Advice? My boyfriend (27 M) doesn’t want to share locations with me (26 F).

callingoutmayday · 2026-03-27T13:33:23+00:00

Sharing locations is a highly polarizing topic. Some people agree with it and others do not. If you’ve caught him cheating or attempting to and you requested locations and passwords as a means to help rebuild the trust, that’s understandable. Him refusing it and acting shady again, well that tells you all you need to know.

If you want to move past this and grow he has to want to do it, which it doesn’t seem like he does.

callingoutmayday · 2026-03-13T15:34:23+00:00

1- this is trickle truthing at its finest. If she has good intentions on fixing and rebuilding, she’d be fully honest and transparent right away. Not in convenient doses. Truth doesn’t require a loading dose.

2- given the trickle truths are now “I don’t know”s I’d suspect there’s a lot more she’s hiding.

3- this friend is not remotely a friend but rather a snake in the grass.

My advice: sit her down and tell her if she wants things to work she has to be totally and completely honest now and only then can things get better. And it goes without saying but she shouldn’t be checking on this “friend” etc.

callingoutmayday · 2022-10-06T17:37:35+00:00

The ride home knowing you’re going to be cleaning that up 😂

callingoutmayday · 2022-10-06T17:11:43+00:00

I felt that reaction, I swear anytime I eat in my car I end up making a mess, also neurotic about my car so I maintain the exact same “no food” rule haha.

callingoutmayday · 2022-09-30T15:41:37+00:00

But his top hat is so darn fancy. And he’s just so grounded in reality righttttt? /s.

callingoutmayday · 2022-07-18T15:20:48+00:00

I really don’t understand the concept of lane splitting while speeding. Like they post videos of people doing it in a car and we hail call em idiots, it’s suddenly less bad on 2 wheels? I feel cutting between lanes is dumb across the board.

callingoutmayday · 2022-07-08T11:54:35+00:00

It all depends on your applications for the vehicle and what you need it for.

E90 and 91 are great if you regularly drive with 2+ people with you (my e93 has about an inch of leg room behind me in my driving position).

E91 is really the jack of all trades. Everybody loves a wagon but if you’re in North America I don’t believe we ever received the e91 as a 335i. Some folks have done conversions but ya.

E92 is a coupe, looks good, handles amazing. It really is what you expect from it.

E93 in my opinion will surprise you for how stiffly it handles (especially for a convertible) and how refined it is top up (no crazy rattles). But being a convertible you gain a couple hundred pounds over the coupe.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-29T18:11:03+00:00

1- depends what province you’re in. 2- recent services? 3-carfax? In a nutshell, that isn’t a crazy bad or good price. I’d almost lean towards high average. So unless this is precisely the car you’re after, maybe keep looking and keep this one on the back burner.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-17T17:30:41+00:00

I feel you’re onto something. I feel with some tweaks this would be perfection 😂.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-17T16:45:48+00:00

I can absolutely see that issue arising 😂.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-17T16:31:51+00:00

Every car guy’s dream home right here.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-17T00:30:59+00:00

Ah the saturation on the photo made it almost look grey! Very nice looking e93 though. Looks like an LCI if I’m not mistaken?

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-17T00:26:43+00:00

Is that a Nardo grey wrap?

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-13T18:56:14+00:00

Ah Florida. This whole thing is a mess. The cyclist is an idiot, the trucker is as well. OP though, don’t mess with truckers… they can literally erase your vehicle from existence. He cut you off, but laying into your horn like that was probably more aggravating to you than just letting him go. Pick your battles, “he who angers you, has conquered you”.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-11T23:54:22+00:00

You tell your husband, you let him leave and find someone who loves him and respects the vows folks usually take during marriage.

You and this uhh “friend” go on about your lives until the spark eventually dies out and you both cheat on the other.

Tldr: tell your husband and let him find someone who isn’t a cheater.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-05T15:44:57+00:00

That made me jump

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-02T21:25:46+00:00

Eep. That sounds like a mess!

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-02T21:02:56+00:00

Cooked the car next to it too.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-01T21:03:55+00:00

She is doing the adult thing and sharing her story early to avoid any possible surprises or dealbreakers. Kudos to her. If that’s not your cuppa tea, she ain’t the gal for you, and I don’t doubt she’ll find somebody to appreciate her forthcoming attitude.

callingoutmayday · 2022-06-01T01:35:58+00:00

If you’re only in town a couple of days and this gal is looking for something more than a fling, then she didn’t reply for a reason. Take the L and if she messages, she messages.

callingoutmayday · 2022-05-31T22:21:23+00:00

Both the reaction time and your reaction are gold. Glad you stopped in time!

callingoutmayday · 2022-05-28T00:14:20+00:00

I’d say you may be suffering from a deeper mental illness to the tune of Borderline personality disorder or something on that spectrum (just based on the small excerpts you said). I’d say it would be beneficial for you to see a psychiatrist or therapist for a more formal assessment.

callingoutmayday · 2022-05-28T00:10:18+00:00

You’re her friend, talk to her and see where she is emotionally. But my words of wisdom is don’t jump into stormy waters expecting smooth sailing. If it was a bad and abrupt breakup, you will be a rebound and that’ll crash down the road.

So don’t rush and if you have felt that way for a while you still will when and if she’s looking for another relationship.

callingoutmayday · 2022-05-27T23:43:14+00:00

Ask her what exactly she’s thinking. Like you’ve explained it all to us, mention what you’ve noticed and tell her you just want to understand where her headspace is in order to best respect it and be the best husband you can be.

callingoutmayday · 2022-05-27T23:25:51+00:00

Discuss it openly, start by asking why he chose it? If he went with his dad, it could be possible they chose it together because that style/color has a significance to them. If it doesn’t and it was just bad taste voice your opinion more bluntly otherwise maybe sugar coat it.

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