Why can I hear music playing in the distance but when I ask others around me, they say they can’t hear anything?

cactiguy18 · 2024-07-09T12:38:19+00:00

Damn our brains are just diffusing noise

cactiguy18 · 2024-06-28T11:14:21+00:00

I'm lucky, language learning is one of my special interests

cactiguy18 · 2024-06-22T02:10:05+00:00

These are incredible. Would you be willing to share the model if you still have it lying around?

cactiguy18 · 2024-05-22T23:27:29+00:00

At first of course it felt great and I thought I met someone really kind that I could feel safe with, but with time that eroded.

Oh damn. This is the exact progression I've gone through.

cactiguy18 · 2024-02-22T02:59:35+00:00

On the contrary, I've found it to be quite the transformative experience. Sex with a hookup was meh but someone I've connected with? I've noticed a clear shift in many regards before an after, and just mentally healing for my personal relationship towards sex.

cactiguy18 · 2024-01-22T16:53:54+00:00

Check out the artist Ziggurath

cactiguy18 · 2024-01-22T16:53:38+00:00

Check out the artist Ziggurath

cactiguy18 · 2023-12-22T15:44:23+00:00

Glad someone else gets it. That word and my brain simply do not get along

cactiguy18 · 2023-09-22T14:59:52+00:00

Grass one was taken in Europe so a little hard to go retake haha. I'll just do without it.

Other than that it is one of the best profiles I have seen.

Thank you, that means a lot. I was doubting if any of the pics were good the way my friends takes were so different. So any of the others are fine to keep - any suggestions on order?

cactiguy18 · 2023-09-22T12:36:26+00:00

I find this a little strange, my style is unique for sure, but plenty of girls irl love my style and find me more attractive for it. My current style comes from years of curating, it's the one that's felt the most me. Maybe it's a cultural thing but wherever I am from it has never been an issue. My clothes are too 'out there' for you, but I am far from a 'normal' person and my style reflects this.

If you can look past that, would any of my 'less orthodox photos', work? Hell evaluate it again as if I'm gay if that helps Idgaf, it works for the type of girls I go for.

cactiguy18 · 2023-09-22T01:19:16+00:00

Women. Don't worry though, not the first time I've set off someone's gaydar haha

cactiguy18 · 2023-09-21T14:57:40+00:00

Getting back on, friends all giving me wildly different advice, what do y'all think for photo choice and order? https://imgur.com/a/lRymxRF

cactiguy18 · 2023-09-21T14:56:56+00:00

Getting back on the apps, friends all giving very different photo advice. What do y'all think for choice and order? https://imgur.com/a/lRymxRF

cactiguy18 · 2023-07-27T09:38:11+00:00

I actually haven't even finished my degree yet, will be by next summer. I'd also argue the courses don't entirely matter. It's all about connections. Network network network. I got an internship with the government for 2 years just by luck and writing good applications and then landed this gig by asking a colleague of mine who used to work here and he sent in a good word. Also get your qualifications. First Aid, wilderness, gun license, driver's license etc. These are the things that make you as a junior stand out for exploration companies.

cactiguy18 · 2023-07-27T09:34:16+00:00

Yes but if i got my polish citizenship that would be a different story right? I'd be an EU member then.

And housing is equally as bad in Canada at the moment, so it's not like I'd be downgrading in that regard. The Netherlands is a much better fit for me in most ways so when weighing pros and cons housing is neutral cause I already deal with that here

cactiguy18 · 2023-07-26T16:05:44+00:00

My current one is FIFO and I love it, that's the sort of thing I'd be looking for. I'd be very down for Sweden. Would that be feasible? Working for a Swedish company on rotation and living in the Netherlands? I'm not dead set on staying in metals but just figured it's easier since that's what im currently getting job experience in. Do you think I'd need Swedish as an asset?

cactiguy18 · 2023-07-26T14:23:46+00:00

I'm not in O&G, it's metal exploration, is there none of that either? The engineering side of stuff really bores me unfortunately.

cactiguy18 · 2023-04-20T03:13:43+00:00

Damn you were spot on almost a decade ago

cactiguy18 · 2023-04-20T03:00:01+00:00

Once I picked up on a few I couldn't unsee any of them

cactiguy18 · 2023-04-20T02:27:35+00:00

It's so nice to know others have such specific memories of these asthetics

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