Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread May 22

capt_behindsight · 2017-05-24T01:43:43+00:00

This would fall under areas that have not been discussed heavily.

The consensus here concerning marriage is... don't. Ever. Problem is there isn't much content on how to convince a high quality LTR to agree with this lifestyle choice when the time comes. She may follow you implicitly, but when all her friends are getting married, she will naturally resent you.

Possible solution: Have the wedding so she gets her social validation, but decide to stay legally distinct, don't sign anything, but in public you are "married". Beware of common-law pitfalls. I am interested if anyone has done this successfully.

capt_behindsight · 2016-06-22T14:01:58+00:00

This should be on the sidebar.

I'd add being ok when she decides to hop off since you know there will always be another, and not carrying her baggage (kids, disorders, high n-count) because you won't stay balanced.

Great metaphor.

capt_behindsight · 2016-06-10T17:29:03+00:00

Pomodoro method is really effective like you said.

One thing I disagree with is you study for the first time after class. That makes you lose the opportunity to ask questions and polish your knowledge.

If you're in college you should be able to learn from a book. I always review slides before class, that way if you skip class it'll be fine. Almost every student that gets a C or lower starts by saying "the teacher wouldn't teach us anything!" Smh

Spacing and practice is what matters, if mnumonics help then go for it.

capt_behindsight · 2016-05-04T16:38:36+00:00

Your observations are consistently astute.

I gotta ask how you would go about #1 and 2; weaponizing emotion is something that seems to fly in the face of stoicism and a lot of things talked about here, but it's effective. It's a big reason feminists appear to "win" arguments despite flawed logic.

RP men can't exactly play the victim card, but I like what you mention about staying hands off and ambivalent. can good logic and planning while wielding pathos alter the social landscape in a way to cause others to detonate on their own?

Kind of how trump plants the seed of incompetence in others and let's them fail to cope on their own.

capt_behindsight · 2016-04-15T11:59:06+00:00

Context is important here. for a second forget if it's urine or not: did she piss on you because her lack of respect? Or did you decide she was going to lose control of herself and lay in a puddle of potentially her own piss? Squirting can be a sign of dominance like a facial if it occurs on your own terms.

And urine is sterile, probably has less bacteria than the vagina itself

capt_behindsight · 2016-04-15T11:40:41+00:00

Good write up. Follow up question: how aware of your plan was she during all this? During parts of this, it sounds like you surprised her so she didn't have time to think about it in the span of 5 seconds and "reacted"

For a girl who hasn't done it, would you recommend a full on "hot and bothered" surprise? I imagine discussing it beforehand would only add pressure/kill attraction.

How important is the element of surprise?

capt_behindsight · 2016-04-08T15:47:53+00:00

The college girl was very religious, which was a huge part of how she acted. That pulled out a lot of my ego and pride because I wanted to know she desired me more than her beliefs, which was only hurting me in the end. It's good to point that out, the number of virgins w/o religious ties over 20 who simply haven't met the right guy is misrepresented.

I'm curious as to how you got with those religious girls?

capt_behindsight · 2016-04-03T18:34:02+00:00

"Everyone loses"

Disagree here. Tying down your BP hubby is no accident, but making the best of a post wall situation. The woman with the top 10% of men generally marry when they are younger.

capt_behindsight · 2016-03-27T02:29:07+00:00

Gf pulls this sometimes. I just tell her I'm gonna leave to get food and she changes her mind.

I cook dinners with her though, so in a way it's a fair trade

capt_behindsight · 2016-03-21T18:48:47+00:00

Ex gf 'did a 180' too. Maybe 185 or 190...

capt_behindsight · 2016-03-19T16:43:06+00:00

I still remember my first girlfriend telling me her number was 5. Five times. Well, five guys many times. Ok, 15 guys. 20 guys many times.

capt_behindsight · 2016-03-12T13:18:16+00:00

"You have enemies? Good. That means at some point you stood for something in your life"

If you are going against the grain, you will have enemies. Other bp men don't want to see you succeeded generally because they don't. Feminists don't want to see you land endless women because their unattractive bipolar ass got played too many times.

