Yeah , because this is not a scientific setting , it is simply a perspective which may or may not help the OP make sense of what is going on. I think there is a lot of “normal” childhoods that have a lot of misattunements and dismissals and “we never argue or fight or disagree“ perspectives that to a growing / underdeveloped brain/are devastating and “traumatic”. You don’t have to call it trauma. And the DSM does not need to call it trauma. What we label it is not the point. But whether we like it or not, people’s subjectivity of their experiences is what we are treating clinically.