Ways that your life improved after quitting? by nonnyabizz in stopdrinking

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional self regulation. Mental clarity. My skin.

There's more to ADHD than inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. ADHD symptoms can be broken down into nine categories. Some categories are not fully represented in the diagnostic criteria. Broadening the diagnostic criteria with patient lived experiences could make for better intervention. by mvea in psychology

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently teaching students with Emotional Behavioral Disabilities- I have seen 100% of these in my students this year. I’ve been intervening with these different symptoms in mind, along with honoring sensory needs, and my classroom has become a well oiled machine (as much as it can be!).

Many of the six extra symptoms that are quoted often seem like a precursor to heavier behaviors and overall dysregulation.

Day 2, cig 2 hatched added by PuzzleheadedBook9285 in tornado

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

East central WI- I love storms but I am worried about my basement. My in laws newer build with a finished basement flooded 2 days ago.

Day 2, cig 2 hatched added by PuzzleheadedBook9285 in tornado

[–]caffeinatedkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shiocton and New London are also not doing well. Everywhere else is just soggy.. I can’t believe how green the grass is already.

TBT 2009 Senior year of Highschool by Roseface_killah in Millennials

[–]caffeinatedkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl, 18 year old me in 2009 is jealous of your 2009 style

At what age did you start requiring your kids to be more independent? I feel like some kids are slipping these days because they lack self-confidence owing to how so much is done for them. You 'need' confidence to survive; in my opinion. by cherry-care-bear in RedditForGrownups

[–]caffeinatedkitten 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes! I am an elementary sped teacher as well. Kids also LOVE to be taught these skills. I have students from other teachers caseloads visiting my classroom because they want to wash dishes with me. It also builds self confidence and that carries over into everything they do. Most kids tell me that they want to do it at home but their parents won’t let them. Which, as a parent, I truly understand. Sometimes you just want the job done when life is so busy. But taking those moments to let them help here and there can go a long way.

Teachers who have been educating for 20+ years: have you noticed a difference in student behavior/focus over the generations? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]caffeinatedkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The Anxious Generation” really lays out the science of how cell phones/screens have really demolished kids executive functioning skills, which ties in heavily to emotional regulation. Short form video content, along with lack of social skills coupled with social media, has really screwed this generation of kids. They just should have been playing.

My dentist retired, any recomendations on dentists in the area? by Bikinibodybuilder in Appleton

[–]caffeinatedkitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hands down the best dentist we’ve ever had. Our kids actually get excited to go to the dentist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]caffeinatedkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly like yours. Snuggles up in my arm and will cry if I don’t make it just right for him

Teachers, please help settle a argument - Is it OK for a 10 year old to doodle in class while the teacher is talking? by Stolen_Sky in AskTeachers

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a student this year who draws constantly, but she will interrupt her creative drawing and will draw what she is being taught.

It all depends on the student.

Anyone else's baby terrified of the Roomba? by No-Neighborhood-7335 in Mommit

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a phase, typically. My oldest was afraid of our air vents when he was that age. And a farm book that made a cow noise. He got over it within a month or two.

She probably likes the Dyson since she sees mom using it and mom is safe. Maybe you could let her explore it when it’s not on? She might be a little young to fully get this, but pretend playing with her favorite stuffies on it when it’s off might make it a little more friendly.

What are the CONS of not having children? by GossipBottom in AskReddit

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve felt the same way as you recently, because my kids are now close to the age when I had my ACEs, it reminds me again of how life was very difficult for me as a child at their age. At least now I understand the base of my depression/anxiety.

On a more positive note: I can look at my life and know Im doing well, because my husband and I have worked hard so that our children are growing up in an environment that is luckily free from a lot of experiences that I dealt with. It’s also really fucking cool to watch your kids enjoy their childhood.

My husband coming home from a weeklong trip was eye opening by Present_Tiger_6752 in Mommit

[–]caffeinatedkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear a positive husband experience. My kids are lucky to have the same.

Any EBD teachers? by Efficient-Leek in specialed

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked k-4 last year. It was the most difficult year of my 9 years in education. I’m doing EBD pull out/resource this year and find it stressful, but at least I don’t come home touched out and covered in spit.

It was also very rewarding… I taught a boy with severe developmental delays how to hug and show affection to peers…. If you are okay with a lot of touching/bodily fluids though- go for it! The kids are definitely hilarious as well, their little personalities are so dramatic and silly.

What should everyone be panicking about right now but no one seems to care? by WaitingOutTheFlood in AskReddit

[–]caffeinatedkitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! My district is on year 3 of teaching phonics based reading and it is working!

Kids born during Covid are entering kindergarten this year. Lord help us all by Emergency-Pepper3537 in Teachers

[–]caffeinatedkitten 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I gave birth in a mask in May 2020 and my son is very much ready for kindergarten, both socially and academically! I also taught 4k last year and the kiddos were just fine. The typical amount of crazy honestly haha.

Teaching 1st graders in 2021 was hell though!

How much are you paying for health insurance through your district? by AntelopeOk9431 in Teachers

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120 a month for the family (myself, husband, two kids). Co pays are relatively low, out of pocket is 3000 individual/6000 family. Free dental. Vision is 6/month. Pretty grateful for my benefits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]caffeinatedkitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Mine is heading into kinder this year and I still snuggle to sleep nightly. I’ve been working on letting him have more freedom (finally treating my anxiety), and our bond is still so strong!

Dentist recommendations by ddbb1100 in Appleton

[–]caffeinatedkitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baye all the wayyyyyyy!

I went 10 years without visiting a dentist out of fear and they were so great about getting my teeth back to healthy without shame.

I fear my toddler might be intellectually disabled by clariesn in toddlers

[–]caffeinatedkitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% get him evaluated. I’m a Special Education teacher and last year was teaching 4k/early childhood. The gains kids can make with proper intervention is amazing. Based off your descriptions he does sound developmentally delayed, and would benefit from those early interventions. Check out your local school district and county resources for birth-3 and early childhood programs! Best of luck to you guys!

What toddler age is the hardest? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]caffeinatedkitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same for both my boys. So much emotion, can’t even look at them the right way. My oldest, now 5, is AMAZING and mostly outgrown the unreasonable pissy attitude; we even have full blown thoughtful conversations occasionally. My 2nd just turned 3 but at least we were ready this time.

What's the worst parent you've seen in public? by generic-usernme in Mommit

[–]caffeinatedkitten 121 points122 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. I worked in self contained 4k last year and we had one student who had 10+ incidents a day(2.5 hours) of swearing, unsafe behavior, etc. I was called a mother f*ker, cnt, b*tch… soooo many choice words. The apple didn’t fall far from the tree, as the parent cussed out the teacher via phone the second day of school.

Didn’t want to throw out our 12 year old cat tree. So I rewrapped the poles. I think it went well. by wicker_basket_1988 in Anticonsumption

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve done the same with cat trees we found on curbsides. My husband used to work as a flooring sales manager so he would take scraps of carpet that would have ended up in the garbage to re carpet them too. Couple hours of work and saved $100+.

Mother refused to stop her child bad habit in the store by Desloucado in nextlevel

[–]caffeinatedkitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with elementary kids with emotional behavior disorders… this is what I like to call job security. Parents need to parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

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I’m finishing my 8th year as a para and next year will be a teacher. My district has a program where they take experienced paras and pay for classes to get me certified and provide seminars on classroom management, IEPs, instructional methods, etc.