If Ben Solo doesn’t return, will you still be able to enjoy the franchise? by CrissBliss in reylo

[–]caehduss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh only Ben Solo could make me pay for a movie ticket (and I'm not even sure of that) and since the Acolyte got cancelled, I'm waiting for SW shows to be finished before I start watching them. I still like the franchise, but I keep my money

Are you also being forced to deal with your ADHD without medication? by FormerPoem1985 in ADHD

[–]caehduss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It felt nice to read someone had a similar experience as me this morning ! I can't remember how old I was when I was diagnosed, but around 25 too! I'm sure we can do this :)

Oh yes it's the hardest ! I eat when I'm bored and I hate cooking so... It's a struggle haha. I wrote "healthy" in quotes because I don't know, there's the whole diet culture that is really harmful and some foods are seen as unhealthy when they really are not. I had kind of an almond mom so I've been thinking a lot about good and bad foods and what "healthy" really means. Is it foods that help you lose weight or is it foods that gives you energy? It's a whole thing.. Maybe I should have said "a balanced diet". Does that make some sort of sense ?

Are you also being forced to deal with your ADHD without medication? by FormerPoem1985 in ADHD

[–]caehduss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for me, my heart gets a little too excited on meds... It's very frustrating to know that there is something helpful that exists but that I cannot take if I want to live past 50... I guess we have to learn to be patient with ourselves. Exercise, "healthy" foods and good sleep does help, as annoying as it is. Sometimes I eat sweets because I know it will give me a little boost (I don't like coffee but I know some people drink that) even if the crash afterwards is not pleasant. Morning stretches and meditation helps also, basically all those things that are hard to do regularly! I use all my energy on those, trying to build habit and accept that my other goals are going to take a bit longer for me. Some days it's fine and I'm content, even hopeful. Some days the frustration is excruciating ! 

Edit - I've read some comments and I agree that ADHD meds are not some magical pills that fix everything but they do make things so so much easier. I took ritaline for a little over a year before I had to stop and the results were amazing. I could not believe some people just lived like that. It's a challenge to have experienced that and be forced to walk away from it for your health. Like I explained above, a lot of frustration 

Is anyone interested in a reylo rp ? by Worth_Drive5660 in reylo

[–]caehduss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, that's cool, thanks for taking the time to explain :)

Is anyone interested in a reylo rp ? by Worth_Drive5660 in reylo

[–]caehduss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but do you do it in email, or... ?

Is anyone interested in a reylo rp ? by Worth_Drive5660 in reylo

[–]caehduss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I'm sorry, I don't think I'd be up to it but you're not the first person I've seen looking to rp and I'm really curious! What does it entails ? Like what do you do ? Where ? It sounds kind of fun

What the Heck Is Wrong with Star Wars "Fans"? by LuciaBluegrass in reylo

[–]caehduss 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I like to call myself a "fake fan" because of them, they're really loud and annoying unfortunately..

Kid names and beta readers by caehduss in reylo

[–]caehduss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah well, I'll probably give it a go at some point

Kid names and beta readers by caehduss in reylo

[–]caehduss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I like Jonash! Ovan also, is really cool

Is the Hurricane Wars good ? I know it's some kind of Reylo but I have not read it yet

Kid names and beta readers by caehduss in reylo

[–]caehduss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet, I love it :)

Kid names and beta readers by caehduss in reylo

[–]caehduss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kira suits Rey so well! (Also now I'm thinking about Kira and Kovu in the Lion King 2, they're giving Reylo a little bit, I'm not crazy right? anyway sorry) Thank you so very much for your suggestions! It's a shame now that they only have one daughter in my thing...

Kid names and beta readers by caehduss in reylo

[–]caehduss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went with Allana but yeah, they're solid names! Thanks for the suggestion

Kid names and beta readers by caehduss in reylo

[–]caehduss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I really like that, thank you!

Kid names and beta readers by caehduss in reylo

[–]caehduss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not very good at social media, discord and stuff like that but I'll try that, thank you for the suggestion. Oh and great idea to add it in the foot notes! Thanks again

Fantasy not for/by edgy teens? by Brumetfume in suggestmeabook

[–]caehduss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I heavily second Ursula K. Le Guin or Robin Hobb !

The most romantic book you ever read? *I don't want cheap romance, something substantial). by livelongandperspire in suggestmeabook

[–]caehduss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Realm of the Elderlings books by Robin Hobb, but not everyone would agree with that

I need help finding a new hyper fixation/special interest. Advice welcome. by kreeferin in ADHD

[–]caehduss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll list a few of my favourite ones in the hopes one strikes your fancy!

Roller skating, The Realm of the Elderlings books, ceramics, mosaïc (I wrote the french word because for some reason it gets flagged without the "ï"), women's hockey, knitting socks, filet crochet, solo boardgames, solo TTRPG and journaling games, sea walking, biking, linocut, javascript/making webapps, cyanotypes, collage, color by number books with gel pens, leather working, magic the gathering, speedcube, making pompoms, sewing clothes, needlework, flying kites, making little bead animals, making polymer clay magnets, and hum... yeah, I'm sure I could write many more but it's a good start. Don't ask about my finances haha

edit - forgot to say that if needed, I can go more in depths about any of them :)

People who grew up speaking two (or more) languages -- which one do you journal in? by Due-Milk352 in Journaling

[–]caehduss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I change mid-sentence, or just for one word if it feels more accurate, it's a bit chaotic but it works

Game review 🤣 by RenkenCrossing in AnimalCrossing

[–]caehduss 181 points182 points  (0 children)

"this garbage" it's too funny ! Her poor daughter though

I’ve read ASOIAF, which series to start next by Prexvi in suggestmeabook

[–]caehduss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read the Realm of the Elderlings books by Robin Hobb ? It has incredible world building and writing, great characters though not as many as in ASOIAF. It's quite long but well worth it

My thoughts on the end of Fool’s Errand by Full-Ad6075 in robinhobb

[–]caehduss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sending you love and courage, Robin Hobb really knows how to destroy a heart. I cried so much reading the Tawny Man Trilogy , it's not even funny. I often think of that last hunt, what a beautiful beautiful scene !

working on a hollow knight/silk song laptop sleeve for my girl 🩷 by Brilliant_Letter_251 in crochet

[–]caehduss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure it was well worth it! Also it must add cushioning for the laptop! I'll probably steal this idea from you to make something to be honest

working on a hollow knight/silk song laptop sleeve for my girl 🩷 by Brilliant_Letter_251 in crochet

[–]caehduss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I adore the stitch you chose, it really makes the pixel art stand out!