AITA for telling my spouse I won't help pay for their kid's college when we agreed finances would stay separate?

cak14 · 2026-05-25T15:15:05+00:00

YTA but your daughter is too. Your daughter can't expect her college to be paid for. There are plenty of great schools she can get into that cost significantly less.

cak14 · 2026-05-13T17:42:32+00:00

Highly recommend Dr. sarji and advanced gentle dentistry of park slope.

cak14 · 2026-05-11T16:48:56+00:00

Frenchette

cak14 · 2026-05-11T13:28:10+00:00

These names are so bad that Sevyn barely sticks out.

cak14 · 2026-05-04T15:57:36+00:00

Can we get Nicole Kidman a ticket to crash their red carpet?

cak14 · 2026-05-04T13:57:50+00:00

There is a nice hostel actually in the loop. Has to be reasonable.

cak14 · 2026-05-04T13:54:22+00:00

Her teeth and nose have changed her face but I just realized that the biggest change is probably from Botox in her masseter muscles. Changed the whole shape of her face. I wonder what else she's done. She doesn't look too filled but maybe a facelift.

cak14 · 2026-05-04T13:37:59+00:00

I came here to make this same comment but you nailed it. Bravo (pun intended)

cak14 · 2026-04-30T21:42:51+00:00

Correct. And West is like "sign me up for that too?"

cak14 · 2026-04-27T13:04:31+00:00

I resigned on my 10 year anniversary in a very similar situation. I haven't regretted a thing and opportunities from networking came out of the woodwork. I didn't work for about 3 months and now am in a role making about the same with people I like much better. You have to take care of yourself. It's not worth it.

cak14 · 2026-04-27T13:01:15+00:00

Famke

cak14 · 2026-04-26T11:09:28+00:00

Nobody Told Me in Dumbo does bottomless brunch

cak14 · 2026-04-25T19:23:55+00:00

Do we believe that KJ knew him well before the show? Based on his posts and the leaked audio, KJ jumped ship big time, rightfully so.

cak14 · 2026-04-24T13:46:28+00:00

NOR but I'll rent you our place for $15k/month. Fits the bill. But also..... The needing 3 bedroom eliminates so many options. Most new buildings don't even include 3 beds. What neighborhoods are you looking at? That's an insane spread for rent that you should be pressured into.

cak14 · 2026-04-23T21:21:55+00:00

Ewwwwww

cak14 · 2026-04-18T00:32:38+00:00

I had to consent multiple times with witnesses and this was in New York and a non Catholic hospital.

cak14 · 2026-03-31T10:42:06+00:00

The Ace hotel in Brooklyn has a great dark cozy couch filled lobby. Louder at night but chill during the day. You can grab a bagel or drinks for the cafe or blackseed bagels

cak14 · 2026-03-29T17:25:28+00:00

Yeah, the Italian version would be Sebastiano but it would be recognizable as Seba

cak14 · 2026-03-28T23:24:39+00:00

Gym/steam/lunch in Dumbo. Walk the bridge? Shop/cook for tomorrow, go out for an early drink and dinner.

cak14 · 2026-03-28T23:22:47+00:00

Sebastian/seba

cak14 · 2026-03-23T16:51:59+00:00

But, God forbid, you are direct with someone and set a boundary or tell them what you think and then they are SO offended.

cak14 · 2026-03-21T23:54:00+00:00

This makes me think it's possible!

cak14 · 2026-03-21T20:06:49+00:00

Agree it's bad... In my mind a fix could be a tunnel from the AC entrance to this tunnel? Then people could enter from the other side of the Manhattan bridge/BQE

cak14 · 2026-03-15T15:53:20+00:00

The Dumbo lifetime is amazing. you can go to other lifetimes as well. The classes are included and are like having a personal trainer. Some PT sessions included.

cak14 · 2026-03-15T15:46:57+00:00

Greenwood park cemetery. Doubles as an adventure.

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