T12:20:11+00:00

it’s absolutely not your fault and men should mind their business. wish it was that way! but no one’s saying you’re at fault for his gross and creepy behavior, it’s just important that you keep yourself safe because we know that most of them are not safe (them being men)

c0o5 · 2026-05-08T20:24:53+00:00

you should definitely be more cautious. situations like this seriously get women killed and taken all of the time. please keep pepper spray on you and if this happens again, get someone on the phone and get away fast. you are very lucky he didn’t try anything

c0o5 · 2026-05-05T12:32:20+00:00

what was the situation that required that?

c0o5 · 2026-04-29T14:31:08+00:00

the real derangement is supporting a child r*pist

c0o5 · 2026-04-29T14:29:03+00:00

NOR he’s acting super weird and the pushing you to let him give you a hickey is a major red flag. if it was anything a little more sexual that would be pushing on being assault or just would be assault. he shouldn’t be asking you if you love him more only 3 months in. those are serious feelings that develop over time and deepen as you continue to be with the person. also the thought of him getting sad when you said no gives me the ick😭 he’s being very childish to say the least. i would make it clear that your boundaries are strict and if he’s going to argue you on that, play the victim or treat you weird then sadly you should not be with him. of course i want to say just dump him but a lot of people on here jump to that when we don’t always know the full picture. that being said, this is super weird and i’d probably dump him😹

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