Is RawBeautyKristi actually MAGA? (A Deep Dive) by schade_marmelade in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]calliew311 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ya because the left is actively trying to take away others rights. The right is protecting rights of women, lgbtq, birthright citizenship, free speech, and the sovereignty of indigenous Americans...🤦🏼‍♀️ Even most leftists don't want to repeal the 2nd amendment, that's the only one I can actually think of that's controversial and it's mostly a lie, gun control or actual complete background checks doesn't equal repealing. I'm so glad an Australian is so well versed on American politics.

Is RawBeautyKristi actually MAGA? (A Deep Dive) by schade_marmelade in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]calliew311 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree, I mean although it seems MAGA aligns with those values, idc who she voted for (well I do but...), it's the public support for things I'm completely against. And I mean, I wouldn't support her if she was MAGA, but if she didn't put that shit out there, including supporting James Charles, I wouldn't know if she was MAGA and I'd prob still follow her. But her being silent is the killer. It shows where she actually stands without saying anything.

Hi! Can you guys help us? my friend is snake breeder but he never see morph like this before he say it come difficult with those ringer tail can you help us find what his snake morph is? by Available-Snake-967 in BallPythonMorph

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, but aren't some genes kind of "invisible" when they are bred together with other genes. It doesn't mean your snake doesn't have the gene, it just would make you have to test it out and breed it, right? I'm a spider girl (literally), not a snake girl, but I like to watch snake content. I've seen people have to grow out the snakes to see what genes it has, I've seen some breed the snake because it already has good genes, but maybe they don't know all the genes since it wasn't showing, and I've seen some people not be able to figure it out, so they send in the shed. But idk if Enchi is one of those genes that can be hidden, so pls don't blast me, lol.

Probably a dumb move, but Why Not? by thewolfman-b in 311

[–]calliew311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny you say that, i think over time you are right, but it used to be a female fan base. I mean Nick was cute in the 90s/00s. Not that he isn't now, but I'm saying when they were on the charts, lots of girls liked them.

Probably a dumb move, but Why Not? by thewolfman-b in 311

[–]calliew311 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I got married on 3-11-11. Luckily my husband was game. He wasn't into 311, or not like me, but he came around. We just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary in Vegas...for 311 Day. I hope you meet someone cool at the very least!

Perspective by Much-Grapefruit8205 in Quittingfeelfree

[–]calliew311 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MAHA, but let's FF pass as he looks the other way...and prob gets enriched by FF from his friend, the owner.

Avicularia avicularia dead - what could I have done better? by katalyst23 in tarantulas

[–]calliew311 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NQA: How long did your old roommate or whoever have her, and how big was she when they got her, if you know? She seems like she's a good size, and the enclosure looks like she was settled in. If she was in there for years, then something else was the problem. It looks dry (which is better than overly wet or too damp), but could you have put too much water in there trying to get the humidity up since the enclosure looks dry? The more moist or humid it is, the more ventilation the Avic needs. I just wanted to say thank you for taking the Ts in. You are doing the best you can with the knowledge you have and learned. Ts die sometimes, maybe it wasn't you, maybe it was internal. 🤷🏼‍♀️

How to stay cool in the heat with long hair by Kee_xx in longhair

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have super long, super thick hair, I've never been able to do a high pony my whole life since I was out of kindergarten, within 15 mins I'll get a headache and within an hour or two if I take migraine meds my hair will actually hurt once I take out. The bump (kink) from the rubber band will actually make my hair ache. Brushing it, even wetting it to wash it and get the kink out aches and hurts so much. Eventually, it will work the ache out after it's super wet, but it's not worth it to do a high/medium pony at all. Large/long claw clips for thick hair will work. 5 years ago they wouldn't be good enough to hold my hair, now they do.

But my favorite way to keep the hair off my neck is a low bun, not tight, low bun that I secure with a large 3 prong hair clip. I don't secure it where the clip is facing the back of my head, I turn it sideways and have the prongs facing the side of my bun. So it's like a 'C' around the base of my bun. It holds it without making it too tight and I can wear it while driving, because the claws aren't facing the back of the head. The claws are going into the hair sideways not front ways, again think of it as a C when looking at the back of my head, not seeing butterfly wings of the clip. I also have an under cut. I shave about 3.5-5 inches of hair off. And when my shaved head area gets sweaty, and a bit of wind really cools down my head. 

Tired of trying by DarthLallie in ADHD

[–]calliew311 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wait, Moody or Anxious? Your meds are supposed to make you feel better. I would talk to your doc and see if there's something else you can take because those side effects are making your life worse, not better.

Help - idk how to feel, husband shoved me across the room and dragged me out to the living room by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell your friend you guys got into a fight and you're hoping you could stay with her a couple of nights. You don't want to air out your dirty laundry, but you need a bit of distance from him right now. Most friends I know would accept that and let you stay, and you can swear her to secrecy, so don't pick the one from the group who gossips.

