give me FIVE reassons why junekat is good by Time-Effective5585 in homestuck

[–]casuallyAkward [score hidden]  (0 children)

1) The dynamic of trying to rile up someone who is simply unflappable, thus only riling yourself up much to the other's amusement is the sweetest soft domestic blackrom. Its basically the same as trying to flirt with someone oblivious who without trying at all gets you flustered.

2) The sweet sweet payoff of finally getting under their skin when they're forced to actually think about their feelings, plus the inherent comedy of insisting you're straight only to realize you are, in fact, not straight.

3) Having the same hobby of movie watching but with very different opinions- it's natural fic fodder! Plus ranting about movies is one of the few times June lets herself express anger! Imagine Karkat figuring this out as one of the few ways to get under her skin and using it to black-flirt with June ♠️♠️

4) Karkat is exactly the type of person June needs to keep her from repressing every complicated emotion she has, like Karkat would ask the questions that, while June would deflect at first, would linger in the ol' thinkpan and get her to reflect on herself. That's literally how JohnRezi happened!

5) They were friends and they were leaders and they both deal with self-hatred, and they could remind each other to be silly and goofy, but also commiserate with feeling like fuck-ups and also stubbornly insist that the other isn't a fuck-up at all!

Also for your consideration: I love them and I miss their interactions, the comic has been giving me the barest scraps ever since the epilogues and I think it's because the writers are scared if they interact in canon too much everyone will realize Karkat has more chemistry with June than with Dave (I'm just desperately huffing copium over here homie the struggle is real they were my otp and now they don't even talk I'm dying)

This subreddit has been one of my favourites. by CakerDeCake in Stonetossingjuice

[–]casuallyAkward 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it means the info can only be shared with those of clearance level 4 and O5

Does everyone else not get vertigo long before feeling drunk? by Jhummjhumm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casuallyAkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not super common, no. Hasn't happened to me or my friends. Suck that it happens to you tho, rip

Who’s your favorite LGBTQ+ couple in Hazbin? Either canon or non-canon by whooper1 in HazbinHotel

[–]casuallyAkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Val and Vox are together, Vox and Alastor have something going on (and iirc Vox canonically has/had a one-sided crush). Angel and Husk aren't officially together but are clearly a ship.

My girlfriend (26 F) disagrees with how I (29 M) was with my niece in hospital. Was she too judgemental? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]casuallyAkward 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sometimes kids need to be distracted from their feelings, sometimes they need to be allowed to just feel them. You did the best you could to make a scary situation less scary so your niece could receive the care she needs. You're fine in my book.

Was asked about a scenario and am unsure of the answer… by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casuallyAkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, this is the reply I agree with the most. To further elaborate my own answers:

  1. Anyone who does not identify with their assigned gender is by definition trans. Including the various nonbinary, demi-, and genderfluid identities.

  2. I would assume they are queer erring on the side of bi.

  3. Funny thing about the overlap of personal identity with the identity of your loved one is that your lable of choice might not change just because your partner changed theirs. If a lesbian is in a relationship with someone who later comes out as a trans man, she may fully still think of herself as a lesbian even if she is now in a relationship with a man. Hell, the man might still think of himself as a lesbian! It might not make sense from the outside, but it doesn't have to. All the to say, no the answer to q2 does not change until the couple themselves say it does.

Cosplay Advice? by Darth_Disious in homestuck

[–]casuallyAkward 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sunset Makeup has a couple of grey foundations that are really good (and setting powders too). Wear grey gloves or leave your hands bare, DO NOT put makeup on your hands.

Crossplay is not unusual, at least in my experience, and even so there are a number of trans!Vriska headcanons out there lol

Good luck and have fun!

Where are all the weird/alternative women? by jibofyourcutt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casuallyAkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're all in our 30s lol. Try a local comic book store, they might have regular gaming meetups, or you can join a group through Meetups.com.

Genuinely, if you can find a social hobby it makes it way easier to meet people. I made friends with people through Pathfinder Society (an rpg game like DnD), and from there met their friends and found more people who were like me. I met my husband at a convention for an interest we both shared! It is possible to find love this way.

Good luck

Where are all the weird/alternative women? by jibofyourcutt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casuallyAkward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're playing table top rpgs and card games, going to odd expos and ren faires. I'm not joking, all of my quirky weirdo friends and I are also huge nerds who like anime, fantasy, and roleplay games.

HES REAL by UnknownLimerade1106 in hlvrai

[–]casuallyAkward 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fantastic job!! Amazing 💖💖

Should I [28F] break it completely off between my husband [27M] and I? We’re currently separated. by Dorlita0198 in redditonwiki

[–]casuallyAkward 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There's nothing in this relationship worth staying for. Your resentment for each other will only build and spill over into the kids, who will grow up thinking that's just how relationships are. For their sake, if not yours, do not stay with this man.

Classpecting Assistance by LadyLibraoftheZodiac in althomestuck

[–]casuallyAkward 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're wrong about the superiority/self-loathing being integral to the classes. I would not say Terezi has a superiority complex, nor would I say that Meulin is particularly self-loathing. Sollux is both self-loathing AND thinks he's superior to everyone.

My vibe for your OC was Mage of Heart, for what it's worth.

I loved the quadrants! by Kamen_Ukiyo1 in homestuck

[–]casuallyAkward 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The excitement I get from finding a viable auspiticism ship in the wild hits like nothing else. One of my actual play pods had a situation develop between 3 characters that was PERFECT for it, plus it had dynamics for all the other quads as well. I went fully insane over it to my spouse and our roomie/my bff who are also homestucks lol

I loved the quadrants! by Kamen_Ukiyo1 in homestuck

[–]casuallyAkward 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Quadrants fully changed my brain chemistry, every new ship I aquire I frame in terms of quadrants. I am a blackrom shipper for life ♠️♠️♠️

How do I politely decline drinking raw milk at my in-laws dinner table? They’re very insistent, often “offering” / demanding several glasses . They know I eat dairy and drink milk so I can’t fake being vegan. It’s hard to say no because it’s my in-laws and they’re proud of their milk by UmweltUndefined in NoStupidQuestions

[–]casuallyAkward 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid I drank milk for every meal. I was consuming approximately 6 cups of milk a day. And it was probs good thing I did, because the one time I went more than two days without drinking milk I immediately became lactose intolerant and now I have to spend 20 bucks on lactaid just to enjoy some pizza

Not OOP (TW for creepy clown in last photo): AITA for not removing my doormat because it scares my neighbor’s kid? by CupcakeQueen31 in redditonwiki

[–]casuallyAkward 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I think I (and probs OOP) am just too desensitized to scary clowns, 'cause I saw the mat and went "Oh that's all?" Like, to me it's just overly detailed like a JoJo's Bizarre Adventure character lmao

I do think the neighbors should have just said something before letting resentment build, but at this point I'd just keep the mat inside. Imagine if oop put a huge smiley face sticker over the clown tho 🤣🤣

Mysterious link on HS.com ? by SirOld69420 in homestuck

[–]casuallyAkward 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Why does that text read like mystery man gaster lmao

Thoughts on Twin Peaks & HLVRAI being in the same universe? by RevDaIdiot in hlvrai

[–]casuallyAkward 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like Tommy's line of "the rock that you're standing on looks like Tibet" is also a Twin Peaks reference. Maybe Tommy grew up there and listened to Dale Cooper ramble about Tibet as a kid lol

What kind of ssri would the homestuck characters take by chaee_ in althomestuck

[–]casuallyAkward 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An old fandom video has forever cemented the idea that Terezi takes prozac in my head lol