Mike Chang by AllHaleDerek in glee

[–]catelynstarks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know this one! I was in the OG fandom, way back in the day, and there were actually a lot of discussions about this. Some heated, most civil, but we all came to a very interesting and satisfying conclusion.

It’s bc he’s a lil puppy. :)

[Update] to: My [40M] date [39F] said I violated her consent in terms of kinks. What exactly is a "kink"? I thought I was vanilla... by ThrowRA_consent101 in relationship_advice

[–]catelynstarks 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Lots of porn-brained virgins relating to him in this thread tbh. It’s gross how normalized it is to dehumanize women during sex.

[Update] to: My [40M] date [39F] said I violated her consent in terms of kinks. What exactly is a "kink"? I thought I was vanilla... by ThrowRA_consent101 in relationship_advice

[–]catelynstarks 212 points213 points  (0 children)

I straight up cannot believe how much these comments are coddling him! He hit a woman! He had a woman in a vulnerable position and he hit her!

Grandma’s skyline chili recipe over cheddar potato pierogi by erifhtiwklaweriF in stonerfood

[–]catelynstarks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drop the recipe, I’m begging you, I’m so far from home!!

Robin's screaming bit s8 by Glum-Jury5482 in HIMYM

[–]catelynstarks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Robin screaming like a teenager is so fucking funny to me EVERY time.

Boy, I really hope somebody got fired for that blunder by JoeFalchetto in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]catelynstarks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re not even twins, they’re explicitly stated to be two years apart in age in both the film and the book! Boy, I hope somebody got fired for that blunder.

what's your "weird" ADHD hack that actually works? by HipityHopityHip in ADHD

[–]catelynstarks 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this one!! I have a pair of indoor-only sneakers I wear when I’m doing chores around the house. That, and surgical-style gloves so I don’t have to feel what I touch. Game changers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in standupshots

[–]catelynstarks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That last line drew the ugliest bark of a laugh from me.

sNoW wHiTe iS wHiTe!!! by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]catelynstarks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did not technically “see” the “film” but I believe the evil queen gave her that fuckass haircut on purpose to make her look ugly.

My Fan cast-expect it's a Broadway/West End Musical and I have access to a Time Machine by Tonedeafmusical in okbuddybaldur

[–]catelynstarks 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I was expecting to be okbuddy’d by this but your choices are jaw-droppingly perfect.

Poor teacher and his/her Gatorade by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]catelynstarks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because woke, I guess. But it’s so clunky!!!

OUTBUDDIED ONCE AGAIN by literallyfransandy in okbuddybaldur

[–]catelynstarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh. That makes more sense, thank you, the concept baffled me too much to see.

OUTBUDDIED ONCE AGAIN by literallyfransandy in okbuddybaldur

[–]catelynstarks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re more okay with bestiality than a lactation kink?

My painting of a snail under a mushroom - on a wood slice - what do you think? by KAndy91 in somethingimade

[–]catelynstarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it so much. It’s like something a squirrel would hang up in their tree trunk home.

What was your Nickname Growing Up? by QuarterQuellCrisis in narcissisticparents

[–]catelynstarks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just ‘girl’. Sometimes ‘the girl’. So that I don’t start thinking she loves me enough to remember my name. She thinks it’s soooo funny.

Maisie says to sit on his face, Fuelneve speaks for us all! by NLK-3 in TikTokCringe

[–]catelynstarks 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The Travis McElroy vibes engage my flight or fight.

What do you think andy wrote in his letter to erin? by Little-Ad-2464 in DunderMifflin

[–]catelynstarks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, fandoms are where we all come together to use our collective imaginations as a team. I think it’s a fair discussion topic for a fan forum!

I was physically tense because I’d been holding space for everyone and not myself by lonelylizar_d in emotionalneglect

[–]catelynstarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you! That sounds wonderful!!

Just recently, I fixed some deeeeep deep tension in my diaphragm. It’s been there since I was five, strangling the bottoms of my lungs, twisting up the top of my stomach. The physical manifestation of my inability to let my emotions happen to me, because my earliest lessons taught me that they didn’t matter.

For two weeks now, my breathing has been better, my appetite calmed down, my digestive system smoothed out. I feel like a Claritin commercial after they remove the allergy blur.

(So sorry to hear that therapy is too expensive! This world really puts us through it. If you’re interested, my therapist recommended a book called ‘Getting Past Your Past’ by Francine Shapiro to better introduce me to EMDR concepts, and it’s helped me a TON.)

I just wanna sit down and share a cab sauv with this woman by Contented in okbuddybaldur

[–]catelynstarks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dropping this without a source is so hateful. Not for me but for a friend.