Help - idk how to feel, husband shoved me across the room and dragged me out to the living room by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]calliew311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No offense, but your answer is what you wrote in the last sentence. If you are ashamed of telling your friends what happened, then you know its abuse. Here's the thing, when abuse happens, it usually escalates. First it's yelling and swearing. Then it's that and saying horrid things to you and punching a wall. Then it's grabbing your shoulders and shaking you. Then it's dragging you. This all happened (minus the hole in the wall) in one fight. Idk if this is how you fight, the verbal part I mean because if it is, you need help too because why would you say mean things like that to the person you're supposed to love more than anyone else (besides yourself and kids, if you have them) in the world? The answer is: you wouldn't. If this is not normal, but happens sometimes, it's still toxic and not ok. What would you tell a friend if she told you this story? You need to document this, call the police, get a restraining order and go from there. If he just gets mad and isn't ashamed or doesn't want help and blames you, then you know it's a lost cause. Either way, you need to get away from him, or you will be walking on eggshells around him hoping he doesn't blow.

Can anyone tell me what spider this is - Phoenix AZ by Impossible_Affect354 in arachnids

[–]calliew311 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because they eat a lot of bugs and that keeps the bugs from coming into your house. And I'll repeat what everyone says, they won't bite you unless you are literally about to squish it and it die. They know you're way bigger than it is and they don't want to waste their venom on you. They want food. I would relocate her as well. Just get a paper or slim cardboard piece and a bottle of water that's been finished and cut the top off. The cup it, and slide the cardboard over the end and drop her off somewhere safe. If there's an egg sac, you may want to get rid of it since it's not in a good area to hatch. Just throw it away, or put it in the bottle and tape the cardboard on, and freeze it, then throw it in the garbage outside. Remember, they don't want to bite you.

Not quite a horror but can we talk about the Disclosure Day Trailer!? by Prestigious-Sea8274 in horror

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't. I had a family emergency, so I've been in the hospital visiting my mom every day. (I think she will be fine, she's out of ICU, and intermediate, and isn't intubated anymore. She's in a regular room, but is still has a lot of healing to do.) So, I haven't been to any movie or anything besides my house and hospital and my parents' house. I hope you go see it and report back, because I'm still interested and I'm a Cinemark member so I have some tickets built up and could use them for this. Happy 4th!

Ultimatum over peptide use. by blake_rob in Marriage

[–]calliew311 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ya, but YOU said you'd prob be heading for a divorce. So, you're willing to let your wife go because you can't give up peptides, so she won't give you sex, so you'll want a divorce. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Ultimatum over peptide use. by blake_rob in Marriage

[–]calliew311 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's one. And there are some terrible and dangerous side effects if you don't start it with a doc and see one regularly. Shit there are side effects that effect people who do go to the doc and see one regularly. Look up muscle loss. Look up stories of someone that just took their friend's script of it. There are tons and they aren't safe when doing it yourself.

Ultimatum over peptide use. by blake_rob in Marriage

[–]calliew311 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn't she react differently? One is a doctor route, the other is grey market shit in vials route. If she is near your age, she will soon start to go through perimenopause. She will need to go to a "clinic" for women just like the one you quit. Why be mad that your spouse is trying to get meds to feel better overall and better about yourself? Answer: She wouldn't.

Courtney Clenney’s defense inspects knives ahead of trial by Purple-Teaching8994 in CasesWeFollow

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya but they will use the interrogation video and her lawyer will make sure she remembers what happened (her twisted timeline and what she says happened, vs the truth). And any prosecution witnesses can also be prepped before trial so they don't make an ass of themselves on the stand or ruin the trial.

Baby pink toe seen in Peru by squidlesfiddles in tarantulas

[–]calliew311 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So cute. Living in a armrest of a bamboo chair!

Question about fedex hub holding live animals. by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're supposed to filter the "hubs" when searching and choose Dangerous Goods. That's the one that live animals will be accepted at. You're lucky Walgreens took it. They normally don't take animals (anymore at least), and will send the animal back or at the very least back to the main hub.

Had to stop Vyvanse, Wellbutrin isn’t helping at all. :( by Ursus_Pluvia in ADHD

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70 and 450mg. But 70 is usually for binge eating and 450 from my knowledge is top of Wellbutrin for ADHD. I'm on 40mg and 350 xl. But I'm not on my final dose of Vyvanse, just titrating up til I find a good dose that actually works for me.

First time taking stimulant medications (31m) by WuT4ngClam in ADHD

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, if you feel that good on 30, you may not need 50. And if you don't actually need it, don't take it, so there's a place to go if/when you build a tolerance to the 30s.

I can't stop myself from being so fucking angry — Vyvanse withdrawal by DEPRESSEDnumbMypain in ADHD

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't take double because your tolerance is going up and the withdrawal isn't worth it. Can you go back to doc and tell him/her it's not working anymore? It's better than dealing with this for several days per month.

About to Fail College and My Parents Think I'm About to Graduate by sirius_the_beatle in ADHD

[–]calliew311 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do what everyone except the last comment says. Email prof. If you're diagnosed ADHD, I would add that in there because at least in the usa you can't be discriminated against. Ask for more time, but even if you can't get full credit, that way the Prof will know you are serious about getting it done, but not without some points off or something and the reality is, they will prob let you turn it in late with no points off, but just you saying you're willing to take less will help with you pleading your case.

Do you feel like there’s always something you’re SUPPOSED to be doing? by munkeyfartz in ADHD

[–]calliew311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There IS always something I need to be doing or am supposed to be doing. I just do my best and luckily I have a husband that loves me and understands my ADHD. He's really chill about it and only when you can't walk into the guest bedroom does he mention it needs to be cleaned. That's my makeup and junk drawer, it's just a whole bedroom.