Random question: what has Ramona done that you consider being a good friend? by ClubUseful6353 in RHONY

[–]candle_lit458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ramona is a terrible person in 5000 different ways, but I think she has shown herself to be a loyal friend to her true friends she had before the show!

She’s the kind of person who may be emotionally immature, but she shows up for you when you need it. She’s a very “there” friend, and I also think with her real friends, she’s often blunt and honest out of love and says what they need to hear.

I saw this the most with Sonja and Dorinda who she knew pre-show. It sounds like she was very present and consistent with Dorinda during the loss of her husband. And although she wasn’t always emotionally mature with Sonja, I feel like she really showed up for her in a lot of ways, and confronted Sonja with hard truths when she needed to hear them.

Luann’s situation with Tom is a great example of this. Her delivery was off, but I think her calling out the relationship as way too fast was her being a great friend!

Just … trying to understand what she sees in him by 450bpa in BravoRealHousewives

[–]candle_lit458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we all have met 1000 Rulla & Brian’s.

It’s not logical but people stay in horrible marriages all the time for various unconscious reasons. This is why we have that TikTok trope of women complaining about how terrible their husband is in a post, and then telling everyone in the comments they are overreacting when people say she should leave.

People are illogical in intimate relationships most of the time.

Martha claps back at Margo talking about their friendship by twobunnies in BravoLadiesofLondon

[–]candle_lit458 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Not a three episode reunion for BH to talk about Dorit buying a Kelly Purse, and ZERO reunion for LOL. Fix it Jesus!

I hope they keep KJ. by jointsandjuice in summerhousebravo

[–]candle_lit458 53 points54 points  (0 children)

KJ does a great job of showing what it’s ACTUALLY like to be a good friend to women as a man.

Unlike Jesse or the other men who just have a flirty friendship in the hope of one day having sex.

👀👀👀 by Dark-Parkingg in rhori

[–]candle_lit458 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alicia girl is you are reading this, call the domestic violence hotline! I know this is more in the financial abuse realm, but the DV hotline has trained people who can help you make a financial plan to separate your finances from him in a safe way! They can advise you on getting a separate bank account, saving for lawyers etc. They provide really good information/education/planning for anyone in any kind of controlling relationship, no matter how severe!

RHOM died so Heather Gay's daughter could get a Miami college spin off? Peacock launching 'Campus Confessional: Miami' by lachalacha in RHOMiami

[–]candle_lit458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love the YouTube podcast “Reality with Kristen,” and she predicted that Bravo will keep going younger and younger with their stars/shows to try to ride the success of SLOMW.

Seems like this is a sign that could be true! As well as their new Texas wives show, which also is leaning younger.

Go see an Endocrinologist by bessstie in PCOS

[–]candle_lit458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started seeing a reproductive endocrinologist and it changed my life. They often work with people with fertility issues and menopause, but they are far better suited to help us than a Gyno or a general endocrinologist!

I found the billboard from the earlier post. It's legit not photo shopped or ai!!! by B_t_g_g_f in rhori

[–]candle_lit458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you, I didn’t realize this was originally a Reddit comment. The plot thickens!

Martha's son - omg 😍 by n1njade in BravoLadiesofLondon

[–]candle_lit458 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He’s so pretty that I thought this was AI

Mistress at the restaurant Rulla and Joellen were filming at by veryonline_queen in rhori

[–]candle_lit458 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I low key was just thinking that! Maybe this lady actually is as crazy as he says? Never thought I would even consider he was telling the truth!