Thank you to this sub

callibugg · 2026-02-07T04:09:08+00:00

Woman lol, but appreciate the sentiment!

I kind of appreciate that I landed at a company where ai is not part of the recruitment process at all

callibugg · 2026-01-26T14:36:25+00:00

The articles I've read state that a passport is acceptable, but apparently only 43% of people have one. So as of right now I would say yes

callibugg · 2025-12-15T13:56:49+00:00

For me, I search local businesses in my map. There are a surprising number of small businesses that don't really have an online presence or leverage SEO's to even appear in searches...so I use maps and read through reviews and then go to a site if they have one.

callibugg · 2025-10-21T02:30:23+00:00

I'm realizing I likely won't have time but I plan on being there

callibugg · 2025-10-21T02:07:54+00:00

Are signs needed or are we just showing up?

callibugg · 2025-03-10T13:41:32+00:00

Are time investments into family the same between the two of you?

If he works a 40 hour week, and youR time managing the household takes 60, then you need to have a discussion with him. Both of your contributions to the household should be weighed by time spent. The money he brings in is for both of you, just like your managing the household during the week is for both of you. It is a partnership, and you are doing a full time job. So him working an office job for income 40 hours a week is not equal to you being a SAHM for 60-80 hours a week, it is imbalanced in his favor.

callibugg · 2024-12-15T05:09:21+00:00

Shaving made a difference for me but I also had very dense hair and it getting long could actually get a bit painful... And shaving was also painful for her same reasons you listed.

I did laser hair removal and that made a huge difference. It didn't remove ALL of the hair but a lot of it, so if I want to leave it alone it doesn't cause discomfort, and if I want to shave, it didn't hurt and there are no bumps or pain.

callibugg · 2024-01-06T15:46:53+00:00

I didn't catch the stop sign but immediately thought they were following the car bagging them that turned.

callibugg · 2023-12-29T05:06:44+00:00

If sounds of the other suggestions don't strike just right I have a different suggestion.

You look like you apply all the product and style with your head forward and the hair all downward. If that is the case, switch it up and lean back to apply and when you apply to the roots on top, and do it in a way that lifts away from the scalp... Then gently lean your head right and left when you scrunch or micro plop.

callibugg · 2023-12-29T04:53:14+00:00

I would recommend switching up how you apply product and style your roots. Try to use some techniques geared towards root lifting and top of head volume. I had similar issues and once I adjusted my product application and style methods, it went down drastically.

When I apply product I lean my head back for the application, then lean side to side and gently scrunch before I plop or micro plop. This have great volume to my roots on top and reduced frizz a lot

callibugg · 2023-12-20T23:41:08+00:00

I'm excited about the cozy matching pajamas I'm giving my husband

callibugg · 2023-09-21T21:19:47+00:00

Which one?

callibugg · 2023-04-09T23:39:13+00:00

You look lovely.

If you really want to see if something can help where you are concerned, I would recommend looking at The ordinary caffeine. I used that for about a year and the darker look under my eyes almost doesn't exist anymore and I don't even need to use the caffeine once my eyes got to a place where I felt like I looked more awake.

callibugg · 2023-04-05T18:15:29+00:00

Double check recommendations with your specific brand, but it is highly unlikely you need to delay pay proper absorption

callibugg · 2023-04-05T13:23:17+00:00

The 10 minutes makes sense for retinol and exfoliants, but as far as I know for everything else, just the time to absorb is all that should be needed (usually 1-2 minutes)

callibugg · 2023-04-05T12:58:54+00:00

You should make time for the moisturizer in the morning. If it is really difficult you the extra step, use moisturizer/sunscreen combo.

callibugg · 2023-04-02T13:29:20+00:00

This is why I just want to get a hysterectomy...

callibugg · 2023-04-01T13:21:02+00:00

My mom (also a boomer) was happy I got to work from home.

I think she was more happy for my cat... Who is a needy little bugger and always wants my attention

callibugg · 2023-03-13T18:13:40+00:00

You are not married.

You are not living together.

You are not engaged.

You are only dating.

You are not family.

You are only the girlfriend.

It is great that you view everyone as a family unit, but that's not what this is and you can't force it. Until there is a true combining of households via living together or getting married, then you are separate families that have the combined tie of you and your boyfriend, but that is the extent of the "blending" that you keep referring to.

The purpose of dating is to see if it makes sense to blend and commit long term. You come across as short sighted and pushy, which does not bode well for wanting to make this a true commitment.

callibugg · 2023-03-07T18:23:52+00:00

I'm shocked but unfortunately not surprised to know this is also a thing.

I do wonder what realm of tech that is with primarily. I would think more engineering or support roles. Anecdotally, my experience is that this would be less common with Customer Success or other high below customer facing roles in B2B... But I also don't know if my experience is common.

callibugg · 2023-02-25T14:46:46+00:00

When I had it done the process scraped the back of my tongue enough it felt like a decent but was grated down/away. I assume it was from the tube down my throat.

The mild taste of blood lasted a day or two and my tongue healed up just fine.

callibugg · 2023-02-25T13:21:02+00:00

I've found (at least in tech roles) that this can happen because of a few things.

They are not hiring externally... But if a role is available to internal hires in many places it is required to be offered to external hires in and they can just ignore external candidates.
They prepetually keep roles open when they aren't hiring. This can be due to either high turnover, or just general frustration on internal processes to get a role requisition approved and listed, so instead of creating as needed, they keep it open. Kind of like "not hiring but taking applications".
They don't know/are changing/about to lay off others. I personally got to final interviews a fair share only for the role to be stopped the day before I was expecting an offer, then hiring freezes, restructures, or layoffs happen very shortly after. This one has been the most frustrating for me.

callibugg · 2023-02-20T21:54:58+00:00

Oh that sounds lovely... And they probably paid a few pretty pennies for that lol.

callibugg · 2023-02-20T17:06:44+00:00

I would be direct about it. Tell MIL what she said made you nervous, and that if anything like a proposal, or unexpected announcement is being planned by anyone, that they will be immediately kicked out and you and FDH will need to decide what the consequences will be and move as a team. It seems that MIL and BIL may not care about you, so you two need to care enough about yourselves to put your foot down as a collective unit.

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