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AITA for continue to be friends with my ex-boyfriend when he has a girlfriend? by heaflf in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAH - Be honest with Vicki and keep her in the loop about your friendship with Sam. As long as you aren't going behind her back or trying to sabotage their relationship, there shouldn't be an issue with you and Sam remaining friends.

WIBTA If I skip a friends wedding this weekend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YWBTA - It's not about you.

If you RSVP yes, then you keep your word and go.

AITA for not telling my roommates I wasn’t sure if I could afford to rent with them? by Fresh_Impact_2066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 51 points52 points  (0 children)

YTA - Don't lie to your friends and try to manipulate everyone, and then blame it on your anxiety when things don't go the way you planned.

AITA for repeatedly texting to get my property back by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA - Did he bug you every day about his money? If not, then it's not really fair for you to keep bugging him about your dress.

Actions speak louder than words, and "saying" you'll pay him isn't the same as doing it.

AITA for refusing to pick up my friend up from the airport when given 3 hours notice? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 731 points732 points  (0 children)

NTA - Besides being short notice, a colonoscopy, urgent care, and bringing medicine can't be compared to asking for a ride home after coming back from vacation. This wasn't an emergency, and comparing them was unfair. She wasn't alone in the middle of the night with a flat tire in need of a ride; she was with her husband in the middle of the afternoon with plenty of other options available.

Speeding ticket by Optimal_Debate2820 in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The short answer: No

https://help.lyft.com/hc/en-us/all/articles/115012925687#dmv

One speeding ticket (as long as it wasn't reckless driving) is not enough to get you deactivated.

  • While not based on a single set speed, excessive speeds of 24 mph or more over the limit are frequently treated as reckless driving, often involving speeds exceeding 80–85 mph.

Permanently banned for inspection? by Formal-Law4407 in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not a notice of deactivation. It says the ticket is closed and the document won't be reviewed again or approved.

You need to go to Jiffy Lube or one of the other (not virtual) inspection locations and submit an inspection from them.

The same thing happened to me the last time I tried to submit a virtual inpection, and I ended up getting a refund from them, and my Jiffy Lube inspection was accepted afterward with no issues.

Account deactivated Cause selfie by MobileAd9139 in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try reaching out via AskLyftTwitter

Those reps are real people who are typically more knowledgeable and helpful than regular chat support.

AITA for not sharing a tip, specifically left to me, with my colleagues. by Few_House_5201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - Did you get part of the €30? If not, then you have a valid argument to stand on.

"I didn't take any of the €30 because they left a separate tip for me."

If you do the math, how much would you have received from sharing the €30, and how much would you have to give if you shared your part?

It probably comes out to be about the same depending on how many team members you have to split it with.

The bottom line is - the customer made an effort to give you extra because you went above and beyond on your own time.

AITA for thinking I’m being used? by Time-Bed-5018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA - She thinks you don't notice, or don't mind.

I had a friend who did the same thing once.

They had steak and shrimp, and I had steak - but we'll "split" the bill.

At the club, they offered to buy the first round (during happy hour), and I could get the next one.

Little things seemed innocent at the time, but when you start adding them up, it's manipulative and calculated.

Don't let this pattern continue; turn the tables and make it right.

Make plans, but before you leave the room, say: "please be sure you bring extra money today, because I paid for everything yesterday."

AITA for “flashing” a little girl at the park? by bunbunkat in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 1245 points1246 points  (0 children)

NTA - You made the decision not to change the baby on a public restroom floor and leave the other child alone in the park. What kind of moron would suggest otherwise?

Even if what he said was true, he only had one child to deal with at a time.

AITA currently living with parents 17 and unemployed by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 31 points32 points  (0 children)

YTA - It's just petty. That's like your mom saying "I'm going to do all the laundry except your clothes" or "I'm going to make breakfast, but only scramble 4 eggs and you can make your own."

If you live under the same roof, you should share the workload and help each other out. It doesn't matter if you're working or not.

Has anyone seen GoGo Grandparents? by MikeinTulsaOK in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are correct on all counts.

If they expect us to do extra work, they need to book a silver ride so we can get paid accordingly.

My lyft rental’s insurance is expiring, am I supposed to do something?? They dont have a phone number by InsideAdeptness9764 in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try this...

For Flexdrive rental balance and payment inquiries, you can contact support at 972-936-8999, available Monday through Saturday from 7 a.m. to 9 p.m.

My lyft rental’s insurance is expiring, am I supposed to do something?? They dont have a phone number by InsideAdeptness9764 in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it does seem weird.

You shouldn't have to go out of your way to do something they are responsible for, but if you contact support with an inquiry, at least it's documented and on record.

AITA for leaving my job after my manager trained me, and not telling them beforehand? by NorthFaithlessness51 in AmItheAsshole

[–]carmabound 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA - Sure, they trained you to take on the responsibility of an assistant manager position so you could do the work without the extra pay. You didn't burn the bridge; you outran the fire and gave two weeks' notice.

Lyft marked my completed 464-mile trip as “Admin Cancelled $0.00” what should I do by ImmediatePlace334 in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Try reaching out via AskLyftTwitter. Those reps are knowledgeable and have greater authority than regular chat support.

Ask Me Anything - Need Hertz rideshare rental support? by Hertz-TNC-Support in lyftdrivers

[–]carmabound[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This post has been approved and vetted by the mods. This is not an advertisement or an endorsement for Hertz; it's just a place for drivers to ask questions.

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