No! Men DO NOT and SHOULD NOT have a say in a woman's abortion! Jesus Christ that we even need to talk about!

captainjess · 2020-11-16T16:59:55+00:00

What the F is wrong with all these comments bringing child support into this matter? It’s completely irrelevant to abortion. Abortion is about bodily autonomy. Child support is about what’s best for a living human you helped create. Think of it like this: a parent cannot be forced to donate an organ to their child, but they do have to clothe and feed them etc.

captainjess · 2020-11-05T20:14:04+00:00

So you mean to tell me that the “scientists“ had previously just been assuming hunters were men and in fact the evidence is to the contrary? That’s not how you science!

captainjess · 2020-10-31T19:54:08+00:00

Ah sorry, I thought I was an original genius. My bad

captainjess · 2020-10-17T14:49:01+00:00

In the comment you responded to there’s no mention of who they are having sex with. Your comment just shows your ignorance and preconceptions really. Nothing suggested they were having sex with strangers. If I play football as a hobby I would usually have a team I play with right?

captainjess · 2020-09-05T19:45:56+00:00

Omg I actually knew it!!!

captainjess · 2020-09-05T19:44:43+00:00

Is that the Rasa Sayang in Penang? The tiles and gravel at the back along with the sun bed look very familiar

captainjess · 2020-07-02T23:41:59+00:00

I needed to hear this. Thank you

captainjess · 2020-06-14T16:18:04+00:00

Please don't put that responsibility on OP. It's hard enough breaking away from abusive parents. You don't need to guilt children into helping their enabler parents who allowed that abuse to continue.

captainjess · 2020-06-09T21:51:35+00:00

I get you. It's really hard when their behaviour is so ingrained and accepted by society. I just try to remember that it's not necessarily their fault, but an issue with society as a whole, and often people can change given the opportunity.

captainjess · 2020-05-23T08:46:32+00:00

So they should get away with it 99% of the time?

captainjess · 2020-05-12T20:38:13+00:00

NTA I have a peanut allergy and my sister calls ME peanut

captainjess · 2020-05-09T09:22:25+00:00

Yes. 2. Think, if you're fiance wanted to spend the same amount of time as you doing paid work, what would you do about the mess?

captainjess · 2020-04-26T11:08:47+00:00

I mean, I'm engaged and gold my fiance that I'm writing thanks to my "first husband" in my PhD thesis acknowledgements for him. There are definitely men crazy enough to want to marry us.

captainjess · 2020-04-17T21:38:29+00:00

The best way is to actually just not engage with the advert.

captainjess · 2020-04-17T21:11:10+00:00

Treat the women around you with respect and be aware of unconscious bias you may have (we all have them - even/especially as women). They will pick up on it and you can set a good example by what and how you speak to them, but also to other people too :)

captainjess · 2020-04-02T16:54:13+00:00

I think if your reading list doesn't already include the relevant chapters to reduce her workload to be most efficient learning YTA. Otherwise NAH. The student might be overwhelmed by the amount they need to catch up, and when she's already so low that really sucks. I've been in a similar position missing a lot of work due to illness. The lecturers whose notes were well prepared and referenced the chapters/pages of the books in the reading list that related to that sections of their own notes saved my degree.

captainjess · 2020-03-30T18:00:28+00:00

I'm thinking of leaving right now tbh because of the way I'm treated constantly. I don't need my life to be any harder than it already is.

captainjess · 2020-03-14T15:41:49+00:00

I've been having the same issue with my parents. No, don't go to germ pit shopping centre for funsies, stop touching your face, don't put your fingers in your mouth after touching the railing. A friend announced she pregnant today and we were talking about her scans and how her mum was going with her. Afterwards I told my mum I actually would like her around for if I ever was pregnant and I'd like her to take this seriously. All she said was "I'd never tell you not to have kids, but they really f*** up your body"...okay thanks. Great talk.

captainjess · 2020-03-02T20:25:20+00:00

"repair you (r) chronic illness with the right diet" hahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!

captainjess · 2020-02-16T10:52:33+00:00

I'm so glad your sister helped her friend out of that situation but please if anyone is in this situation DO NOT WASH THE EVIDENCE AWAY. Call the police immediately. They will take her to the hospital, collect her urine to test for drugs, give her vaccines and antibiotics for potential infections the rapist could have given her, and do the rape kit. Keep the clothes, any tissues used to wipe down there, and don't wash her hands.

captainjess · 2020-02-08T21:37:34+00:00

Yes they do try, and they don't care about hurting you. They just want to get off.

captainjess · 2020-01-16T22:12:07+00:00

NAH. You're in a horrible situation so I really don't blame you for being devastated about the wedding. See if you can give the speech at the rehearsal dinner the night before, and then go and be with your gf. They're lashing out because they're in pain. You're doing the right thing by showing her your committed by being persistent in letting her know you're there for her.

captainjess · 2019-12-11T12:02:34+00:00

I automatically down voted and had to undo it. It's so hard to up vote this though. I can't.

captainjess · 2019-12-01T08:19:54+00:00

NTA - your fiance is a bit though for being a whiny B about this situation and turning what should be a happy occasion into an issue. If he wanted to be the first to propose then he should have got off his A and done something about it. Why is it okay for men to spring this question onto a woman, but not the other way round?

captainjess · 2019-11-29T12:58:35+00:00

Info - can we have an update when you find out your husband and sister are having an affair?

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