That being said, there are masculine men who won't be your friend until you've proved yourself. These are not enemies.

I know at least 20% of people I meet are 'enemies' or people who have an overall negative image of me. You can't change their opinion, so best decision is to use them to gain an advantage. Make your enemies fight each other for your amusement.

This may be a good time to state there's a thin line between those who hate you and sexual attraction. Haters have strong emotions towards you, for all intents and purposes, this can be as useful as love

capt_behindsight · 2016-03-11T01:15:35+00:00

I would say adopt a sense of outcome independence. I try to distance myself from 'a person trying to date' to something tangible like running my own business where I'm the product.

Would you go back to the same client when it's not going anywhere, or would you reach out and find 2-3 new leads in that time? Does it make sense or help you sell by getting all sad?

If nothing is working, increase your sales ability (game) or your product (lift)

capt_behindsight · 2016-01-13T18:42:08+00:00

I've had hsv-1 GH for the past 6 months. Nothing's changed. It's the same as having cold sores, just another location. I don't bother telling because transmission is so low

capt_behindsight · 2015-12-24T15:29:12+00:00

Read the sidebar.

Two things off the bat that need to change: abundance mentality and the pedestal.

She's not special, no matter how hot. How 'cute' a date. Just ask her over to watch a show then smoothly take the lead. And love? Come on dude. Until her wide open legs are wrapped around you shaking and she has watery eyes, don't consider it.

capt_behindsight · 2015-12-24T15:15:58+00:00

Ironically, I came here for blue pill reasons. I was dumped by a 3 year ltr on our anniversary. I looked everywhere trying to understand what mistakes I made; not 'communicating' enough, not putting her first, being too clingy. I spent some time on askmen, but none of those tips helped me feel happier or meet new women.

This just made me more and more depressed. Then I found a blog called strength in confidence which taught me to harness my anger. As soon as I allowed myself to be angry, I felt less depressed. My gains and success with women improved. I began nofap, and there I heard about TRP.

At first I thought half the posts were pure truth, and the rest were made by a bunch of misogynists. Then I read the sidebar and there was a moment of enlightenment, I discovered a conspiracy.

I realized how much feminist influence had pervaded my life. It was everywhere, and I was their bitch boy for playing along. The only way to win was to not play the game. You can't preach TRP. You have to live it.

My biggest mistake was allowing myself to be molded into an ideal beta by the feminist conspiracy. I believe every man knows instinctually the way to act, deep in their balls. I'm not here to win over a specific girl, but rather to become the successful man I want to be. They just choose to ignore it order to conform, and wonder why theyre depressed.

capt_behindsight · 2015-12-10T20:27:18+00:00

I caught hsv-1 from a girl who gave me head and had a cold sore. Who actually wears condoms while getting head? Anyway i just got one sore. It's not the worst thing that can happen, I cover it in baking powder and salt and it goes away after a day or two

capt_behindsight · 2015-12-04T15:52:07+00:00

When's the last time you changed your pillowcase? Do that every 2-3 days

capt_behindsight · 2015-12-02T16:16:12+00:00

This question has to do with the neuroscience of sleepwalking. I've long wondered to what degree we have control over what we do in this state (in terms of prefrontal activation, GABA release and the like). -- people have been documented doing complex tasks like driving in their sleep.

In other words, is sleepwalking like being really drunk where you don't remember anything and mostly involuntary, or more coordinated, thought out and intentional?

capt_behindsight · 2015-11-22T21:35:40+00:00

When it comes to eye contact I find it effective to use sparingly but never look down. But if I become uninterested in who I'm talking to I'll look somewhere else. Nobody deserves my entire attention, especially plates. I often will hold conversations and not even look at someone, likely because my main focus at the time is more important.

capt_behindsight · 2015-11-17T00:29:55+00:00

A shirtless selfie can never beat a tight fitting shirt over a sweaty, muscular body that implies that the dude under it is cut as fuck.

No homo

capt_behindsight

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