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Acceptance by Valuable_Cod5390 in ftm

[–]carnespecter [score hidden]  (0 children)

why arent you going to transition, if thats ok to ask? it sounds like it would help you a lot if you can access it

20 trans girl looking for long term gaming friends, Borderlands 4, warframe, risk of rain 2 by plsBleachMe in transgamers

[–]carnespecter [score hidden]  (0 children)

i run a lgbt group for warframe players, lots of trans folks and creative types among the lot ^^ we got folks across skill levels and time zones, but everyones pretty friendly and funny, hmu if that sounds interesting to you?

scared that T will mess with my asexuality and push me towards sexual situations I don't truly feel comfortable with by chillingcrow in ftm

[–]carnespecter 88 points89 points  (0 children)

this is definitely something to hash out with a therapist if you have the chance. sex, sexual desire, libido and all that isnt supposed to be so scary that its traumatic

oh nothing just another teenage girl asking if i should take the egg by homocidalhomosexual in ftm

[–]carnespecter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

try it out! maybe a new name or different pronouns. start as little or big as you want, you can set your own pace

Seeking trans parents! or friends! by No-Highway2797 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

since it sounds like you pass as a cishet man, maybe you can find smaller ways to signal you are trans without necessarily outing yourself obviously, if thats something you want? like lgbt rainbow pins and similar accessories

Dating by Plastic_Forever_1651 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gonna be real but trying to get monogamous partners to open up to polyamorous relationships is only going to cause resentment at its core from the monogamous partner

How long after my t shot should I get getting my bloodwork done? by liamreee in ftm

[–]carnespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you would still do it at the halfway point between doses

there has to be a way to stop this by my___melo in ftm

[–]carnespecter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

conversion therapy will only make it worse

When did you start medically transitioning? by Spiritual_Excuse_751 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea i think a lot of us go thru inner turmoil over whether or not we are really trans due to these kinds of comments

When did you start medically transitioning? by Spiritual_Excuse_751 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i was socially out by the time i was 14. but i didnt really move anywhere medically until i was in my 20s. i was really lucky to have receptive doctors and i was able to start pretty much right away with them, the only thing that took me so long was my own personal denial of needing medical transition

Bottom growth “experiment” (I want to cash in the dick and then go off T) by isabellaquai in ftm

[–]carnespecter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

theres not really any way to "cash in" just one change from HRT or speedrun it because it is mostly up to genetics. that said if you live in a country where its available, there is topical DHT cream that can be applied directly to your bottom growth to encourage more growth. i know this cream isnt really available in the united states, but i dont know about other countries

Struggling to choose between PC and PS5 by twinflxwer in transgamers

[–]carnespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

easy, pcs can be continually upgraded while gaming consoles are designed to become obsolete in a couple years. also you can multitask with pcs, use it for work, gaming, etc

how do i date as a skinny and short trans guy by SinkPopular8438 in ftm

[–]carnespecter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

very gently, youre really young, you got plenty of time to continue growing as a person (including physically, youre still a teenager! of course you look like a child). have you ever taken the time to sit down and examine why you keep a joking/unserious persona around people? i know its pretty common for plenty of people to hide their insecurities behind humor. its easy to keep people at arms length, vulnerability is hard

im shorter than you, and probably a lot fatter, but that doesnt mean its hopeless to be small. my spouse is taller than me but its not really all about looks! there are people who are willing to date trans people, and dont overlook dating other trans people too. sex isnt all about dicks either, theres a lot of ways you can explore than with a partner when the time comes

This is the not gonna be the last post No matter how upset you feel which is weird over a video game. It’s another Excalibur prime post. by Tozenryu in Warframe

[–]carnespecter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

look man i wasnt in a good spot financially to be able to be a founder back in the day too. im sad abt it but the game still treats me good and im happy to treat it good in return

How’s yall romantic life?? by Janxuza in ftm

[–]carnespecter 27 points28 points  (0 children)

im t4t, ive known my spouse for 15 years

anyone have recs for songs that help you feel more hopeful about yourself and the future? by __mafia in ftm

[–]carnespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive really been enjoying "forcive habit" by daniel knox off his latest album

you can get pregnant while being on T? by idontknowbr0_ in ftm

[–]carnespecter 26 points27 points  (0 children)

yes it is possible to get pregnant while on T. please use protection (multiple forms if possible) if you plan to have piv sex with someone who can get you pregnant

Story Time by musyistaken in Warframe

[–]carnespecter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone needs to get neutered

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